Collarspace.com

First, what I am looking for.
    I am looking for a person (maybe a couple, but see below) that will be my other half. I am looking for a relationship first and foremost. I am on here because behind closed doors I am submissive. I enjoy letting go, and having another have their way with me. This being said I am not looking for just sex, or one night stands, or anything. If that is all you are looking for look elsewhere. I do not believe I want a 24/7 D/S relationship either, but I have never had one of those, so it is hard for me to say on that. I am Bisexual so my partner can be male or female, but obviously a dominant works best :).

On to couples... I have tried a poly relationship, and I do not think they will work for me except if it if it is a true triumvirate. I need to be an equal partner in the relationship with the other two people. I wont be a secondary to your Wife/Husband, I get jealous, and it wont work in my head. To be 100% honest I don't know if a Triumvirate will work, but I haven't tried it so I wont rule it out.

Lastly (if your still reading) Please be local. I have a wonderful job that I have no intentions of quitting, so I wont relocate.

About me...
    As I have yet to find a suitable picture.. I am 5'9" (Yes tall) average weight, Not skinny Not large, but not a super model. I like to dress up, and I have no qualms about playing in public. My greatest drawback in a relationship (I am told) is the fact I wish to share the fountain of useless knowledge in my head, so I come across as a "know it all" but I will be the first to admit when I am wrong. I am willing to try almost anything once, and I will never disparage something with out trying it, though I do know that some things are not for me :)...

If you have more questions feel free to message, and I will try and answer them.
lilian
 
 Age: 29
 Fulton, Illinois