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Pan Female Submissive, 33,  Boston, Massachusetts
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In this journey I have come to discover more of myself, and who I am in the BDSM scene. But I am still learning all the time, and that is part of the journey for me. :) I am identifying as a submissive these days. It is the one identity that strike more within who I am outside the BDSM theater, and I am going with it immensely. So here is a little bit more about me: 1) I am married to my primary partner. She is in her own BDSM relationship, I am seeking my own. 2) I am not seeking to be anyones top/domme, etc. I repeat DO NOT ask me to top or domme you. It is not within me, so please save the messages for those who are seeking to top/domme/etc. 3) I am looking to meet tops and dommes who can be gentle and slightly rough, I am not a hardcore sub right now. I am willing to learn through time and lessons, but do not expect me to handle the hardcore stuff right now. 4) Service play is something that I am very good at. Maid/servant/50's housewife are roles I really enjoy and find alot of pleasure in. 5) I am not looking to be a live in slave/maid. I am not looking for a full-time thing, just part time fun on the weekends and occasional weeknights when time allows. Also please do not ask me to relocate. That is not something I am interested in. I am happily married, and am very happy where I live. What I am seeking from potential new play partners: Be Local(Mass, NH, Maine,), but as of right now I prefer people in the Massachusetts area Intelligence, Creativity, Sensitivity, Safety(this is a big one on all fronts: safe-words getting tested if there is to be ANY sexual contact of any sort) Respecting Limits, Communication(this is up there with safety, before any activity takes place communicating expectations and limits are to be respected and agreed upon.) Ability to have fun, hang out outside of the BDSM spectrum(coffee, movies, festivals, clubs, etc). What I am not seeking: Drama. Three word messages, seriously give me a bit more then that if you are trying to contact me. If you cannot do that I will simply ignore you. If you do not have a picture of yourself(avatars and dick pics do not count) again, don't bother. I only state these because I sincerely want to find quality people to interact with, and at my age I think that is not too big a thing to ask.











 Submissive Female



 5' 6"






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Switch Women

Switch Male

Domme/Dom Couples


 Lives For:

 Flea Markets (Expert)

 Garage Sales (Expert)

 Renaissance Faires (Expert)

 Corsetry (Expert)

 Being Massaged


 Horror Movies

 Science Fiction

 Cooking (Expert)


 Tattoos (Expert)

 Veganism (Expert)

 Alternative Music


 Art Galleries

 Clubbing (Expert)

 Coffee Shops



 SCA (Beginner)




 Bondage (Beginner)

 Cane / Crop Discipline


 Local BDSM Community

 Housework Service

 Modern Primitivism (Beginner)

 Clothing Selection

 Role Playing

 Rubber Fetish

 Spanking (Beginner)



 Theatrical Scenes

 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games


 Historical Shows

 Role Playing Games

 Web Surfing




 Paranormal Phenomena

 1950s Lifestyle

 Female Supremacy

 Goth Lifestyle


 Victorian Lifestyle

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Industrial Music

 New Wave

 Nineties Music


 Punk Rock Music

 Rock Music




 Amusement Parks

 Fine Dining


 Breast Play


 Masks (Wearing)



 Comedy Shows


 Online RPGs


 Liberal Politics


 Blue Grass


 EMO Music

 Folk Music


 Heavy Metal Music

 Hip Hop Music


 Opera Music

 Pop Music



 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes






 Hair Pulling (Beginner)

 Whips (Beginner)


 Online Chatrooms


 TV News

 Country Music

 New Age Music


 Curious About:


 Corner Time


 Electrical Play


 Fire Play (Beginner)

 Gags (Beginner)



 Masks on Partner

 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage

 Orgasm Control (Beginner)

 Maid / Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Public Play


 Suspension Bondage (Beginner)

 Tickling (Beginner)

 Wax Play (Beginner)

 Feng Shui





 Eye Contact Restrictions

 BDSM Rituals

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Foot Worship

 Sensation Play

 Speech Restrictions

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Journal Entries:
12/15/2013 3:37:26 PM

If I say I am not interested in relocating to another state, and I send a nice message saying no, isn't that enough to say that I am not interested? No, have to get another message saying i essentially the same darn thing and have to block a user...geesh.

10/28/2012 8:07:11 AM
had a amazing first experience with a top last night. erotic and loving. you never forget your first. the post scene euphoria was incredible... lasted hours afterwards.

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