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Pan Female Slave, 38,  Nashua, New Hampshire
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OH PLEASE READ THE WHOLE PROFILE. :-) No Online. Must be within 100 Miles of Nashua New Hampshire. I'm transgendered and intersexed. Which means I have breasts and a dick. If you can't handle that, then move along. I'm no longer married. We have split formally and stay as friends. I'm a Sub, maybe a slave. I'm pansexual. I like all genders/gender presentations. I want to feel pain. Good and bad pain. I adore bondage. I'm a fucking slut for rope, or for good sex. I like to get out to munches and be in the kink community. I enjoy service. Ages 25-55 are fine. Whip me, beat me, make me beg. Or something like that. It of course goes so much deeper than that. We all know that. ;) Aftercare is good. Safe words are essential Protection is too. Be disease, drama, and drug free. It's ok if you smoke cigs or have the random drink here or there. Again, for the dense. I HAVE BREASTS AND A DICK. Go away if that freaks you out. Not into pic swapping or kik, or endless texting. Message me, I'll message back a few times, if we connect, we get coffee, neogotiate,and game on. That's how it goes. Couples/Poly folks are fine too. Cheers. PS: yes I'm on that other site that we all love. That fet life site. My profile name there is: -jena-












 Female Slave


 New Hampshire

 5' 5"

 115 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Dominant Female

Dominant male

Switch Male

Domme/Dom Couples

Female Led Couples

Male Dom Couples

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Coffee Shops


 Local BDSM Community


 Massage (Giving)

 Sensation Play



 Intellectual Discourse

 Goth Lifestyle


 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires


 Eye Contact Restrictions


 Obedience Training

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Speech Restrictions


 Theatrical Scenes

 Board Games

 TV News

 Liberal Politics

 Political Activism


 Alternative Music

 Industrial Music

 Nineties Music






 Anal Play

 Corner Time

 BDSM Rituals

 Domestic Service






 Lifestyle BDSM

 Electronica / EDM

 Heavy Metal Music



 Folk Music

 Curious About:

 Masks on Partner

 Modern Primitivism

 Sensory Deprivation

 Suspension Bondage


 Modern Paganism




 Online Chatrooms


 Conservative Politics

 Hard Limits:

 Fire Play (Expert)

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Journal Entries:
1/23/2014 2:44:36 PM

It's weird how collarme seems to be the weirdest, and worst, but sometimes the best shines through.  I've been on here nearly 10 years (wow).  And a number of friends, play dates, and even a relationship or two has resulted.  Yes, it's not quite like that site... But it fulfills it's need as a way to put one's self out there, have a "dating" profile, etc.  I'll always be here, and my profile on "the other site" is the same as my profile name here.


Cheers to some good.  And some weird.  And a bit of bad. :-/

9/30/2008 7:38:21 PM

Collarme has been good to me  over the last four years.  I've met a few choice people on here, one or two who have found special places in my heart, and it's been wonderful.

7/3/2008 5:21:45 AM
How to generate replies...
Put a slightly revealing pic up.

 Sweet jebus, it's like putting out a jar of honey for fruit flies.  'Tis too bad that most of the attention is from somewhat unwanted sources, but eh.  What can you do?

Thanks for the compliments and kind words, but Local Boston folks only please.

4/19/2008 11:19:09 AM
Not with my old partner anymore.
Time and lifes change.  She and I maintain a friendship, since she's a wonderful person.

I'm not necessarily looking for anyone else to be with.  I'm kinda keen on just being me for now.  And that's a good thing.

5/30/2005 5:10:39 AM
The Hormones are working quite wonderfully.  I'm well on my way to an A-Cup, and slowly the other changes are affecting my body.  My skin is softer, and my curves are coming in quite nicely.

11/17/2004 2:14:02 AM
While I truly do appreciate all of the responses that I get, I do hope that everyone takes the time to read what I am seeking, and evaluate it in comparison with what they are seeking.  That way everyone finds what they want, and everyone is happy.


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