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Male Submissive, 35, Hagen
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Male Switch, 25, New York
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Dominant Couple, 26, North Miami, Florida
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About mixedupgirl
26 year old, Scottish submissive girl. 4'10" with abit more to love.
First off. If you don't have any pictures or are unable to send one (of your face), i'm afraid i won't respond to your mail. Not because i'm shallow but because well i have a picture, i feel it only right i get to see you in return. :)
Fed up wasting time online to be honest, i'm not very keen on this site but i thought i'd update my profile once more and give it another chance.
I'd like to meet someone who sparks my interest... it's been a while.
By interest, i mean in more ways than just bdsm. Someone who can think for five minutes about something other than chaining me to his bed and using me as he wishes. For all that is fun there has to be other elements and reasons to be together.
I have to be able to have other things besides bdsm to talk with my Dom about. :)
I am interested in bondage, gags, i am currently still exploring how far i can go with pain, i experienced a Dom who dealt in corporal punishment, i love wax, i have experience with only three different Doms, one i lived with as a 24/7 sub for a year where we experimented with TPE as realistically as our lives allowed.
I am primarily interested in D/s. Discipline, rules, structure, TPE, i LOVE tasks, i am the ultimate people pleaser when i become attached to somebody.
I don't respond well to Doms who treat me like a brainless worthless piece of meat but at the same time i don't respond well to a Dom who allows me to just do what i please.
I can be a handful, i don't mean to be it's just how i am sometimes . i can be opinionated, i have my own mind and i want to be able to exercise my own thoughts and ideas without being forced to function like a mindless robot. I want to find a Dom who can appreciate that in a submissive but also have the Dominance to be able to keep control of me when i do get abit fiery.
I want to feel that control. If i feel like i can get my own way, i will lose respect.
Boundaries make me feel safe, if i feel safe i can submit with confidence.
I think this is possibly the most honest profile i have written online.
I used to write crap about being a "true" submissive etc etc...
Truth be told, i am very submissive. A true anything, i don't believe in. I am still learning, and i do believe that no matter how much i learn about bdsm and submission, with every Dominant and every submissive the rules and dynamics vary so much that it's impossible to learn how to please a single person if you have yet to meet him.
I have been through alot of shit i also have a brain in my head so that being said, i don't drop to my knees for any Dominant who attempts to "take" me. I'm interested in submitting for the long haul therefor trust has to be established. I'm looking for a Dominant who is going to be honest with me,take care of me, control me, discipline me when it's needed, ideally i am searching for someone who "gets me" and accepts me.
If he is the right one and has the time to invest in me i will bend to his will and become what he desires, in all ways. I know that with time and effort, i can be something amazing for the right person.
I will be his loyal, loving and obedient submissive, with added spark to keep him on his toes. ;-)
Life would never be dull...
Unless he REALLY wanted it to be. :-P
I have recently become active in the local bdsm scene, getting out there and meeting new kinky people whilst educating myself on all things bdsm is great. |
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A few people have pointed out my profile, although says i would like more to talk about with a Dominant than just BDSM, it has no indication of what i'm like outside of BDSM.
Although this is a fair point, i suppose i left that out because it would be some what of a starting point for conversation via private messaging.
I decided i would write a little bit about me as a person rather than just a submissive in my journal.
I am currently an art student, about to begin my second year. It's my main focus at the moment. I don't yet study any specific type of art, my course is very mixed and i am enjoying it. I have favourites though, one being painting, the other being photography.
I love animals (in a non kinky sense, please don't see this as an opening to send me mail about your beastality fetishes because i can assure you i will NOT respond)
I work in a pet store, and i really like to travel, recently travelled to America and Finland which i loved and i hope to get to see more of the world soon. :)
I am a creative, strong willed and independant girl. I enjoy intelligent people i can learn from. I get a real buzz from learning and being taught.
I like originality and anything a little different or quirky.
I like rock music mostly but i'm no snob, i enjoy all kinds of music. If it's catchy, i don't care if people think it's uncool, i'm gonna listen to it anyway :)
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If you're a weirdo please contact me, i'm just dying to get to know you.
(Thought i'd give reverse psychology a go) 
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I found a reason to stay on the site....
TETRIS!!!!!!!  *grins*
If i don't respond.... i'm sorry, i'm playing tetris. |
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This is the abuse people have to put up with on this site. Seriously?
I've only been back on here less than a week and already i am considering deleting my account. And yes, i have reported and blocked the person who sent this email it's not that it's upsetting it's just a case of not needing to deal with such utter crap every day. What is it with some people?
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fucking fake scottish cunt
The reason you got that message was I originally sent you a message saying 4.10 I bet you are cute no reply I then sent yo a message saying I dont suppose you take compliments which in your wisdom decided like many other fake trailer trash on here was to just not respond again, you go around being an ignorant cunt you will face abuse, simple as, and judging by what I have read I am not the first to notice this
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This guy is apparently 50 years old. Obviously with the mentality of a 10 year old. |
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I have just been sent some e-mails on here accusing me of being a man.
Weird.
I've only been using this site for a few days, although my profile was made a long time ago i never used it because i became owned until a while ago, so i have no idea why out of the blue people i've never even talked to are accusing me of being a man.
It's no big deal though, i just find it odd.
Anyone who i connect or hit it off with is more than welcome to see more pictures of me, and even my face on cam or hear me on mic.
However, i'm not sending or doing this for every random e-mail i recieve. Only people as i say, who i have began actually having proper conversations with.
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