Misub2train

Why is it that every dom on here either wants you to pay for them or they want you to do everything for them. That... really doesn't come across as being very dom like. It sound like in order for you to dominate some one, you need a hand out, or a handy man. 

I think one major change that Collarme could do that the whole site could benefit from would be to have a check box or a column where pro Dom(mes) could check. I think this would save time on both ends. It's kinda annoying to read a whole profile only to learn of the money commitment at the end. Some subs like myself just can't relocate, or pay a large tribute each month, or session. At the same time a Dom wouldn't want to waste time with some one who couldn't, so being able to filter search results from both sides would help everyone out. 

So I've been on here a little bit. Still trying to figure out my place. Trying to figure out what I want out of this site and a trainer. Granted, I know the sub/dom dynamic is about power an control, rather my lack there of.  Just how much power and control I'm ready to give up, I'm not sure yet.