I've been here a bit over a month now, what an odd little site. Clearly not well advertised, or their would be more people here. This is a rant of sorts, if you find these things distastful, don't read any further.
I've been participating in the forums here since my arrival at Collarme, and it would seem that the "Ask a Mistress" section is little more than a farce, as the dominant males and submissive females seem to feel left out (even though they have an "Ask a Master" section) and simply cannot refrain from answering posts to us dominant ladies. Wonder why that is?
As it stands the Maledom/subfem orientation has a monopoly on the BDSM community as a whole. Why do they have to piss in the Femdom/submale's cornflakes? What part of "THIS ISN'T YOUR ORIENTATION, SHUT THE FUCK UP, DON'T YOU UNDERSTAND?"
I could care less about their opinions and ideas because what works for femsubs doesn't usually translate and work for malesubs. Our dynamic is entirely different, get a clue!
Which explains the main reason I've stopped attending group meetings in my area. No one does demos or discusses or even wants to discuss the dynamics of Femdom/malesub relationships, techniques, etc. It is all geared to the Maledom/femsub orientation. Which bores me to no end.
I've had enough. I should be moving to Seattle in the next few months and the number one priority on my agenda is to set up and facilitate a "Femdom/malesub" only support group. Afternoon tea parties with demos on techniques will be offered.
Fun, fun, fun.
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