I am a bbw-hetero-bi kinky-polyamorous Domme. That translates to; I'm a big beautiful Domme who is straight but will "play" with any gender and I believe in the ability to love more than one person at a time. :)
I am married and have been for 12 years, and I plan to stay that way. My husband knows what I do, and is not only ok with it, but he is who I turn to for advice. Honesty is integral to being with me. If you're not honest, then you can move on right now. I will not be "the other woman" or help you cheat on your wife.
I am looking for more than just a play partner. I am looking for someone to hopefully have a relationship with. If you are looking for a Domme to occasionally tie you up and flog you (or whatever your kink may be), and then go on with your life as usual until the next urge hits, I am not her. If you are looking for a Domme to serve, give over some control to, and realize that it's about what she wants, and not always about when you're going to get tied up and used, welcome! If you realize that the more happy your Domme is, the more likely it is you'll get what you desire, then I hope to hear from you.
I am a fairly easygoing person, but after I really get to know someone I can be very demanding. I do not feel it's proper to automatically dominate someone I just met. Until negotiations are made and boundaries and expectations are discussed, I am just a normal person. If you are disrespectful to me, I will call you on it though. Prospective subs may call me Ma'am, Miss or my name (if I choose to give it to you). That being said, I try my best to be non-judgmental. I love to laugh and to make others laugh. Do not let my fun loving nature fool you into thinking that I am lacking in power though. I am kinda shy to begin with, but that just gives me time to examine my prey and plan accordingly. ;)