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Gentle Reminder~~I seek new and interesting friends only; I can't be bothered about anothers age, kinks, orientation and fetishes; I enjoy people of all shape sizes and flavours. Hard limits are a mean and judgemental personality
and inability to string words into sentences.
Not looking at this time. I may consider a female help/play mate so ....MAYBE accepting applicants for 24/7~I have found My slave but what the heck. I am interested in casual or parttime real life service (not the kind of service that requires a haz-mat suit or exchange of bodily fluids) female or trans submissives (equal opportunity Dominatrix). My preference be that you are well groomed, articulate, have some skill(s) to offer in service. I insist upon cleanliness, over the age of 35, an open and healthy balanced outlook on life. One line or idiotic contact messages will result in the sender being blocked.
Ar in bith án astaither
A coraib bél bertaigter
For the great world is secured
By contracts which are proclaimed.
These two lines of verse are from §36 of "Di Astud Chor". In traditional Irish law, contracts -- formal agreements between individuals -- were the bedrock on which an ordered society was established. The proclamation and honouring of the collar within the BDSM community is the "social contract" that allows for a Mistress and slave to grow together and enjoy the support of this community without conflict.
If it is a true Mistress you seek, sit firmly in your own submission. Submit to yourself and to the idea of submission. Give in. Give it up. She will see it. She will be drawn to it. She will know. She will hear your cry and see your hunger and it will cause Her own to rise. Express it without hesitation and without vulgarity. And most importantly, express it with dignity and in a language of whispers only She will hear. Live it from your center, from your soul. (unknown author)
The only abnormality is the incapacity to love ~ Anais Nin
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Chivalry exists; indeed it does. Many thanks to There2EnhanceHer for his thoughtful little service; a gift of his time. |
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Many Moons since I updated my journal, philosophy and I got married last year. Much fun was had by all, huge amounts of wonderful tasty food was consumed and copious quantities of beverage drank. All in all a great success! |
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A bizarre and somewhat surreal return to the CM site. Having not logged on in well over 3 months I was amazed to return to an inbox full of somewhat disjointed and moderately accusatory letters citing my "rude behaviour" and whinging on about Old School Honour (often spelled incorrectly) on the "other side".....peculiar.....as Alice would say "stranger and stranger". |
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On Being Real
"...Real isn't how you are made," said the Skin Horse. "It's a thing that happens to you..."
"Does it hurt?" asked the Rabbit.
"Sometimes," said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful.
"When you are Real, you don't mind being hurt...It doesn't happen all at once," said the Skin Horse. "You become. It takes a long time. That's why it doesn't often happen to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand."
The Velveteen Rabbit ~ Margery Williams |
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"Women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition." (Timothy Leary) |
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I have rediscovered Joyce and thought I would share My favorite letter of his to Nora:
To Nora, Dublin (?) December 1909
I would be delighted to feel my flesh tingling under your hand. Do you know what I mean, Nora dear? I wish you would smack me or flog me even. Not in play, dear, in earnest and on my naked flesh. I wish you were strong, strong, dear, and had a big full proud bosom and big fat thighs. I would love to be whipped by you, Nora love! I would love to have done something to displease you, something trivial even, perhaps one of my rather dirty habits that make you laugh: and then to hear you call me into your room and then to find you sitting in an armchair with your fat thighs far apart and your face deep red with anger and a cane in your hand. To see you point to what I had done and then with a movement of rage pull me towards you and throw me face downwards across your lap. Then to feel your hands tearing down my trousers and inside clothes and turning up my shirt, to be struggling in your strong arms and in your lap, to feel you bending down (like an angry nurse whipping a child's bottom) until your big full bubbies almost touched me and to feel you flog, flog, flog me viciously on my naked quivering flesh!! |
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Thoughts on the Mistress/slave relationship that I share with philosophy.....as his Mistress I accept responsibility for the relationship. I am the balance for My slave as he is more than a bottom or a sub; his desire is to serve Me and that My pleasure be first is total. It's always seemed important to me that there be a balance, that the slave desire to serve as much as the Mistress desire to command and with philosophy I have found this. I understand that I have control of all aspects of his life as he has given himself as a gift whom I accept with pleasure. Someone to learn and grow with, to share that whole relationship of power exchange. Our relationship is very much mental as well as physical. I watch it become more and more encompassing, much deeper. I agree with Jack Rinella who said, "We can philosophize all we want about what "slavery" entails, but in the final analysis, it is defined by day to day living. No matter what you expect from a slave, what you get depends on who is doing the giving." In philosophy I have received a gift of indescribable value, not for all perhaps..but for Me yes. I would add to Mr. Rinella's thoughts and forward that as the recepient of this gift the Mistress must be able to receive, balance and shape the gift into a strong relationship. It is through Her consistency and commitment to Her slave that the relationship will flourish and the power gather and flow. |
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a lovely young man asked Me to define what I meant by a "true" Mistress?....good question..pondered and would have to say something along the lines of ~~~
A true Mistress is a Female Dominant that actually lives Her chosen lifestyle and is consistent with the fact or reality of it whilst conforming to and working within Her definitive criteria. She would further be devoted to Her concept of Herself and Her relationships; and willing to express Herself and Her relationships within and from that personal locus, without hesitation and/or apology.~~~ |
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Werewolves are a metaphor of human eroticism by splitting off the brutish, primitive, savage nature of our sexuality against the gentle technology of our civilization. |
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Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea.
-Robert A. Heinlein
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What is Mistress/slave love? Can it be categorized with your typical western romantic love? Is the love a slave has for his Mistress the same as the love a husband has for his wife? The love a slave feels for his Mistress does NOT revolve around tolerance and selfishness as does the love of a husband for his wife. A slave’s love should not focus on what She does for him to make him love Her, he should love simply because She is uncompromisingly Herself. In return if She loves him She will remain true to Herself and Her nature. |
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Slave is a term often used in BDSM to connote a specific form of submissive. Such a person could also be a masochist or bottom but this is not always the case. Connotatively it refers to very involved domination and submission (commonly abbreviated as D/s) relationships; a person who has surrendered their freedoms to another, who has become the property or chattel of their owner(s). Some feel the difference between submissive and slave is the degree of submission. I see the difference as one in kind, not in degree.
I believe there must be an emotional state of Total Power Exchange or Internal Enslavement (to the fullest degree possible of the Ccouple) for the term to apply. I further believe that one needs to be currently owned to be identified as a slave. Although I do recognise that one can possess a "slave heart" even when not owned. |
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Domination and submission (also known as Dominance and submission, D&s, Ds or D/s) is a set of behaviours, customs and rituals relating to the dominance of one individual over another. These interactions often, but not always, involve a sexual component. Domination & Submission often co-exists with BDSM, but is a separate dynamic that may also exist independently of BDSM. Although I do enjoy BDSM I am first and foremost immersed in the the behaviours, customs and rituals of Domination and submission. I am open and respectful of most and their journey and the road they take on it, however to decry or dismiss My locus as labelling or irrelative will not endear you to Me.
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I refuse to be drawn into that old hackneyed slave/sub discussion and wordsmithing game. You know what you are and if you do not you need to take the time to know yourself before presuming to come into Aanothers life. By cossetting and nursing I mean that I will not entertain the "maybes" and "buts"....if you are not willing to stretch your parameters enough to consider My real presence as your Mistress; you are not ready for this commitment. So I suggest you save Uus both a world of "pissed off" and do not initiate negotiations. Yes, I do believe a slave is My most cherished possession, and no, I will not treat you as subhuman or inhuman; so if that is what you seek (or perceive yourself as) you are of no interest or value to Me. ~one can not exchange power if one does not possess it~ |
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I do not seek a sub, I seek a slave. Should you wish to approach Me in that capacity write and tell Me about you. Attach a pic that shows your face and eyes...and most importantly know I am seeking 24/7 tpe. If Wwe are compatible and I accept your submission Wwe will move forward in a timely fashion. I am not interested in coy prima donnas or fragile flowers that need to be cossetted through their submission or nursed through the decision of whether to relocate or not. I do need a slave with a keen mind and a quick wit. A slave that cares deeply about Me and can express that adoration in action and words a slave that wishes to support and further My holistic wellbeing as I will his/hers. |
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Please Note: There is a switch on the site with a nick very very similiar to Mine. She has been toxically rude to some of My friends that greeted Her in pm as She is using a name they all call Me. Should this happen to you rest assured I have not suddenly gone all rude overnight *lol* it is the new and cheap imitation Wolfie~the old original One (Me) remains the paragon of courtesy and virtue I have always been LOL |
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"It's the good girls who keep the diaries; the bad girls never have the time."
Tallulah Bankhead |
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