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About MistressTess
I'm a very private person, just looking to meet a nice guy who is largely Alpha in his professional/public life but is my special pet in private. |
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I read this on the forums, another Domme posted it, and it was just so well stated that I had to repost it here:
"I am looking for an equal, a lover, a man whose strength and self belief allows him to recognise the power in me and makes him want to submit.
A man who is real enough to accept that I am not a two dimensional fantasy creature in latex with a strap-on who will make all his fantasties come true.
I want a friend and a partner who realises a D/s relationship is something to be worked at, but something worth struggling for..." |
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My view on submission is simple: genuine submission is a precious gift which shouldn't be given lightly, nor taken lightly. That's it. I like to keep it simple. If I want to discuss it further I'll let you know.
What I'm really looking for, broken down to its most basic constituent parts, is none of the power struggles present in most relationships, to be served like and made to feel like I am a queen, personal freedom, to have an object for my love that I don't have to be guarded against who is also my best friend, and to have lots of kinky fun that involves exploring the limits of sensation and eroticism.
If you had to break down what you're looking for into its most basic parts, without all the details, what would they be?
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So...on the advice of a friend I've decided to try and use the journal as an opportunity to put more info about myself out there (and hey, it has the added bonus of being a convenient way to see if emailers are paying attention...lol).
In many ways I hate the whole online dating thing, fetish site or otherwise, because in print/online I try to express myself as succinctly and clinically as possible, which doesn't really reflect what I'm like in person very well at all.
In fact, among friends I am a complete spaz. I'm a high energy opinonated nerd girl who beats on drums for a living and loves sci-fi (Battlestar Galactica is back on woot!), video games, cartoons, ancient history, as well as contemplating the nature of gravitational singularities and a million other seemingly irrelevant things that fill the spaces in between life's activities.
One of the things I love most about life is the potential variety of experience there is...there's so much to do and see...
I really enjoy mentally and verbally engaging with someone, thus I have difficulty clicking with someone who is by nature very quiet or can't express themselves.
And with that, I think I've had enough sharing for one night... ;) |
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If your profile is blank do not expect a response. |
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A lot of the (subbie) guys on this site need to work on their online communication skills.? I'm sure many people could, but since I receive emails primarily from subbie males...
And hey...maybe these things are just pet peeves of mine...if so, take it for what it's worth.
Emails going back and forth are basically a conversation.? You say something, they respond, and it goes back and forth.
So, imagine you're speaking with someone, and you ask them a question, they answer the question, then say nothing...so you ask another, and they answer, then say nothing.? It's hard to keep a conversation going, and difficult to relay that you're interested when you're merely responding to questions.
In person, that just makes for a boring conversation, but over emails...it makes for no conversation.?
We're getting to know each other...what would you ask any woman in any vanilla situation?? My bet is, it wouldn't have anything to do with orgasm denial, spankings, cages, crops, et al.?
I am a person.? You are a person.? Even a TPE can't be "on" all the time.? Do you really care nothing for who I am?? I could be a unreasonable bitch, a drama queen, a psycho, gold digging, game player.? You wouldn't know because either you asked no questions, or you were only concerned with whether or not I like fisting and CBT.
Come on guys!? :\
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