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About MistressMadar
I am a Black Domme, 53 years old. I reside near the Calumet City area.
Many have asked Me what am I seeking, here it is:
I am seeking a live-in slave and a visiting slave.
Next question: Mistress Madar, what do You like in the lifestyle? Here it is:
I am a very Strict Mistress...I adore giving pain, anal training, nipple torture and so much more... whippings , cbt and more torture .I also specialize in another area: sissies and crossdressers.tv, tg, and the like.
I love feminization. Public and private humiliation and making one dress like the bitch they are... (for Me there is no such thing as forced feminization....you want to be, you just want permission for it...taking the responsiblity off yourself.)
I will ask you what you are into, however:
My wants and desires are what is important...never get confused about that..
Next question: Mistress are you willing to train? Here is the response: YES
I am seeking only the serious, THIS IS NOT A GAME FOR ME.....
you must be 25-70 years old, and reside in the State of Illinois.
you should also have a webcam if you plan to see Me if you live out of those state. I do not and will not entertain on line and only the serious need to apply...
..should you address Me...I do expect to be pampered nothing less than that.....shopping, or purchasing Me something is mandatory.
Do not get confused, I do not want your money...but once in a while...., a sign of appreciation and gratitude..
I smoke cigarettes...so if you have a problem with that...don't bother Me
READ MY ENTIRE PROFILE....IF YOU DO NOT FIT THE REQUIREMENTS THEN DO NOT BOTHER ME....
Send an email telling Me about your past experiences and why you feel worthy to approach Me....
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I have seen profiles upon profiles of those that ask questions like: Why can't i find a Mistress ? Why can't i find a Sadist? Why can't i find someone whom i can trust?
When given the opportunity most run from it and the rest put up such a wall of resistance that it is not worth the effort to penetrate. I do not indulge in construction work. I go so far as to give a phone number and get things like, "can i meet you in public first?"
I surely can not beat your ass over the phone, so that is a sure sign of stupidity. I do not want your money....a gift card or My favorite cologne does not make Me a Pro-Domme. Even though, there is nothing wrong with being a pro, it would take away My power and reponse.
Simply put: I am still seeking that last one to fulfill My last opening.
Do yourself a favor and do not contact Me if you think I am too severe or too nice or too anything; again not seeking stupid bitches.
I am seeking one who will let go and be free of the facade he /she has demonstrated to the world. |
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It is that time of the year again: My Birthday. Almost every year My slaves, babies and the rest do something special....sometimes others want to join in as well.
I know this year better be special and entertaining for Me....I will see... |
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Due to My time limitation and wanting to focus more on what I want this is what I am seeking:
A visiting slave...
one who will be able to see Me no less than 3 times a month.
Qualitities one should have:
1. True to the lifestyle; which makes you true to Me
2. one who posesses a mixture of: painslut, submissiveness, loyalty, honesty, respect and a desire and craving for more.
3. one who accepts because he/she knows that there is no other way.
4. Whether it be an adult baby, painslut, domestic, cd....must be true to Me.
5. Do not ask if I live in a safe neighborhood, because I am BLACK; and your bitch ass is scared.
I have one live-in; who is the omega and an adult baby as well. I seek one more to complete what I envision.
Do not send Me an email from half way across the freaking globe telling Me, you are moving here in a month...Nope will not work.
Do not send Me an email from another state telling Me you visit Illinois at least 4 times a month...Nope will not work.
Do not make promises your sorry ass can not cash...or be redeemed.
If you are sincere do the following:
Send Me an email, real simple. Inside the email state the following:
1. Experience
2. Why I should consider you for an interview.
That is it, and that is all....Later.
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It seems that no matter W/who Y/you are in this world the one common thread is that A/all are human. With that being said, humans make mistakes whether it be through communication or the lack thereof. Lack of attention, neglect or taking O/one for granted.
I want to share that I am human, and I made a mistake with My alpha. The thread of communication is open and so is My Domination and heart. It is so easy to find mistakes in O/others, but very difficult to express Y/your O/own mistakes of humanity.
bear this is to you...My love runs deep, but My Domination is even deeper....
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During the last 6 months I have been observing the behavior and method of communication some have in not only their profiles and journals, but in oral communication.
Here are just some of My findings:
1.? Some people are just STUPID.? What I mean by that is no matter what I write in My journal or in My profile the same questions are asked, over and over again.
2.? Brats are draining.? they need the attention of a new born baby.? When you do tend to their needs their attention span last for about 3-5 days and the procedure starts all over again.
3.? I don't ask for money, nor gifts.? I demand attention and occasionally a gift card no less than 25.00 from either Wal-Mart, Kmart, Home Depot, or Menards.? This is usually presented when one first meets Me and then on My birthday or holidays.? I have found those that give Me the lie of:? "Oh I forgot"? "Here is some money".? I do not accept cash and I have said as such.? The card means a lot....but if one is STUPID, it will never understand.
4.? I have given task to a few to suck and or to be penetrated...? My understanding is that no one wants them to do anything to them....
5.? I do what I do because it is Who I am....? I will not now or ever allow anyone to approach Me trying to switch with Me.,...
6.? The sheer breakdown of a slave and submissive is:? a submissive allows certain things to be done to it and a slave has no choice.
7.? I respect A/all, but never come to Me with the ignorant notion that you are doing Me a favor when you make dumb ass statements like:? "? How lucky would you be to have me at your feet all day" or "i can make your dreams come true Mistress"
I think there is much room for improvement in the lifestyle and in those that are supposed to be a part of that lifestyle. |
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First of all, Happy New Year to A/all.
Secondly, let Me share with Y/you what I have encountered since My last entry.
I will begin with stupid, stupid, is as stupid does.
There is a being (for lack of a better word), that was so abstract in his communication on line that I had to meet it. I met it and then the journey began. It told Me tales of how it wanted to go into a realm of a higher plateu. Moreover, how it wanted to experience all there was to the lifestyle. Hearing this, I gave it one task: The task was to find Some to suck off.
Now for those of you who know Me or of Me, you know My motto is: a damaged bitch is not a bitch. I do not harm nor damage anyone. In addition, I protect those that are under My care. Now, with that being said, the being contacted a Dom and set up a meeting for the finalization of his task. On the night before, I get an email that stated it had done research on STD's and realized he could not go through with the task. With that being said, it stopped all communication with Me and the Dom. Of course I had an emergency replacement for the Dom, but still.
When I give a task, I make sure one is safe on both sides of the coin. I have enough condoms to open up a clinic as well as dental dams.
Now the stuipid being has eliminated all of it's journal about Me which is fine. Pretenders only go so far, stuipid goes to a whole new level.
If this being is your friend, then I will not correspond with you. I can not mention the being by name, but here you go: it clains it is a trans-sexual slave and it's picture has it wearing a pink and black corset thingy and resides in Illinois.
Y/you have been foreward. |
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I have been thinking about the depth of the soul of a submissive and Dominant.
The lifestyle is supposed to be "Y/you". It is not a hobby that you fit into your life when you are bored. It seems that a lot of submissives/slaves are confused about their roles. In the lifestyle it is not about, "Deal or No Deal". It is about how deeply your soul will go into the lifestyle:
1. Does your soul crave for the direction of a Dom/me, Sadist, Mommy, Daddy etc...
2. Does your soul jump when your Dominant shows you any attention?
3. Do you yearn to please your Dominant because it is your place, your role in life?
It seems that some that claim to be a submissive/slave rarely pass the grade. I will not say that means "all". I will however say the level of pretenders have increased. The aforementioned questions are ones that need to be asked of self. Being a lifestyler does not mean you get to "challenge" your Dominant to see how much you can get away with. Some of you will never understand, but for those of you that this does reach and you do understand; proceed with the honor that you are in the lifestyle and that you are now on the right path in life. |
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Well, it is that time again.....My birthday is on Friday...I wonder, who wants to come over????
Moreover, I wonder what My maid is going to do? I wonder what My slaves will do....
I will keep you abreast of it all.... |
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Well, here is My new entry..., I know many of you have been waiting; (you have written and asked for My thoughts)...here you go...
When I decide on what I want and whom I want I usually go for it...
I continue to hear from those that claim to be (sissies, adult babies, pain sluts and novices), in the lifestyle that pretend. I no longer give them the title of "pretender". I now call them "pitchers". I will describe how the pitcher works:
one begins by contacting Me back to back...miltiple emails or finding a way to pitch itself to Me. one is either a novice or brags that it has been in the lifestyle between 2-25 years. one is given criteria and informed about Me. I then allow a pitcher to call Me after which one is instructed to call Me for a week prior to an interview.
one then gets an appointment time and guess what happens? Pitcher has pitched itself and does not show. Now what else they do is to change their names as well and dress up their profile....
It is sad how they feel that it is more about their game plan then the lifestyle.
I look for diverse types. I want sissies, adult babies, pain sluts, x-dressers and more...I want a slave that needs to feed his Owner's need in the lifestyle.
In July, I offered to host a party, a mulitude of calls and emails....yet no one showed...Oh My..
I will continue My journey for a true bitch, one who is only happy showing his Domme, his Mommy, his Owner that he is here for Her and not for his needs alone. |
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Guess What??????????
I am going to throw Myself a Party...The Theme is: Suck Up or Suck Down....
The Party is going to be on 8/2/08 at 6p.m.
Dress to do both.....If you want an invite...contact Me..Only those I have corresponded with or met will be allowed entrance this time.
RSVP by: Thursday. |
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Here I go again:
Some of you have a problem reading and comprehending all that I say in My journal and profile.
Some of you send emails stating: "I know I am not a pain slut, that is too bad, but I do not enjoy pain"
I am not a Domme without Skill and the ability to taper pain to the individual. I get emails about feminization, TS, CD etc...,
Yes, I love training the aforementioned. I adore bi-sexuality, gays, and the uncertain. Moreover, I am the lifestyle. Being Dominant is Who I am, not what I do.
I do understand your concerns, ask never assume anything about Me.
I even ask periodically, "How is your search going?" Respect the concern and the person concerned and respond.
Yes, I have trained novices, veterans and those uncertain about what they want to do...I have patience, but not for stupidity.
I love Me, and with that I love being amused....take it from there.
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It was Feb. 13th********
It has been a while, but My birthday came and went and I neglected (Oh My), to tell you what happened.
It started off by being a slow day for Me, normal weekend errands and chores. I scheduled a few of My visiting slaves to come over. Well, the event began with the first one who just wanted to come over and bring Me a gift...it was very nice indeed and I rewarded him with a session which was very rewarding for Me. I love Queening. I can Queen for hours if the bitch beneath Me takes direction well. I was well cleansed from the front to the back...fun times to be had by Me. Later on that evening two more showed up with gifts for Me...
one gave Me an Eternal Rose for My inner Strenght and the other gave Me a gift card to My most favorite place. I took the two of them into My Special Room and had them to strip...after stripping they both (males) began body worship to Me. The tongues and the lips on My nipples not only made Me wet, but they were allowed as a reward to put some of My juices on their tiny clits and stroke themselves. I began to smile and become further amused.
After they stroked theirselves, I had them to kiss and stroke each other. I was in full view of it all, and I was smiling. I then directed each to suck the other. Without any hesitation it was done. I heard the moanings and the slight embarassment of the other.
The final instruction was to make the other cum. The sheer look of amusement will never be erased. The two took turns sucking each other until one came via mouth and the other by hand.
Yes, it was a fun filled day for Me. |
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Here I go....I am seeking one to several who want to be serviced by My bitch...real simple.
Naturally I will direct the actions, but My bitch will service you...
Bring it on... |
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Well, another day and another bitch collared.
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I have finally collared My painslut. Yes he presented Me with gifts and I presented him with My collar. I presented to him the most intense session possible all without bondage.
I first took office clamps and applied them to his nipple and then used clamps on his balls. I pulled twisted and plied them around. I was getting very wet. I then started beating his balls with such intensity that with every hit I gave him, I felt mositure and a smile coming over My face. I allowed him to breathe for a few minutes and proceeded to continue with him. I had him to turn over and again a pure white canvas...Damn I love a clean canvas...I can do so much with it...I then proceeded to use a prison strap 20, vampire strap 20, wooden paddle 20, various floggers 100, tarse 40, chained flogger, 40, ass slapper 40, crops 60 and so much more for a total of 545..he lost count and thought it was 540...
I then had My alpha to come in and show him how to worship My nipples...damn very nice.
All in all, it was a wonderful day and now I continue in My search for the: sissy, tv/ts/cd, and painslut
The saga continues. |
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Oh My, I have finally done it...I have collared My bitch.
I assure you he is not your typical slave by any stretch of the imagination, but he is:
1. Mine
2. Mine
3. dedicated
4. Mine
5. hardworking in My service
and finally...he is stubborn, a challenge and is dedicated to Me.
he has proven he not only goes into the lifestyle and absorbs it but he is also focused and technical in every aspect.
I look forward to a lifetime of challenges from him. I know it also comes with his respect. No one could ever think or confuse him as a doormat...
With that being said, he has My respect.
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This does not, nor should it mean I am not looking for any more slaves, because......
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And the saga continues:
A long, long time ago, I was on line and this conversationlist came on line and chatted for a while with Me. I felt challenging, (as I normally am) and invited him over for a session. he had proclaimed to be a painslut and needed to be Owned and abused, (a hell of a combination). he came over at that point it was a little over 100 miles and he was able to take over 360 strokes from My many implements. The next visit, over 500 and now....
I hadn't seen him in over a year with his health issues and all. Recently he read My journal and said hello. Conversation began and he felt he was up to the challenge again.
I began again with the bullpuller. I clamped it around the middle of the sac and began twisting it slowly and ever so painfully. Then I went with the tarse, My the canvas was white and pale, but began to show color and a purpose. I went on with My rubber cane and then the wooden, oh damn I was nearing My Narvana. I went further with the chain flogger and smiled with a tear in My eye when he moaned from pain. The strokes intensified and I was wet from all of the feelings I was putting into My actions. I flogged him, I paddled him, I ass slapped him...and closed out the session with the bullpuller again. I completed with over 540 strokes,those are the ones counted. he forgot to count in the beginning....
The saga continues....
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Well, another day and another painslut ....
It was a warm, humid afternoon I came home from work and he showed up with a smile on his face. I knew the smile would be leaving rapidly, but I allowed him to live in his fantasy world for a few minutes.
he walked into My room and stripped...body was white as a sheet, the canvas was pure with no signs of markings. I was informed that it had been a long time since he had experienced any pain and he had graduated to be in My presence...Oh My
As he laid down with his ass in the air...I laid the first of many lashes on him with My tarse. Oh to see the welts grow and form a picture brought a joy to My heart. I then proceeded with My bull puller on his sack...I heard him scream for mercy, but none was to be found by Me....
I continued with My cane for a little over 50 lashes and then My prison strap and a combination of other implements. he was able to take over 2 hours of My attention...and as he looked into My eyes he said: "Thank You Mistress for the attention, can I have more?"
Y/you will have more of My saga as it unfolds. |
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Update:
I got communication from an alledged "painslut". he reported that he craved the feel of warmth of My floggers, crops, canes, ass slappers, paddles and the such. When he arrived he was submissive in nature and presented himself very well. I took him to "My Room" and he began to beg to lick and smell My feet...I explained in order to get that he would have to endure Me over his worthless body.
he experienced My chained flogger and I then I put C-clamps on his nipples and pulled at them for a while. I used My cattle prod on him and put My cigarette out on him...I had a fabulous time.
he just could not take too much. Basically he only lasted about 45 minutes. I Myself was just warming up. he could not take more. his body was dancing like a weathered feather... he tried and I saw that, but enough for him was 45 minutes.
So sad, too bad...I told him, that it was a nice attempt.
Oh well, next painslut....
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Here goes another entry...Oh My...
Lately, for some unknown reason My sadistic tendencies have been emerging. I don't mean I pick the wings off of flies, or kick dogs, but I have a desire that is now growing leaps and obstacles to be more creative then before. There are those that claim to be painsluts, pain lovers and the such....I have been wanting to faceslap...over and over and over again. I want to tie ones alledged male member up to a doorknob while he is stationed and slam the door..., then slowly increase the intensity of My crop on his member....over and over again. In addition, having him to lean over an object of My choosing and crop, cane, flog, ass slap and spit on him...;but that is just Me. The more I think of things to do the more I want to do it....My need, My tendency, My desire is growing everyday....
The sad part is, no one has been able to take what I can issue...How sad. |
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A slave of any caliber should know things about his Domme such as: what type of food She likes, does She have any hobbies, does Her implements need to be cleaned, does She collect anything.
Know your Domme, that is about the only way you can show Her it is about Her and not about yourself all the damn time. |
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Not sure what happened with My journal entry of 5/13/07, but I will begin again...there are things that need to be said.., and you know I will be the One to say it My way.
Being a slave, a submissive should not be a test of will to your Domme. Being a slave/sub is not being a doormat for abuse or financial domination. Being a slave is not testing your Domme to see what She will do to you, or to force Her hand.
Now that I have said what it is not, I will say what it means to Me. It means dedicating your life, your being to One you know will lead you down a path that if done properly; of joy for serving your Master. Being a slave should have you wanting to do for your Owner and await Her/His latest task. Being a slave is an honorable task if in the right mindset. If not in the right mindset, it is a game; a maze of what trouble to get into next. How to piss off your Owner in less than 5 minutes.
Servitude is more than a word, it is a mindset that those who claim it need to obtain. |
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Some of you have been emailing and IM'ing Me trying to find out how to serve Me. All of that is fine and good, but hell if you can not do the simple things like make a call twice a week, then what is the purpose for consideration?
I am looking for someone to assist My bitch in amusing and entertaining Me...If you think you are up to My challenge you may contact: MstMbear here on collarme...
Read his profile and reply to it...
The process starts now.. |
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My past week was unfreaking believeable and I want to share it with you that view this journal.
My birthday was so enriched by people that did not take Me for granted. Those that held respect and dedication to Me for who I am and what I represent I want to say, "very nice".
My birthday was the big 50 and with it came My soon to be live in bitch...who presented Me with gift cards from so many different places....totally surprised.
My bitch got tattooed with My initials and the word "OWNER''. I will be collaring him in 50 days. The ceremony will be very special, as any collaring ceremony should be.
I also want to speak on another slave that is a visiting slave that I Own. it's name is Velvet Tongue. My new name for it is, Mfon; which stands for My freak of Nature.
it has shown a true dedication to Me and for My birthday, sent Me a rose plant and brought Me a Walmart gift card.
The two of them have become brothers in the lifestyle and it a beautiful thing to behold....
There is such beauty in the lifestyle and such beautiful people souls that come with it....
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Okay all, Me begin by saying: HAPPY NEW YEAR.
I have news...yes major news.....
I have found the bitch....I mean the bitch that knows what it means to put himself to the side and only please Me...The bitch that can open a car door and have an intelligent conversation. The bitch that can make a cup of coffee and wash dishes.
Y/you may wonder, is She bragging??????? Not at all, just stating facts.
bitch has learned how to deep throat in a day, lick any part of My body with a purpose...adheres to My rules and regulations.
My bitch is now beginning to learn more and more about pleasing Me....Because he just purchased a house, guess what?????????????
I will be living there for no more than 2 years and then W/we will be moving to an area closer to My job.
I am still seeking visiting slaves, don't be confused....that search goes on and on and on....
Those of you who are interested, you will be kept abreast of MstMbear's results....
As a matter of fact, I will let you know what he has done for Me for Valentine's Day...and My birthday is the day before....so just wait....
Talk to you later... |
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Well, here is the latest in My saga to find the one bitch that not only has the mindset of a slave, but the intelligence of a being.
I will call this one: "How dare you ask Me to bring you a gift, for what?"
I had many conversations with this one and asked did you read My profile and yes of course, My journal. The reply I got was yes and i was enthawed by all you said. I said, "So be it then, here is what you need to bring Me."
his reply was, "Bring you? Let Me see first how the interview goes and then if it goes well, i will bring you something."
My reply was such that, if you feel there is no reason to bring Me My fragrance then there is no reason to come here. you bring Me a gift out of appreciation and respect. It is a sign from you, that you want to please Me.
With that being said, he went on to say that if I declined him in the interview, it would be a waste of money.
Meeting any Domme, whether you hit it off or not is a gift from Her to you. one needs to realize that Her time is focused during that interview on how you can be pleasing to Her, how She can continue your training and how you can be useful to Her...a gift is nothing but a token of what you think of the gift She has presented to you. |
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I will say this: I have a tendency of speaking to slaves and submissives...trying to be friendly. I may email one and ask, " How is your search going? (or) Are you currently under consideration?"
It is rude not to at least say "thank you for your inquiry."
Claiming you are a submissive or even a slave and not responding demonstrates you do not have the mindset, you only want the title. |
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I have this core belief that no matter W/who Y/you are, Y/you can always extend to help O/others.
There have been slaves or wannabee slaves who have contacted Me asking for information and to meet with Me, to assist them with their journey; possibly for them to train under Me. I will take a few minutes to share with you; the sad, tired, pathetic pieces of nothing I have been dealing with:
The first one: I will call: " Oh yes Mistress," until i leave your sight.
This creature says all the proper things and wants to kneel and begs for all the things it has read on line and in books. it looks at My feet and says "Yes Ma'am, I will do anything you want" it wants to be beaten to see how it feels. it wants to suck My feet, breast and vagina. it wants to be tortured and hung up to dry...All of this, before the actual interview.
I explained in detail and nicely too, that none of this will happen until one has been trained in the basics of servitude...bitch said, Oh Yes Mistress....haven't seen the thing since...
The second one is called: i have over 20 years experience....i don't need training...
This one contacted Me and reported, really bragged that he had over 20 years experience in the lifestyle and wanted a 24/7 TPE, I said well I would have to meet you and afterwhich train you. After 5 phone calls and multiple emails and IM's, the thing said" i don't need training...,i have 2 decades of experience why would i need training? I explained that for anyone to be with Me, they would need training to learn how to serve Me.... I also pointed out, if one is a submissive or a slave one does not tell Me what it wants....I do have a discussion during the interview of what one has done in the past and what one might be interested in learning more about...but to use the word want.... Never heard from it again...after I said it needed to grow up as a submissive being...
The next one is: i have never served, but i want to begin... with You.
I had multiple phone conversations and again it had been on the internet reading and looking at all the pictures and thought he could do this...
I was going to the Northside of Chicago to Leather ......., some of you know the store. I offered the boi to go with Me, so it could see some items up close. I was going to be making some major purchases. The boi was nervous and I took him through a tour of My apartment because he thought someone might be in My closet... Knowing he was new, I had no problem with that....I showed patience and dilligence in My interview with it... I showed it what it might be learning from Me and so much more....I scheduled it for it's training and informed it, it would meet with Me once a week for a few months....
Not hearing from it for a few days, I sent an email asking if it was cancelling...it emailed Me back saying I wanted it to drive Me around and it does not do that....Moreover, once a week is too much...
Why am I sharing this information with anyone...???????????? Becasue I still know there are sincere slaves out there who either are new and want to learn about the lifestyle or those that are experienced who desire to continue in the lifestyle. I have no displaced aggression toward anyone, but understand...I do not play, nor do I take anything from you...Contact with with sincerity, not as a test to how far you can go....
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I am pleased to announce that the tone in collarme has been changing for the positive. Yes, you still have to wannabees, the ones that just want to see how far they can go, and those that think they are an expert on everything and can top from way beneath the bottom; but it is getting better.
It is getting to a place where I have those that need to be educated coming over and just having communication. Yes, I am very careful who comes here..., but for the most part a genuine feeling of teaching, support and understanding. I feel that sometimes a Community needs to extend itself to those that need assistance, who really want to learn.
I have recently, joined a health club and am working out. Those that are interested know it means more energy in what I do for the lifestyle.
Can you believe I still get questions whether I am a pro-domme or not? I am not a pro-domme, for Me I am a lifestyler and am PROUD TO SAY SO....
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Understand one thing about Me, communication is esstenial and foremost to Me. When you do not communicate, then you do not reap the benefits of what the lifestyle holds....
I am not a pro-domme, I do things My way...if you have a problem with that then, so be it... |
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With all things, there should be
Honor.
I am very disheartened by the lies and games that have been going on with some of the members in this site. The outright lies about experiences, and who and what you are.
In the lifestyle, especially in the lifestyle, there should be honor.
Some of you are using this as a dating service with kink. There is no kink in the lifestyle. Kink happens when you are doing something that is outside the norm. What happens in the lifestyle is normal, for the lifestyle. It seems, some want to try it out because they are curious or looking for taboo sex...
Respect the lifestyle and those that are in it...for some it was a difficult decision to come to.
Understand, come to Me true to form and I will respect that...as opposed to all the years of experience you proclaim you have..and it is down to you getting spanked once and now you are a pain slut...be for real...
Time for Me to get off My soap box and handle My business. |
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I am currently seeking :
submissives 43-63 years old
white
must be one of the following:
pain slut
sissy
crossdresser
oral submissives
you can not be:
married and can not have marks or welts on you
under 43
if you fit the above criteria, send Me an email the addy is in My profile
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Female Switch, 29, Los Angeles, California
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Female Switch, 44, Anaheim, California
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Transgender Switch, 46, Hobart
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Female Dominant, 42, newcastle
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Male Switch, 21
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Female Dominant, 35, Watertown, Tennessee
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Female Dominant, 26
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Transgender Submissive, 38, Hot Springs, Arkansas
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