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	About MistressFire70 I no longer identify as a Mistress, but as a Master, so I've changed profiles. No, I am not male nor a FTM transgender. Master is a gender neutral term. To find me, look at the profile MasterFireMaam.

Life is quickly changing for me. I am single again! The separation is amicable; he's a good guy, we're just not a match any more. This is mostly due to the spiritual changes I've undergone this year. So, now I have a freedom that I didn't have before. It's a very, very interesting time in my life! I no longer have some of the limits I had taken on, out of respect and caring for my husband. The change is indescribable; it?s like seeing things as a whole even though you thought you were seeing the whole before. And, it?s a hell of a lot more fun. LOL

Summary: I now prefer ?Master? as opposed to ?Mistress?. Read further to find out why.

Over the last several months, the phrase, ?Being a Master is a calling,? has really begun to ring true for me. I don?t do this because I can or because I like it (even though I do), I do this because I am called to do it. I must do it in order to be fulfilled. It is a part of my spiritual awakening.

My journey through Southwest Leather Conference and the Apex Butchmanns experience has been a phenomenal one. Among other things, I self identified as ?Master? at Butchmanns. Rather like shedding skin, I have shed the Mistress title and now prefer Master Fire. Of course, if don?t feel the need for a title at all times?but when one is used, I have announced my preference.

BDSM is the fun part; Leather is the spiritual. BDSM is what I do for entertainment; Leather is a way of life. If you understand this, contact me, even if just to meet a like-minded friend.

Master Fire

Cherished Possessions:

<>If money were not object and you had your choice of cars, which car would you choose? That blue one, with the dents and one flat tire? Or that one, with no engine? Or the one that is bottom of the line and totally stripped? Or maybe the red convertible, never mind that the interior leather is cracked and the top is missing. Of course, you wouldn?t choose ANY of these! Minimally, you?d choose a car you could rely on. But, if you had to pick something you?d cherish, you?d go for the top-of-the-line sports car or the lovingly restored classic. A car that had personality and was well maintained. A car that screamed ?YOU?. Something you?d be PROUD to own.

<>It is the same with slave ownership. My slave will be a reflection of me, thus, I want someone who is worth owning. Ownership is about empowering the slave to be all that they possess. In such as way, the slave grows and appreciates the life given to them. Ruling by fear might work for a while, but it doesn't lead to happy slaves.

<>Of course, I expect respect and such (see my profile for the specifics) from a slave who serves me. But, in order to be fit to serve me, a slave must: <>Be well maintained: I don?t mean they have to have a body to die for. I mean someone who has their mind in a place where they are fit to serve. A person who is physically capable of doing the things I ask. A person who values service because they mentally and emotionally understand that a slave exists to please their owner. And no, I don?t mean oral service for hours or turning on your web cam so I can ?control? you while you whack off.

Be self assured: A confident slave with a sense of self value is important. This means I don?t want someone who thinks it?s their life?s mission to be a worm to all Females. If I wanted a worm, I?d dig one up in the back yard. This person would realize that the statement ?All Females are Superior? is an insult to those of us who understand that some women just don?t deserve to be called superior. Lumping me into a mass group with money-grubbing, manipulative and abusive women is just rude, at best.

<>Have personality: My slave will have their own personality. you?re kidding yourself if you think that you will be able to change the very core of who you are for a Mistress or Master. If you have an outrageous sense of humor, don?t submit to someone who wants Mr. Spock. I enjoy a good laugh and like to cut up. I want to be able to enjoy this with my slave. <>

Possess intelligence: I am an intelligent woman. I don?t need someone who knows everything, just someone capable of learning. I enjoy discussions that cause us to think and explore ourselves. I enjoy being witty and being a nerd. No, I don?t play D&D, but I can tell you the difference between General and Special Relativity. <>

Throwing away the above things for a relationship is going to bring you nothing but heartache. In service, you must be allowed to be yourself and to grow inside the role you have chosen. Being a possession doesn?t mean you should make yourself into nothing, it means you should make yourself into something worth owning. A Cherished Possession.

My views on Female Superiority:

While I DO feel my slave must know that I am superior to him or her, I don?t want him/her, necessarily, to feel inferior. I?d rather that he/she felt they were secondary, by choice. Feelings of inferiority are often, but not always, a sign of low self esteem.

In addition, saying that all Female are Superior lumps me in with a lot of women I?d rather not be associated with! I am an intelligent, gifted woman and just don?t care to be in the same class as some other women.

And besides, if all women are superior and all men are inferior, HOW do you explain the Male Master and female submissive relationship (we?re only considering the good relationships here)? Is each merely miss-informed about their natural role in society? This idea smacks of Hitler and the Aryan race to me.

Acknowledging someone as Superior should be done on a case-by-case basis. And, should you choose to submit to said Superior, it doesn?t mean that you are inferior. The word ?superior? should be used as a noun (synonym for boss), not as a wide-sweeping adjective.

I know that this view will severely limit the number of responses I get here. However, I?m looking for quality, not quantity.

Fire

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