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	About MistressEJB If my pic isn't up its probably waiting approval, I update it often to try and keep an uptodate picture of me. NO MEN NO MEN and for those who cant work that out if you have a penis, you are a man (I dont care what you dress up as). All men, TVs etc go to the bulk and are ignored. If your still confused just have a look to the column on the left ( I have been active in a BDSM lifestyle for 10 years, (longer if you include self bondage etc) three of which was as a sub, then after realising my true calling 7 years as a Dom, I have not interest in switching, I'm happy for switches to contact me, but I will not sub. So what am I looking for, I am only interested on online only, It is highly unlikely i will ever meet up in real life with someone I meet on the web, except if very rare circumstance's. If you intention is to finally meet up, please pass my profile by and good luck in your searching. I'm not a pic collector nor am I after a quick BDSM fix, I will not usually "play" straight away, I like to chat and get to know the person first. I do not use webcams, I access here mainly from work, never get time in the evenings to come online, If this is a problem for you please pass my profile by. For those that actually read the profile, and have noticed the errors, I have now corrected them.

I have come to realise more so since being on here that with some subs I can be a total bitch.

Its nothing to do with how the person has acted or aything like that, but simply something about them will turn me into a complete unmerciful bitch and no matter how much they try for the softer side they will never get it.

I'm not like this normally, the majority of people I will happily chat to and be a soft or as harsh as they like, but every now and again someone may come along and I will want nothing but to make them suffer.

So if you are one of these few please don't take offense its just something wierd wired up in me.

Just up dated my profile, took pictures of my old sub off (now she has gone) and put a newer picture of myself up instead.

I DO NOT ACCEPT FRIEND REQUESTS FROM PEOPLE I HAVE NEVER CHATTED TO OR MESSAGED. IF THE FIRST THING YOU DO IS SEND A FRIEND REQUEST DO NOT GET OFFENDED WHEN I HIT DENY. Jeez can't some people work out simple things.

Cut and paste messages. For those who like to use the generic cut and paste message for a greeting, and for that matter, those who go that minute step further and maybe add a name please read my generic answer below "Seeing as you cant be bothered to even write a individual message to someone you wish to contact, I in return cannot be bothered to hit the reply button or even the delete button. Please do not contact me again as I am about to show you one thing I can be bothered to do with you and hit the block button." sending generic cut and pasted messages say simply three things about you. 1/ You've not read the persons profile - If you haven't even bothered reading the profile how do you know you interested in similar things? 2/ you so desperate you just mass messaging hoping to get a bite - If you that desperate then it more than likely not worth progressing any further. 3/ You have no respect for the person you messaging - In this game respect is a big issue, if your going to show a lack of respect (either Domme or Sub) at the initial contact this lack will only continue through out. So please send an original message and show the person your messaging that you have at least spent some time considering if its worth messaging them.

Oh, IM's messing around. I can never use collarme's chat features anyway but I dont seem to be getting replies from people, Please Im not being rude its the stupid comp.

Im a little confused, why do some people on here start chatting with you then stop? Oh and im not talking as in gone offline I mean over a few days/weeks when you know they have been online since I appreciate that your meeting total strangers and you may not get on, but politeness costs nothing. Cant you just say sorry don't think were after the same thing, not compatible etc etc. Ive even had some where Ive been chatting to for a couple of weeks and was getting on quite well with the they suddenly stop. Theres a couple here that have been on my friends list and over the last couple of months I haven't heard anything. Surely manners cost nothing and a simple message saying I dont think we should chat anymore would hurt. OK a if you chatted to me for a couple of hours and go fine didnt get to know you that well. but the ones you feel are going somewhere and suddenly stop do hurt, I know I must shrug it off and try to move on and I do try but its still hard.

Been called out to meetings, will not be on much over next couple of days.

Emma

This is for all the arseholes out there that think just because they want Real life and I want online only Im not into BDSM,

Firstly I would like to say I have 13 years real life experiance both being a Domme and a sub. I am currently getting my head together after recently releasing my sub and do not want to meet people in real life until Im ready.

So if you feel im diluting the "real" BDSM and have no Idea what im on about all I can say is hit the block button and move on after reading this.

Its clear you have no idea what the concept of BDSM is, you have probably have a simple Idea from looking at the pages on the web and reading up and free snipits of information you can find.

BDSM, D/s, Fetishes etc etc whatever you want to call it are not the strict rules of "Me Dom(me) you sub you do as told" The whole reason people enjoy the Fetish world is it allows everyone (and i mean EVERYONE) to be who they want to be and live how they want to be, without the judement arseholes putting them into the strict rules they must follow, The fetish world is all about escape and living how YOU want to live, let others live how they want to.

So ok real life is not suitable for me at the moment, why should I then be forced to completely step away from my desires just because it does not fit into you archaic and out dated views of a BDSM lifestyle. Move on the rest of the world has.

Anyway rant over.

OH PS, any future messages from these will be reported as being offensive (afterall they go aginst what this site is about) and the sender blocked.

Sorry if I don't get back to messages straight away, currently having abusy spell at work and can only pop on.

I will get back to you as soon as I can. however I will reply to people Im chatting/messaging first.

Emma

I have loads or people view my profile, Now I accept I may not be what your looking for and you move on, but if your interested in what you see message me, I won't bite.

Chat feature on here will not work, I can IM on yahoo and myspace only but only after I have chatted through the messages here first.

So as it seems 99% of the men on here are unable to read I have set the message filter to send any message from a man to the bulk folder.

I will view them as and when Im ready, the first thing I will do is look and see if I have more than one from anyone, if I do I will hit spam withour even opening it.

the above rules on my profile still apply so if you break them you will be blocked.

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