MistressArabela

If you want my attention you better pay attention.  Dont bother telling me you want to be mine or begging me to give you another chance.  There is only one chance from now on.  You fuck it up and its your loss.  I dont have to waste my time with little boys and losers. 

~Ari

*Update*

     If I tell you that you must do something to gain MY attention and keep it dont bitch when you find out what it is.  I am not here to play games with you like a child.  I know what I want and only those that do as they are told will get MY attention.  I am a busy woman after all. 

     Also dont begin to think that just because I have granted you an audience with me means that I will do what you want.  I am not that kind of woman.  I am a sensual domme yes but I am not going to tease you just so you can get off. 

~Ari

*Update 4/9/13*

I have been requesting that those who wish to serve me prove it by making a small tribute.  This ensures that not only you are willing to follow orders, but also that you are worth my time since I will be taking said time from my studies for a very important test to give you attention.

~Ari

Good morning.  I sit here unable to sleep due to the weight of my thoughts.  I find myself in need and no one to turn to.  A recent acquisition of an older vehicle has me trying to figure out why the dash lights are not working.  The fact that we are looking for a room mate to assist with the house has me worried.  I am simply at my wits end.  I need to find a good little live in slave to pamper me and help with all these little problems.  Think you have what it takes?

~Mistress Ari

I have not been on this site in a while other than from my phone yet today I open it up to find this message from justasub361. 

So you're a “financial Domme,” In other words your a “prostitute,” prostitution is not legal and can get you at the very least one year in prison.

Go work the streets and get off this site you are not wanted on this site.

You don't like that I call you a prostitute then move on and get off this site.

Also it's only a small amount of time before you get locked up, and they will do this, they know who you are and they have your profile and is proof that you are soliciting and is an admission of gilt; you will never know who you are with until you see the shiny badge then you will know what I'm saying. If you continue to use this site you will be arrested in time and the big old fat ladies will have you as sub and make you lick ass. You don’t think you’re a prostitute then you will have a chance to tell it to the judge.

Have a nice day prostitute, as this may be the last day that is free for you, “LOSER”

One of the scams for this sit is;

This is Collarme Scam #9 - Requests for "tribute" is this site’s 9^th rule.

This scam is typically perpetrated by persons (male or female) claiming to be dominant women. Commonly, the scammer will claim that they are inundated with messages and that you need to send them a "tribute" (money) to prove your sincerity before they will speak with you further. Typically, but not always, they will request that you send the money via an Amazon Gift Certificate. Not uncommonly, once the money is received, the scammer will stop responding to messages or delete their account. So, before sending anyone 'tribute', remember that your only reward may be a lower bank balance.

First and foremost I have never sold my body or the use of my body for the sexual gratification of any male from this site.  I am a findomme.  Those that I feel are playing games yes I will demand tribute.  For those that are sincere I accept as a sub.  I am not here to play games at all and would hope that the other users are not either. 

So to the one who messaged me this I feel sorry for you and hope that you find what you are looking for.

Rules:

#1 You will address ME as Ma’am, or Miss Ari only. I have no other name to you until I allow you to address ME as Mistress or Goddess. That will not happen until you have proven yourself to me!

#2 Do not lie to ME, hide things from ME, or otherwise try to annoy ME. You are here purely to make ME happy, not to be a burden in My life!

#3 This is financial domination – you will be required to make financial gifts to ME! If this is not something you are willing to do – depart now.

#4 You are here to serve ME not the other way around.

#5 I do not allow slutting behind my back from my exclusive slaves. That is cause for extreme disciplinary actions and fines if you are caught the first 2 times and instant dismissal on the third!

#6 I am a young spoiled Mistress with very strong ethics and demands. If you can not handle that don’t waste your and MY time. There are many more boys where you came from who can appreciate being controlled by ME.

#7 If you are going to contact ME do not do so with empty hands. I do not set a first time tribute amount but will let you chose what you can afford. I simply want to see that you are sincere and able to be my cash pet.

#8 I do not accept slaves unemployed guys or guys from India.

#9 You will speak in full sentences and in English to me ONLY.If you can’t speak english you’re wasting my time. I’m not here to try and figure out what you mean!

#10 Mind your manners with ME and keep the "poor me" stories off MY emails or messenger. I am not your Mother or best friend but your Goddess/Mistress if you are fortunate enough.

#11 I am NOT cheap to serve, but neither am I unreasonable. Always be honest with me in what you can afford. I want to see your sacrifice for ME but I am not interested in ruining MY toys either. If you can not afford at least $100 a month you stand very little chance of becoming one of MY owned slaves. You may be a casual boy at best. The more you spend the more contact you may have with ME! This should give you a guideline.

#12 I only do CONSENSUAL blackmail with those who have entered a contract with ME. That is not cheap and if you are barely able to tribute the minimum above you won’t be able to afford the pleasure of MY contract and demands!

#13 Know your priorities! If you are married and have children you must make sure they are taken care of with their needs first. I do not put innocent victims into a bad position. However, all your play money is MINE period. I am your priority after your basic needs are met!

Need to know more?

You want my attention, prepare a tribute. I have enough whiners to last Me a life time.

They get blocked. This is a fetish, one I happen to enjoy quite a lot, so much even that it’s a life style. I deserve to be spoiled, are you ready to make a life style change? This is all about Me, and what I want. I enjoy cuckolding, blackmail, computer control via teamviwer, sissies being in debt to Me, humilation, shopping, chastity, leaving you broke and trembling, having My own credit card that you provide Me, forced feminization, forced-bi, and a load of other things.

Falling into my web will have you tangled for life. Screwing you up enough that you won’t think about anything else. Goddess, work, Goddess, please Her. That will be your thought process. Why? I’m what you cant have, teasing you with thoughts that it’s possible, but you know in your heart of hearts that you can’t possibly be worthy enough. You’re right. You aren’t. Your money is the only way you’re able to get and keep My attention.

Best way to contact Me is through here.

Ok.  Y'all want to play games.  FINE!  I am starting a new shit list.

1. Izzi  aka ponyboyizzi@yahoo.com aka moe howard on facebook and ponyboyizzi on twitter.

   You are an official fucked up little cunt.  You made promises and then were not man enough to see them through.  I do thank you for turning me down the path I am now though I hope you find a Mistress who will use you like the cunt you are.  Thank you Izzi.

Dear Sub and Slave Wannabe's,

     I have given it a lot of thought and find myself dealing with posers and fakes more and more each day.  I want to make it very clear.  I am a LIFESTYLE PROFESSIONAL DOMME. 

men:

     You want a session with me fine.  Tribute is required.  You must be willing to prove your worth to me before I ever allow my ropes, whips, floggers, canes, and hands to touch you.  I am not a slut I do not offer sex.  If you want sex from some random person put an add on craigslist.

Women:

     Why the bloody hell is it so hard for you to understand I am looking for a live in 24/7 slave.  I want another woman here to not only pamper me but to be pampered in return.  I am very sexual and want you to be as well.  Yes you will have chores and duties but you will be rewarded. 

     All in all I am very dissapointed in the trash on here. 

~Ari

Hey you pansy ass little bitch boys.  You want to be mine and belong to me then fine.  You will prove your worth beforehand and you will come to my house.  No more of this bullshit driving to go meet you somewhere.  This is not how it works.  So BEFORE you contact me saying you are oh so willing consider this.  You come to me.  You got a problem with it then I dont have the time for you.

~Ari

Ok girls, here is a tip, if you contact me and list yourselves as bisexual, and then balk about being used by a man, you should probably list yourselves as lesbian, or not as a "no-limits slave", it just a waste of time for both of us, and since I am the Domme, it is my time that is important. Got it! Good!

~Ari

Ok cleaning, organizing and redecorating a former bachelor pad isn't fun, but the rewards will be great, especially once we gut the rugs, and do the basement dungeon style.

~Ari

Oh just remembered, I am going to school to be a nurse, so have no fear, I can patch you up after I play with you *wink*

~Ari