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Female Dominant, 33, bronx, New York
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Dominant Couple, 47, Ava, Missouri
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Female Dominant, 35, ny/nj, New Jersey
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About MistressAphrodite
"Genuine, deep and extensive submissiveness" means that you are docile, malleable, obedient, humble, respectful and passive at your core. Submission is not just a role you enjoy playing, but the natural expression of your true personality, which expands well beyond the sexual sphere. You do not submit because you suffer from emotional instability, low self-esteem, fear of abandonment or any other psychological condition, but because at a certain point in your life you came to realize that you are a born follower, and that being owned, led and developed by a dominant partner, serving her and being molded according to her needs and wishes, is just your natural path towards intimacy and inner freedom.
In the context of such a relationship you expect not only to be told how to behave, but also how to think. You do not merely submit to your owner's will : you strive to embody it. Conversely, passive aggressiveness, topping from the bottom or behaving bratty in order to get punished are all attitudes you consider disgraceful and below your standard.
According to Merriam-Webster, "to submit" means "to stop trying to fight or resist something" and "to yield to governance or authority" - quite a fitting definition for the kind of attitude one would reasonably expect from a self-professed submissive. In this respect, I deem it necessary to point out that assertions such as "I am deeply submissive, but can be very bratty at times" make as little sense as "I am deeply honest, but will sometimes steal from your wallet". Submissiveness - understood as meekness, passivity and a natural inclination to give in and follow - must be a quality that you actually have, not one that you just enjoy dreaming about.
Rebelliousness helps release stress and adrenaline, and makes you feels a sense of freedom. Add in sexual attraction, and that?s one hell of an addictive emotional cocktail. First, meet me in person for lunch and a glass of wine to start, always. Strictly conservative goddess foot worship and pampering. No nudity, no cum, no sex. I am open minded, but I have pretty strict standards. If you choose to inbox, do not send me useless messages. Let me know how you can make a princess, such as myself, happy and spoiled.
I cannot offer a 24/7 friendship, sorry to anyone who's seeking this. I'm interested in an ongoing friendship where we meet when time permits, no stress or pressure. If nothing pulls at you here, I want you to look elsewhere. I won't accept anything less, and neither should you. Real life/locals only <3 |
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Ah, the good old journal entries. I have tried to update my location, but this website is glitchy. I'm in Calgary now looking for little subbies to add to my stable. |
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It's funny how I randomly have flashbacks of myself domming in elementary school. This one boy always wanted to hangout with my friend and I. I was swinging on a swing in park and I had to spit. I spat while I was swinging and it landed on my leg. I was so grossed out because I was wearing shorts and I didn't have a tissue. Soo I thought it would be a good idea to order this boy to slurp it off my thigh. He did it. Quickly and willingly. I just laughed, but now looking back on it I realize I've been a budding domme and boys have always been willing to submit to me. |
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The sky is blue, water is wet, women are superior to men. |
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Last night was amazing. My girlfriend turned 23, so we went out for dinner then went bar hopping. As I've mentioned a million times before, it's easy to detect when men around you have submissive tendencies or would like to be your slave. We got several free drinks at the bars, but the best was when we went outside for a cigarette. Some dude walked up to us and said he would like us to come more often.... He put his hand in his pocket and handed us a $50 bill. We spoke for maybe two minutes and he gave us money for more drinks. Of course we took the cash, exchanged names and went back inside. Glad we had that experience on her birthday. As soon as he came outside and opened his mouth I knew he was a sub. Love it.... It felt as though we were magnets. Winning :) |
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I went to go get a pedicure and one of the employees did not resemble the majority of the workers. Right away I knew he was a sub. Who else would apply to work at a spa/nail salon. He offered me the wifi password and made sure the water wasn't too hot. I could see him pretending to look busy while catching a glimpse at the final product. I went to have a cigarette outside after my pedi. Since it was raining earlier and he saw the bench was wet he came over without me asking, wiped my bench down with a towel and offered me a seat! Bow down :) sometimes you can smell the submissiveness! |
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My darling from Quebec came to visit me in Toronto again ^_^ what a treat... Foot worship after working overtime this week... Mmmm <3 |
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So glad I snapped that photo. You can see her boyfriend patiently watching in the background as I spank his girlfriend's ass... Mmmmm very fun night :) dommmming girls is just as fun as I thought it would be. |
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The past week has been pretty sweet. I got a wicked foot rub from one of my slaves after a crazy shift at work.. Later I met up with my slave who's been filming with me, gave him some loogies directly onto his eyes. Hehehhehe :) dommed a couple last weekend as well. Definitely had a good time. I can say one thing though, I don't think I would ever be completely lesbian. Girls are clingy and jealous, turn off! Definitely looking forward to doing that again when time permits. |
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Just got back from camping and I have four nights off for the remaining days of July ! I would love to meet new slaves in the GTA, however, considering my schedule, I will not be able to meet new people as often as I would like! Mornings and early afternoons would be feasible, if one plans accordingly ^_^ xo |
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My darling cuckie from the states came to visit me in Toronto :) it was quite fun being his tour guide! I won some cash at the casino, went to a jays game, got a lovely pedicure in Stoney Creek, went shopping for PVC/leather attire and ended off with some foot worship... I'm looking forward to spending more time with him and meeting new submissives and slaves when I go to visit the U.S. |
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I'm so lucky. I met a very sweet and competent slave today. I told him where to meet me and what time, he arrived 15 minutes early. THAT is impressive. We simply started messaging back and forth this morning, and met shortly after, around 5pm. He took the transit to spend an hour with me massaging my feet while I enjoyed my booster juice.... Love it ^_^ |
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Ending work @5am.. My two favourite things, money and sunrises! |
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The world is my oyster and I have so many options at my disposal... What more could I ask for?! |
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<3 I'm the happiest girl in the world... So excited for the next few months of lovely weather and perfect experiences ! |
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To effectively put your submissives and slaves in subspace you must spend enough time trying to get to know their wants and needs out of this whole adventure. Every human is a switch in some way, shape or form. So being empathetic is easily achievable and required to ensure I'm being cruel/firm or nurturing/caring at appropriate moments in different contexts. I know what I love. I like to share that with others! Since I believe everyone is a switch and bisexual to some extent, it's not too hard to imagine what someone is seeking on the other end when your own kinky mind has probably desired a similar experience at some point in time. It did not take long to realize that bdsm is most enjoyable when all parties are satisfied. In reality, each person can be used and abused to some extent.. For example, submissives and slaves often get off on the idea of being used as chauffeurs, servants, stools, etc... Objectified and degraded :) ... Even though dommes are pampered and spoiled like princesses, we serve a specific role and purpose in this dynamic. D/s relationships can be initiated by submissives and their fantasies or desires... To be honest, I wouldn't have even joined this website without my very first slave from elementary school! He helped shape the domme I am today by sharing his fantasies and seeking opportunities for me to thrive and be spoiled. |
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LOL I just had the most random flashback. I've always been a dominant character, but I didn't really consider myself a domme until university... When I was in grade 6 or 7 my best friend and I went camping with my family. We met a cute older boy, got his email address to stay in touch over MSN... We made him put on his sister's bra and panties, then show us different sized markers he had at home so we can choose the biggest which he then had to fuck his own ass with (on webcam)..... He loved it and we laughed at him. After joining collarme last year, it hit me how long I've really been interested in different aspects of bdsm! |
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Mmmmmm the maple scent of these fresh 50 dollar bills will always remind me of my blue eyed devil... |
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I have an appointment for a pedicure today thanks to my lovely Matty. My feet will be looking perfect for Bestival this week <3 concert season has begun! |
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I had such a lovely morning gardening :) looking forward to attending my first country concert tomorrow!! |
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The secret of success is learning how to use pain and pleasure instead of having pain and pleasure use you. xoxoxo <3 Off to the cottage for the weekend... Canoeing and snuggling up with Georges Bataille's "Erotism: Death & Sensuality" :) |
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I am soooooo lucky. I will be in Ottawa next month, my sweet slave from Quebec will come pick me up and we will spend the day together.... Another sweet slave of mine made plans to spoil me this weekend out of the blue........ :) I'm so happy! I got lots of gardening done today..flowers, vegetables and herbs. Looking forward to the summer holidays <3 |
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Great day with my darling sub! It's nice to meet intellectual men and have a good conversation... Lunch and wine <3 mmmmm lovely start to my long weekend ! |
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I had a great morning.... Met a new slave and he cleaned my car and filled my gas tank :)
I smoked a cigarette and spat in his coffee while he made sure my car was spotless... <3 |
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"Red" Matt C has been such a cutiepie since day 1. I've been on collarme for a while now and it's been such a pleasure to have loyal followers who regularly spoil me. <3 xooxoxx stoked for spring shopping this weekend. |
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Elle est retrouv?
Quoi? L'eternit?
C'est la mer all?
Avec le soliel. |
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Nothing creepier than 5 separate profiles created on the same day message you.... -_- |
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:) I have an engraved dog tag, collar and leash for my subbies. Pink and girly..... Quite fitting! Check out the photo to see the details... A nice gift from a pathetic loser. |
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Told you.....A dime a dozen ! ^_^ |
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"The caterpillar is a prisoner to the streets that conceived it. Its only job is to eat or consume everything around it, in order to protect itself from this mad city. While consuming its environment the caterpillar begins to notice ways to survive. One thing it noticed is how much the world shuns him, but praises the butterfly. The butterfly represents the talent, the thoughtfulness, and the beauty within the caterpillar. But having a harsh outlook on life the caterpillar sees the butterfly as weak and figures out a way to pimp it to his own benefits. Already surrounded by this mad city the caterpillar goes to work on the cocoon which institutionalizes him. He can no longer see past his own thoughts. He's trapped. When trapped inside these walls certain ideas start to take roots, such as going home, and bringing back new concepts to this mad city. The result? Wings begin to emerge, breaking the cycle of feeling stagnant. Finally free, the butterfly sheds light on situations that the caterpillar never considered, ending the eternal struggle. Although the butterfly and caterpillar are completely different, they are one and the same."
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I love this site. I learn something new every day! |
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Wow I just had the most beautiful day today. My slave bought me new clothes for spring. Cute shoes, tops and jeans :) got lunch and had some drinks... I'm a lucky lady ^_^ it's nice to have good company with only one intention, to spoil me !
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A true gentleman only has eyes for one lady ^_^ |
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The goddess of love, desire and beauty.... I believe that love and desire could be two completely seperate worlds. Those of you who are familiar with the bdsm community should understand that desires can be fulfilled with no love present what so ever >:D
Detachment is part of a healthy D/s ownership ! |
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A perfect foot rub to end off a perfect day :) |
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:) exams are almost finished! So excited for summer holidays :D |
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