MistressACyn


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	About MistressACyn I do keep a journal of sorts. Read it to know more... Other profile is AmberCyn; these are my halves. *wink What You See Is What You Get: I work hard and play hard. Getting into the swing of this divorce thing. I've been told you can't find love, it has to find you. Been learning to let a lot of things go but not my self. Asked often what I am seeking.... the foundation of friendship built with mutual honesty, respect, openness, trust communication and dare I say, Love? From there, I believe we can go anywhere. Absolutely expecting a relationship for the long term. I'm a realist, very selective... and so too should you. Chat function does not work for me here.

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The way to a woman's heart is through her mind...

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A short list...just what's on my mind at this time.

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I do like to study and I so enjoy experimentation...yes, it really is all about my use of a sub. A Domme needs to know a lot about a sub in the front-end so that it runs smoothly on the back end, er - so to speak (pun intended) :D
That is something I like to have in the exchange...a sub telling me how they feel, steady stream of consciousness. I take the information, and do with it what I want...be that laughing, making difficult, showing sympathy, smacking, hugging, anything at the sub...and the sub accepts it, takes it, wants it, needs it from me.
Spoke to a sub friend about this. First I asked him to explain in his own words what I meant - "you want to always know what it is that im thinking so that you can know how you wish to treat me during whatever circumstances in my life, that you always know what is going through my head and are able to do what you wish with it."

"Very good", says I, "but generalize next time...I'm not being specific to you". hee-hee

He continued that he felt "the Dominant/submissive relations is all about control and how it is used. That the more that is known by the domme the more she can know how to control the sub. Therefore she gets more pleasure out of the relationship, and also the sub finds that the domme has more ability to control in the fashion that he enjoys making his experience also better".

So, I explained that is also where things start breaking down. As much time, effort and understanding goes into learning about and training a person that is to be a submissive...the person (sub) sometimes gets "out of hand" and starts taking things into their own hands and then it's all a mess. It is all about trust, honesty, openness, and leaving your ego at the door. Also, some would say that a Domme putting so much into a sub is submissive in itself. Everyone has a different style though. I mean, maybe I get too involved with a sub.

"anyone who doesnt think you are a great domme is an idiot in my book. i dont think you should change a thing...".

Oh, so you see the difference? *grinning* See, this dude wants me to take him and I've already told him no but he doesn't want to take no...says I'm torturing him.
Doing what? oh?! No, that isn't fair. I told him I wondered earlier if it was a diservice to both of us, continuing to speak with him.

"You certainly know how to appeal to my Domme side...and yes there is a part of me that is enjoying that it is torturing you. Is that mean? I dunno..."

And I still don't know.?

One reason I can think of for wanting someone closer-by is to get to know someone first and slowly training them to be what we wanted you to be.

I think to build the bond of trust is to start Vanilla: This is how it feels to be understood and loved by her. (this is what she wants during vanilla-sex: if I do this, she'll go all night *wink)
It promotes security and starts your devotion to her.

Building onto the D/s aspect of BDSM. This will start the training.

Feel that I am just a person, dominant, passionate, playful... turned on by a willing victim that wants what I have to give - cruelty, brutal honesty with no modesty when we are in my room.

Then it goes deep. You want it all the time, you taste me in the back of your throat. ('cuz believe me, I'm tasting myself and I know itz good...)

I need the realistic-version of "happily ever after"...

Well I'm here so at least part of the equation is easy to figure out. It's almost 97% certain that people I meet on the street are vanilla and whilst I like the flavor, I'm not for it all the time. Anyways, BDSM is joked about but not easy to bring up in "normal" conversation.?

I'm through with shock-value. You have a benefit of seeing me before you message me, I expect a pic (head-shot, not ur cock) with your note.

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