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Female Dominant, 36, Great Falls, Montana
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Female Dominant, 41, beaverton, Oregon
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Female Submissive, 28, Tampa Bay Area, Florida
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About mistian
Writing and text-based communication methods are very important to me. If you think reading a profile is too difficult, we are probably not compatible. I am looking for a Dom who is sadistic and interested in pushing physical boundaries. I am hoping to find someone who is willing to help me explore and try new things with appropriate teachers within the community. My age range of 28-50 is firm. I can offer the usual domestic & personal services, administrative services (I have experience as an admin in multiple industries), and dog training, including service tasks or showing. I'm organized. generally cheerful, and a bit of a geek. Orientation/Experience:
- I am heteroflexible. I have developed deep, almost romantic, friendships with women and been topped by women for S&M but I have minimal interest in women sexually.
- I originally identified as a physical masochist and S&M compatibility remains an important aspect to consider in relationships. My interests and the things I want to try include some things that might be considered edge play.
- I am a novice rope bottom and especially enjoy suspensions. I don't see rope or bondage as a strong need. If you're into it, cool. If not, I probably won't miss it.
- As a submissive, I identify primarily as service-oriented. I want to be useful in concrete day-to-day ways. While I don't mind offering sexual submission and services, that feels hollow to me without other aspects of service.
Relocation: I work from home and don't mind renting a room in a new location that generally suits my needs. That gives me the ability to move within the continental US but I'm not interested in moving outside of the US. For me to consider relocation, we would need to talk a bit on this site, talk via email, and skype (fully clothed, not sexting). We would need to have compatible goals and expectations. |
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Relationship Types: Open Poly vs Unicorn vs Mono
I'm comfortable with poly relationships that are open, meaning all parties are free to seek additional partners within whatever rules are established. I have been in open relationships and understand the work and communication that goes into them.
I am not comfortable being a unicorn to an established M/F couple. I have tried it twice in the past. In one case, I just always felt like a third wheel because I wasn't allowed to form other relationships outside of the couple but I was always less than their relationship. That's different than being one person's secondary while having or being free to seek my own primary. It just didn't work for me. In the other case, they really wanted someone who was evenly bisexual and I'm just not. They thought they could ease me into it and that didn't work out well.
I have not tried being a unicorn to a M/M couple. I don't know how that would work out. I might be willing to discuss it to try to understand the parameters. If I did decide to try something like that, I would be interested in MMF more than MFM. Maybe I've been reading too many romance novels.
I am also okay with sexual monogamy as long as there is enough freedom for me to make friends (of any gender) without excessive jealousy or possessiveness from my partner. I'm hoping for a sadistic Dom who will push my physically and encourage me to try things that interest me even if it's not something he's an expert in Topping. Example: If there's a local cutting demo or a chance to try it at a party with a different Top even though my Dom doesn't do blood play, I'd like to be able to do it. |
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