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Male Dominant, 55, South Amboy, New Jersey
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Male Dominant, 57, woodland hills, California
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About MisterWhite
Edited 22-Feb
About me? A shy, geeky, middle-aged, out-of-shape, fetish-oriented switch in South Carolina, late of North Carolina. But also a nice guy, intelligent and educated, and a decent conversationalist (preferably over good coffee or a good dinner) with a wide array of interests, both BDSM and general.
I've been on both sides of the ropes and both sides of the relationship, and get a great deal out of either or both.
In terms of play, I adore physical bondage of all kinds, either as top or bottom. I'm not so much a masochist as a stimulation junkie, which can include painful stimulation, but I hope would include other varieties. I am no sadist, just somewhat of an unpracticed service top. I love protocol from either side, and firmly believe that a sound relationship requires mutual respect.
Happy to talk more about myself if asked!
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This is another e-mail adaptation. It is mostly written with finding a dominant partner in mind, but most of it applies regardless.
The two elements of an intimate relationship, whether or not romantic or D/s, that I can not do without are mutual caring and respect. Caring probably doesn't really need elaboration -- respect might. To me, that means respecting the other's qualities, needs, desires, and even weaknesses. So my dominant might show caring and respect by putting me on a leash, for example -- what other people might see as humilation, were it not done with caring, but respecting my need for submission and my desire for objectification.
Other important criteria include the partner being reasonably thoughtful and able to hold a conversation on a variety of topics (except if a gag or speech restriction is involved!). Physical attractiveness is not vital, but is desirable (pretty much by definition, I suppose). Reasonably compatible play interests -- I categorize at least occasional physical bondage as a need, for example; as best I can tell, it's been part of my psyche since I was 2 years old. Elegance is a another desideratum: I appreciate a partner who pays attention to dressing for an occasion, who shows and appreciates good manners, and so forth.
I guess that will do for now. |
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