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Male Dominant, 55, South Amboy, New Jersey
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Male Dominant, 57, woodland hills, California
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About MisterFish
This profile is about 1600 words long. It is quite well written and perhaps even, in a way, fun to read. If reading this much is too much trouble for you, then we are probably not suited. I am looking for a serious relationship and I need someone who is willing to put the effort in to that, to the level that I do.
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I am waiting for a deeply submissive woman.
One possessed of a mind, and a heart and a soul. Someone not in a hurry, someone not afraid of change. I am ready for the arrival of a genuine adventurer, a power exchange outlaw. In short, I need a heroine.
I need someone who, like me, is intelligent, receptive, courageous and adaptable, but unlike me is a receiver rather than a doer. I need a co-pilot for the ship of the soul, in search of new shores.
I am sane, and I am both emotionally intelligent and available. I am patient, tenacious, acerbically witty and one hell of a cook. I am not on any kind of messiah trip. I am happy to answer, with candor, any questions that you may have about me. I have been doing Ds consistently for more that three decades and I really do know what I am doing. You may be just as experienced or a complete beginner. Desire, hunger, enthusiasm,these are far more important to me than experience. I dont care who your first was, I wont judge you for where you have been, I only care who will be your last and where you will go to next.
I am not here to figure out who I am or to hit someone up for casual sex. I am here for a very specific person for a very specific reason. I am happy to have a brief email exchange, but I do want to meet in the world, (your choice of venue, time and date by negotiation), within a very short period. I am only interested in real-time in-person relationships. I dont have a facebook or a twitter account.
I wouldnt want to give the impression that I might be looking for a casual or occasional play partner. I am not. I am only interested in a Ds relationship. I enjoy complex committed relationships and I am pretty good at them. I find that Ds gets better as it becomes more complex and personalised. For me, it takes too much effort for too little reward to do this as a trivial thing.
In terms of our relationship? Well, if you do get involved with me, then from the beginning I shall offer, and expect a lot. Probably much more than you are used to and so should you because, in the end, the only things worth anything in this world are the bonds we build with each other.
Having said that, bonds take time to build and trust takes time to grow. I want us to build our relationship solidly and well. I want to take the time to get it right.
My style of Ds is not straightforward or easily described. I guess the bedrock of it is similar to age play a daddy figure with his teenage ward but it also has elements of boardroom politics and of military discipline, along with a reasonable leavening of well-controlled interrogator andor psycho hazard and a fairly sizeable dark, slinky, sexy bordello edge. All of this is brought together in an atmosphere of humour, love and positivity. Which I guess makes it sound like a psychedelic-Mr-Benn-meets-Mork-and-Mindy-angel-cake-recipe. See, I told you it was difficult to describe. Actually, people whove tried it tell me its pretty good, a lot of fun and actually really quite useful in all sorts of unexpected ways. For now, I guess youll just have to take my word for that.
I do not want to control every aspect of your life but I expect, in time, to be able to control any aspect of your life that I wish. I would, for instance, expect you to maintain and develop your links with your family, continue with your career andor your interests, in fact I will join you where appropriate and help with those things.
If you already have children or if you want them in the future, that is fine by me, if you do not, that is just fine too. I am not looking for a housekeeper or a domestic servant, (though if we live together you will do your share! I will not be picking up after you!). I am definitely not looking for a cook.
For the future, I offer serious work and a real challenge. I offer laughter and love in abundance. I offer rest and quiet and good living. I offer an ever deepening relationship and change upon change towards the realisation of a better day tomorrow than it was today, and a better day the day after that. I offer nothing at all for free, and everything within reach to those who will stretch for it, and Ill tell you exactly how to get there. This is what I call Ds.
I offer the deepest love, the warmest support, the strongest arms and I offer pain, tears and the deepest degradation born of total ownership. In addition I offer the sense of pride that only a fully functional and thriving submissive can know and I offer you a journey that I guarantee will make you a better person on both your own terms and on mine.
In return, and again over time, I will require your trust, your love, and your loyalty, from the beginning I expect your desire to learn and to grow and, above all, a genuine need to serve. I dont expect you to per the impossible and I take responsibility for your development you wont need to dominate yourself - I will however, require you to give everything that you are to our journey together.
I can say with absolute certainty that, with me, you will encounter situations that challenge you in ways that you have never previously been challenged. At those testing times if you are prepared to give me the benefit of the doubt, hold my hand and trust me, I will never let you fall, and I will, each time, take you through your own looking glass, into a better world.
If you have, at present or in the past bought into the BDSM scene and you now come fully loaded with a pre-ordained itinerary with a catalogue of things you want to do a rule book of things you dont want to happen. If you have a tick-list of things that I should be, (or, worse, that I should not), and if those lists are important to you, then move on to the next profile in the line and dont waste your time here. The probability of my being that thing there, is vanishingly small. I, like you, am unique.
I do Ds as it was done before the internet-BDSM-thought-police got their hands on it and reduced it, in fear, to a bloodless, ulaic, groupthink that would be inoffensive to the most prosecutorial of journalists. I do control and guidance and support and love all the time, I do sexual, psychological, visceral Ds when its fun.
I say this again. Nothing is ever for free. I give, and I take. A future with me will be as demanding as it will be rewarding. I will dominate and control you in the way that suits you best, but you will be expected to serve me in the way that suits me.
This is the real deal.
The only agreement that truly achieves balance is that drawn from the basis of everything that matters to all parties.
In other words, bring to me an honest heart, an open mind and a willing soul bring you bring your life and everything in it that you love and I will do the same.
You should be at least open to the idea that within a reasonable period of time you will need to relocate. Not any time soon, within two to three years perhaps. I will want to be as sure of you as you will want to be of me, but with the right person, and with time, this will be where I want things to go. If and when you do that, you will need to settle with, or leave behind your commitments, (or bring them with you if you like or love them - I might love them too), but I will not let you use them as an excuse to remain stuck.
You should prepare for change in your life to begin, in small ways, almost immediately.
You should make ready for a new balance, borne of genuine inequality. Be prepared to sh |
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