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MisterDevlin

MisterDevlin

Masculine, intelligent male, experienced with feminine trans and CD individuals, seeks lustful, respectful, friendship and intimacy with feminine-identifying crossdresser, genderqueer, non-binary, or transgender woman. Addendum, Summer 2022: Some of this is going to sound out of place on this site, but I'm posting this where there is a sizeable population of trans feminine folks. Truth be told, I'm not really a fetishist or rope jockey. I do enjoy the role of Daddy to a submissive fem, but I'm not seeking a strict or punitive situation for my partner. Apologies if that's what you need. Here's an expansion of the brief profile info above: I'm a mature, single cis male with about a decade of experience dating and relating with trans feminine people. I'm literate, funny, intelligent, warm-hearted, empathic, romantically inclined, and a good listener. For what it's worth, I'm "straight-acting", though this concept seems archaic. I'm not a fetishist with regard to your gender identity; I understand my primary attraction to be toward feminine people with an AMAB or XY chromosome background. My aim is to make a serious, lasting connection that includes much affection, vulnerability, and trust. Friendships are fine, too. Hookups really aren't my thing, but nothing that is mutually agreeable and friendly can be ruled out entirely ;-) I'm just not into randomness or anonymity when it comes to intimacy. Some basic stuff: I'm tallish at 6'1", my weight is proportional to my height–around 185-90, I've got good hair (brown with a little gray), green eyes, and one dimple. I'm a non-smoker, moderate drinker, and I default to vegetarian (but stay flexible for the sake of foodie friends). I like to get outdoors for moderate exercise regularly, and I wear a fitbit to stay aware of my activity. My preference for a partner is that she/they be non-smoking and non-vaping, and generally non-chemically dependent. I'm not into conspicuous consumption and believe in reducing impact on the planet by getting use out of things. My car is not fancy, and I don't rely on it or other possessions to boost my status or self-esteem. This isn't to say I don't like nice things, but after a couple of years in lockdown and dealing with a parental estate, I see possessions in general are more of a burden than a boon. Sex-wise, I'm probably kind of 'vanilla' in the general sense. I love physical affection, kissing, affirming touch, and all of that lovey-dovey stuff. I enjoy the dynamic between my masculinity and your sweet femininity. I'm experienced with some kink, often having adapted myself to the needs of a fem partner, and I've enjoyed the role of "Daddy" for younger partners. However, I approach each individual with an open mind. Some people have very specific fetishes, which I'm certainly willing to discuss and entertain. Role-play can be fun, but a real connection during intimacy is more valuable than fantasy. What turns me on (and keeps me turned on) is a real affection and closeness with my feminine partner. From there, all things seem possible. Having said that, I'm not into gross things like bathroom stuff, animals, kids, pain, and the like. I don't have any practical experience with ropes or rubber or other gear-heavy kinks. My interest is in making you feel as womanly and special as possible by being the loving man that you need and desire. Finally, (and if you've read this far, I applaud you) I'm unable to kidnap you, relocate you, enslave you, or make you and your unwanted masculinity disappear from the place and circumstance you're currently living in. And I don't wish to supervise every aspect of your life as a Dom. I don't have the time or energy to build my ideal partner from the gorund up. However, I don't judge you for your desires, and I wish you the best in your search. I don't like to bring this very last point up, but everything in our world has become political or politicized, whether we wish it to be or not. So, in order to head off any serious mis-matches before they occurr, I'm going to have to say that I'm fully vaccinated against Covid-19, and I would prefer my partner to be as well. At current writing, Mpox is becoming a serious situation on a global scale, and as soon as I'm able to get vaccinated against it, I will be. Having expressed my acceptance of vaccines, I guess it doesn't take a huge leap in thought to know that I'm not a Right-winger, a conspiracy believer, or a MAGA follower. I truly wish our society wasn't so divided, but it is, and I'm not looking for an adversarial reltionship or conversation with anyone whose views are diametrically opposed to my own. I'm not here for hate, ignorance, or bigotry.