mister4slave

 I had an interesting discussion with a person the other day where I tried to explain the difference between abuse and BDSM, The hard part with a discussion like that is I did it all so I becomes natural to me to see a distinct difference between the two. That also makes it a bit harder to communicate the differences and why BDSM has nothing to do with real abuse.

The most important thing that differs BDSM from real and destructive abuse is the consent, All BDSM is built upon trust and consent. Real abuse doesn’t include consent.

The other big difference is what I would like to describe as a theft, the fact that your powers are stolen from you by the abuser in real abuse. In BDSM the submissive hand over the powers to the dominant, voluntarily and with consent. The dominant then treats that with respect and care.

Also if you interested I can give you a list shows the big differences between them..

Mr. H

Strict Dominance and Submissive Training the will of the submissive requires strict dominance, Nothing is more beautiful than a submissive that can behave accordingly in a specific context.

why the slaves afraid to talk? with talking you dont know what it could happen