This is so true!
From Men's Health
Often a woman will tell a friend a kinky story piece by piece, gauging her listener, pulling back if she senses disapproval, and elaborating if she perceives approval. She'll be bragging as much as trying to figure out if what she did the night before is legal. This reminds me of being 10 and eating an ant on the playground for a dollar; it took many tellings of the story, testing my public, to determine if I was cool or I was a loser.
That's because inside each woman is an argyle-sock schoolteacher, and inside her there's an Amsterdam hooker wearing a gold thong and suspenders. Inside her is a wool-suited librarian reshelving books of 18th-century poetry. And inside her is an 18-year-old Iowa cheerleader on some sinful mission in her Trans Am. And at the heart is Eve, barefoot in an orchard.
Have More Fun----My classy lady might just be a naughty superfreak on the inside -- it's up to me to coax that out of her. The key: Tell her it's okay. Women are conditioned to fulfill the role of 'good girl,' They need permission from me to break that mold, to change from being their parents' good girl to being my hot girlfriend.
Give Her ?Some? Power----Imagine her doing something wild, then describe it to her! You have to see her that way before she'll be able to act that way. She has to feel confident that I think she's capable of it.
Show Her Off----In public, whisper how much she turns me on and combine that with some neck kissing. Get her used to feeling sexy in public and she'll reciprocate in private.
Grant Her Wishes ?Too?----If she's joked about skinny-dipping, find a lake. If she's mentioned skydiving, book the plane. Overcoming her fears with her will build trust and make her more likely to go out on a limb the next time. I am giving her the security to be daring.
Tease Her All Day----Plant a long kiss on her in the a.m. and tell her I can't wait to ravage her later. Knowing you find her irresistible is the ultimate turn-on. Follow up with phone calls and chat and we will both be counting the hours.
Her Biggest Secrets, (what I learned so far)
Her entourage knows all about you.----As hard as she might try?which probably isn't hard at all?a girl can't keep a new fling to herself. Early in a relationship, you dominate her life, so her friends are already calling and e-mailing her for daily updates. If she were any less discreet, she'd have a blog with your name in the URL.
The worse she is at accepting compliments, the more she craves them. ----A babe who barely blinks when you tell her she's beautiful knows she's hot, and your praise scarcely registers. On the other hand, a woman who blushes, looks away, or tells you you're crazy doesn't consider herself particularly pretty. To her, the words "You look gorgeous" are pure gold.
That sex trick she says she's never done before? She has. Many times.----Women figure that even the most sensitive man likes to feel sexually dominant at first, so she'll downplay her carnal knowledge. In a couple of months, her real bedroom persona will rear its randy head.
Half of her ecstatic moans are partially bullshit.----You could be stimulating every one of her erogenous zones, but the odds that she's having monster orgasms right off the bat are low. The majority of women are far too self-conscious at the beginning of a relationship to totally let go, so she fakes it sometimes (she's just too shy).
Her job is more impressive than she lets on.----Don't believe her when she says her title isn't as VIP as it sounds. Women tend to be modest when it comes to work, in part because they don't base their self-worth entirely on a career status.
How she feels about you is written all over her face.----If she's into you, she'll grin like an idiot when you enter a room. If she stands up and walks toward you, she's downright smitten.
She's picturing what I'll look like in 10 years.----From my posture to my waistline, she's evaluating how well I?ll likely to age, especially since I?m older than she is. She wants to make sure I am not going to turn out like her beer-bellied, couch-potato dad.
It takes her 20 minutes to write you a one-line e-mail.----Don't think that just because it's all in lowercase and there's one misspelled word, she shot off that e-mail without a thought. She's revising and reading it out loud until it seems pithy yet spontaneous.
Whatever you say will be held against you, eventually.----Early on, you might feel free to say all sorts of things about drugs you've tried, actresses you'd love to sleep with, or your buddy's bachelor party. She'll appear to take it in stride, but in fact she's storing the details for future fights.
Refuse to tell a lie and she's sure to swoon.----Most people have flexible morals. They wouldn't steal anything, but they don't bother to correct a cashier if she hands back an extra $5 in change. Your date secretly hopes that you'll turn out to be as upstanding as Superman.
She's gathering clues about your last girlfriend.----If she could, she would track your ex down and interview her about what you're like and why the two of you didn't work out. But she's not a psycho, so she waits for you to disclose tidbits that she can piece together.
She's judging you by your books.----The movies and albums you own tell a girl a lot about your personality, but it's the titles on your bookshelves that she's interested in. Back issues of Motor Trend and dog-eared Tom Clancy paperbacks won't win you any love.
She fears commitment, too.----She just doesn't realize it. Before long, she'll start nudging your relationship to the next level, because that's what women are trained to do from birth. Deep inside, she's just as unsure about what she wants and reluctant to give up her independence. That's why, when she finally is your girlfriend, she'll start freaking out.
