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About MissPearl
Not a Pro, Stop Offering Me Money For Scenes/Findom/Blackmail/Cam
Sorry, off the market again. Friends only. :)
Me: Pale, with dark hair that's just one shade below black and usually?pulled into a low tail below my right ear. Strong features, a long straight nose, large eyes and a wide mouth, brown eyes with a faint splash of green in the right light.
I'm playful, unabashedly geeky (grew up with tabletop) and by turns prim and exuberant. At my best I'm loving, generous, open minded and empathetic. At my worst I'm stubborn and private to the point of insular, self doubting and emotionally withdrawn.
I adore reading, everything from paperback trash to vintage sci-fi and non-fiction and I write professionally and for fun. I'm liable to be found with a cup of tea in one hand and my fingers on the keyboard. I like to cook and to bake, and as I write this there's two loaves of bread rising in their pans. To read my kinky writing, wander over to my website www.omisspearl.com.
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I like how I look. People seem to like how I look too. I'm relatively low maintenance, physically and emotionally. I like to try new things and will generally order the weirdest thing on the menu to push my comfort zone. I'm more practical and frugal than impulsive and spendthrift- I have a large purse but I also carry a first aid kit, flashlight and a knife. There's a sizeable maternal streak to my character and even if I'm not interested in something I can still enjoy a conversation.
I'm active in the Montreal scene including some light organizational stuff, but not heavily invested in it. I do not own a massive fetish wardrobe and 300 different sorts of flogger. I will happily help newbies with questions, but I won't take anyone on as a "trainer sub". Helping you figure things out is not the same as dominating you.
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As a dominant I tend to err on the side of sadistic, but I can't really do the sissy/useless shtick. To be exact I'm a sadomasochist, though I'm missing the psychological urge to submit, so I'm not a proper switch and owning someone is dandy. Generally I tend to think in terms of servants, captives and thralls. I got my books carried from me a lot as a teenager, and I never grew out of playing war with the boys and taking people prisoner at water pistol point- if I like you enough, you might even get to shoot back.
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I've known I was kinked since puberty and have about the experience you'd expect from that sort of starting point. ?
My policy:
Friends first, sensible and safety minded. If I wouldn't enjoy having a cup of tea in a cafe with you I'm hardly going to want to slap you around. Not really interested in making you into a bimbo-sissy-slut or being hired to fill your fantasy. Similarly disinclined towards super serious protocol with strangers.?
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I know what I like- trust me, if I say no I mean it. We'll waste both our time by giving you a "chance". But there's lots of wonderful people out there, you'll find someone! :)
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If you want to amuse me, you can call me "Miss" but I'm secure enough in being a dominant that I don't need to have strangers call me "Goddess Lady Whiplash, Duchess of Discomfort". I generally don't like "Mistress", but you can call yourself that if you like.
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Basically I'm open to friends, and I'm open to dangling what you can't have at people. I'm happy to be mumsy and nice to newbies to help them figure things out, but I don't trainer dom. Outside my relationship I still play, but that's with local-to-me friends, and they're the sort of people who I'd also be happy to see a movie with.? |
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**Edit** After helping a few people, I fear i do not have time to take on anymore unpaid writing work.
I've decided as a professional writer I'm going to offer profile consultations. While I know some of you are getting off on having eye-bleedingly *awful* profiles and contact messages, some of you are lost, scared or new... or don't know what to ask for.
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You wouldn't think one would need a FAQ, but given the messages I get in my inbox, I thought I'd toss some pearls of advice and information before the next message was delivered.
1) There will be no mention of ?oral worship?, ?queening?, ?oral service? or treating cunnilingus like it?s the holy grail of what all dommes want. I don?t care how good you are with your tongue, it?s not my thing because it feels itchy.
2) For that matter assume whenever you say ?worship? I hear ?slobber on? and adjust accordingly.
3) Locking you into strict chastity and never letting you orgasm implies I never want to have anything to do with you sexually. No, at all. If this is your fantasy you?d better play a mean hand of crazy eights and do all the locking yourself.
4) I usually don?t paint my toenails. Nope. You?d be amazed how often I get asked this one.
5) You may have dreamed of a strict mistress, who is harsh and cruel, but I?m pretty easy going and way too distractible. ?ooo, shiny things and puppies!? Telling me that I embody this ideal will get embarrassed, slightly insulted giggles. Are you calling me a bitch?
6) I?m not a Goddess. There is no goddess within me, which you can worship through service to me. What there is in me is an atheist who can?t keep a straight face.
7) I?m not a professional. Any activity is strictly amateur. Ergo demanding I plan a session with you right away is like approaching a vanilla woman for sexy-time. What are you, crazy?
8) I don?t own a lot of high heeled shoes. The ones I do own tend to make me teeter around and get sore feet.
9) The female gender is not superior. Implying we are is sexist, and sort of a cruel joke, given the general global status of women. My beliefs in equality mean that I think women are just as dumb, morally suspect and violently inclined as males are, and I'll back this up with data.
10) Asking a domme to take on a complete newbie sub and guide him into the right way to do things is asking me to do your homework. It?s okay to be new, but this is the era of the internet, and a time of great publishing freedom. |
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