MissKarenD

Female Switch, 23, Southern Illinois, Illinois

Female Dominant, 24, Portland, Oregon

Female Dominant, 21, NOYB, Alabama

So, was gone for awhile again - dated someone briefly (VERY briefly) who turned out to have issues following directions and respecting boundaries.  So, yeah, still looking.

Random thought: if you see yourself as "worthless" or a "loser" ... then what value would you have to me?  Why would I want to own something that has no worth? Submissive or not, our boy has value to us, he means something to us - and if and when we add a second boy, he will also have value to us.  If he didn't, we wouldn't bother. So if you see yourself as worthless, as having no value, etc - please don't waste our time or yours.  I don't have the time or patience to convince someone of their own intrinsic worth, and I won't own anyone or anything that has no value.

So ... between stress at work, holidays, and getting a new computer, I haven't been on here in forever. My apologies to those I had been talking to. I really am sorry. I hate it when people go "poof" on me, and then I did it. I am back now, and planning to stick around now that I've remembered my password again ...

It's always disappointing when guys that I've enjoyed talking to just go *poof* ...

Ok ... so I am having some serious computer/internet communication issues at this point.  Messages that I've tried to send have just sat there, and I may have just double-sent a message to someone (oops!).  On the one hand, I much prefer living in the middle of nowhere; on the other hand, living in the city would probably improve my internet connection greatly ...

I need someone who is willing to buy me silly games for me to play on my computer ;-P  lol

6 hours of work on my day off for me, and Holly has worked 10 hours today ... and our boy is off at his job this evening.  While I don't know how Holly feels, I so need a boy to take care of me at this point.  This is why we need a second boy ... *sigh*

If you send a message asking if you may send a message ... I'm going to be sarcastic in return.  This also goes for sending a message asking if you can say hi (or variations of) or even better, asking if you "may approach" ... It's silly and as far as I'm concerned, those who "require" that sort of nonsense are pretentious, and trying too damned hard. If you want to say hello, then say hello.  It's as simple as that.

Off to be nerdy on the north-east side of Indy ... Love Books & Brews!

So ... I just got a message from some chick who said something about me being a fat whore who doesn't care what I eat ... obviously, someone needs to learn how to read, as I have mentioned in a couple of places that I am working on losing the extra weight that I am carrying.  And anyway, I'd rather be fat, than stupid and shallow.

As usual, I see a plethora of guys with "worthless" (or similar) in their screen names.  Now, I have to ask - why on earth would I want to own something without worth? We want our pets/boys to have worth, or there is no point in having them.  If you contact me, please be aware of that - don't degrade yourself, don't call yourself worthless, etc.  And if you want that from us?  Then this is not the right place for you.

I have to say that I don't message much on here - I really don't have much hope for this site after being on it for well over 10 years and never getting very far.  If you are interested, message - otherwise, we probably won't talk.

In good news, I have managed to get my asthma back under control and have been going to the gym.  Yay me for being healthier!

Well, dated someone for about 2 months, thought it was going well ... then discovered that he's a player and he played me.  *sigh* I am human, I make mistakes ... and this time, I made a mistake when I judged him worthy of trying to add him to our family.  So, we're looking again.  Forever, eternally looking ...

To those who have messaged and I haven't replied ... my apologies.  Having a slight life crisis at the moment, so even when I'm online, it's quite brief.  I plan to be back online regularly after next weekend.

Other random things - while we do want a family, we do not want replicants.  If you are looking for someone to spawn with, this is NOT the place for you, for multiple reasons.  Family means different things to different people - in our family, replicants are for other people to have - we'll watch them happily, and then hand them back to the people who spawned them ... Also, we aren't interested in online - so if that is all you have to offer, offer it to someone else.

I get that men and women think differently ... I get that guys are more visual, and tend to be more sexually inclined in nature.  But seriously guys?!?!?! On a site like this, your profile - and in particular, your picture - is your way of introducing yourself to others ... of "putting your best foot forward" so to speak.  If you honestly think that your dick or your ass is your best feature?  Then perhaps you need to do a little bit of work on yourself.  If you are actually looking for a relationship, then change the pictures - the only people you are likely to attract with pictures like I've been seeing today are a) men posing as women, or b) women looking to get into your wallet and they know how to get there. If you message me and your main profile picture is of your dick I will not respond.  If it's of your ass, it will likely be the same result (although I have seen some 'tasteful' ass pictures ... so it's not automatic - but those are rare).

Something that I would like to clarify before it becomes an issue like when we were on here before: Although we are a Fem/Fem couple, we are only looking for males.  This means if your primary fetish is crossdressing, we probably aren't going to be interested.  If your main profile pic is of you in a dress, or dressed as a fem, we aren't going to be interested.  And if your screen name is a female name?  Yeah, I probably won't even reply to you, sorry.  I know there are a lot of Dommes out there who say "female only" ... that's not us.  We want a male to add to our family.

After a couple of conversations on here, I want to just put something out there: If you ask me a question, I will either not answer it (I've had some out-there questions in the past, which I will just ignore), or I will answer it honestly.  I will not sugar coat the truth, and there is no "bait-and-switch" with me.  You may or may not like the answer that you get, but it will be an honest one.

So, as I'm starting this profile over, and honestly, I can't even remember what all was in the last profile ... I thought I should start giving y'all a little insight into who we are.  For those who actually read the profile, this will help determine if we are compatible or not ... for those who don't, it's a darn good way for me to eliminate them quickly ... As mentioned in the main profile, we have a lot of animals - from tiny (pygmy mice) to medium sized dogs (bull-boxer and old english bulldog), and pretty much everything in between.  We also live out in the middle of nowhere, so we occasionally get unwanted critters in our house (the cats have caught 2 field mice in 2 days ... but hey, they caught them, right?)  Our (wanted) critters are very important to us, and one of the things that all members of our household are expected to do is help maintain them.  This means carrying clean bedding in, dirty bedding out, brushing and washing the dogs (I have Shih Tzus, this is time consuming) and helping clean litter boxes when I can't breathe.  Also, as indicated in the main profile and again in this journal entry, we have some health issues.  I have asthma, which has flared up pretty badly lately.  I think I'm on track to getting it back under control, but I don't have a crystal ball to be able to tell for sure.  I am also medicated for depression and anxiety, so if you aren't ok with dealing with someone who has mental illness, then please, move along.  There are also other issues - I have chronic fatigue syndrome, Holly has fibromyalgia, she is allergic to wheat and gluten (also known as celiac disease - although I may have spelled it wrong), and has kidney issues that can debilitate her from time to time.  If you aren't ok with caring for us from time to time, then again, please move along.

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