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Male Switch, 21
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Female Submissive, 39, Troy, Missouri
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Female Dominant, 44, Belleville
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About MissInnocents
UPDATE....
BDSM is a real part of our lives. Most all of our friends are BDSM or BDSM friendly. Our social times are spent at BDSM clubs, meetings, socials, play parties, conventions, and or with friends.
We are looking for another to enhance our lives but arent willing to settle, we will go along with life until the right one comes along. We do play with others on occassion but we arent really interested in meeting a person from the internet to play with, because we have plenty to play with that we meet in real life and can get to know in person.
If you are interested in meeting us or any kinky people of like minds then we suggest you seek out a local bdsm group in your area. Talking to people who DO rather than DREAM will be a quicker way to learn about the lifestyle. You will still find idiots, judgments, and the clueless in real life too, but it should be easier to discern when able to see it with your own eyes, we can hope.
We are looking for a bisexual male bottom/slave to use and abuse with potential for possible long term. We are not new to the lifestyle and prefer you not be new. We both can be very sadistic but our interests are greatly varied.
You should be willing to do some traveling with us and to us. We are both larger sized people so if that offends you then too bad your loss. This possible relationship is not all about you so if your looking for a place to just get you off then keep walking. If your looking for phone sex, online sex or online relationship then we are not what you seek. We are honest and open We expect total honesty, one lie and your gone. With that being said, we expect to be able to call you, come visit you and you us, there fore if your hiding this relationship from a wife or partner then that will not work for us physically nor will it work for us honorably.
The part we need is exchange. We are looking for what makes you shake with fear as well as swell with pride after. We are after the offering, the taking, the surrender, the attack, the totality. Since we are looking for real, as in real life and hands on. It would make it much more easy if you lived within a 4 hour drive of SW Missouri. We want to play with you often *grins* We want to KNOW you, we want to "date you" for lack of better terms, and we want to have fun.
We also are poly, we do play with others on occassion so jealousy wont work. We may use you as a gift to a dominant friend, we may humiliate you in front of other BDSMers, we may do naughty things to you in front of others. If you want to be a closet player then that doesnt work for us either, but we do understand and have the need for being discrete for the vanilla world that we live in.
If you think this big shoe fits then email us and we can chat about it, take it as it goes. Take it slow and easy, maybe we can both learn from our experiences.
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It has been a rather discouraging year to say the least. It is possible that ads online are not meant for us.
We have been contacted by men who lie as a constant, and worse, are those that seem to have no problem what so ever or the feeling that it may possibly be WRONG to lie. Men, there is nothing wrong with only wanting to fuck or have kinky sex, just be man enough to admit that's what you want,, and please understand it is not what we choose to seek here and that's acceptable that we can WANT different things. Please do not assume that the picture of your dick in an email will change my mind lol .
In our search we have been stood up at resteraunts, yes, made a "date" change our plans, drive an hour or more to then sit for two hours to realize its a no show and drive home wasting our evening for nothing. Not even a phone call to warn us about not being able to make the date. How rude it is for you to do that to another person, you care nothing obviously about another persons time, energy, and show not the smallest common coutesy or respect to a person whom you wanted to submit your life to?
We have exchanged emails to men who claim to have experience with power exchange and submitting yet all they have done is been tied to a bed by a vanilla girlfriend one night. Can we say clueless and yet think that one night experience was enough to claim living a power exchange?
Might I also tell you that having an orgy twice does not mean that you also now have experience in a committed polyamorous relationship.
Even though we say on our profile we are looking for a relationship and NOT phone sex or hook ups we seem to get emails on a regular basis for just that. As if an email that says "wow, you sound hot, can I be your slave" will turn my opinion of what it is that I seek right around. HINT to horny net shits, Emails like this do not make a Dominant want you, want to have sex with you , want to control you , or want to have anything to DO with you. Well at least this one does not. You want to be a slave of mine and have never even MET me? How cheap you make yourself out to be and I'm not looking for cheap, I'm looking for good, Im looking for the best, and I'm not willing to settle.
This might also be a good time to explain to you that just because you want to bottom sexually to another does not mean that you are a submissive, slave or have ANY interest in BDSM. It can mean JUST that, you want to bottom and need to seek out who may want to Top you which may be a dominant or may not be. Yes, I fully am aware that this paragraph will be clear as mud to the type of people who may NEED to understand it the most.
I hope this helps and PLEASE quit wasting our time,,,,
Do NOT write to us expecting a response if you type less than 10 sentences.
Do not write to us if you do not UNDERSTAND our profile or ANY part of this journal entry.
Do not write to us if you are married unless it is ok for us to discuss our exchange with your wife.
Do not write to us and assume you are meant to be our slave when you have never met us or know almost nothing about us or what we stand for.
I hope this weeds out some garbage and I hope some of you think from this journal entry that it may be tough to get to know us. You would be right and if you think this is too much then it's best you contact some one else because THIS can be easy compared to the trials that successful relationships could endure. |
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