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Female Dominant, 50, Bronx, New York
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Female Switch, 32, MetroWest, Massachusetts
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Female Dominant, 29, GENT
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About MissHelion
I'm a sadomasochistic woman who is looking to express this side of myself that I don't always readily show to others. I do consider myself a switch. However, I'm happier being the more dominant one instead of being submissive. I'm also very masochistic while still being dominant. When I purposely take a dominant role I can be very sadistic. I'm a firm believer in safe words. I have been a party to contracts before but they just didn't work right for me. Be that as it may, I'm willing to try a contract again with the right individual. I like both men and women but I do seem to prefer dominating men and being dominated by them. Being a switch is interesting seeing as how it is not common from those I have spoken to about it. I'm a very intelligent person and, believe it or not, very compassionate and loving when I want to be. I enjoy intellectual discourse and appreciate it when someone else can speak to me on an intelligent level. If anyone has any questions they would like to ask me, please feel free to do so. I welcome it. However, if I think you sound like an idiot or if you start begging right off the bat for things I will get irritated quickly. I will not post pics of my face to protect my privacy. However, after having some correspondence with individuals if it feels right then more pics will be exchanged. I understand the need for discretion. I also must say, and I cannot stress this enough, I am NOT interested in joining a poly household and I am NOT interested in a person who is already married or in another committed relationship with someone else. If people in those kind of situations want to talk and become friends I'm all for that but absolutely nothing else will happen and if you continue to push the issue, I will have no problem with ceasing my communications with you. I also become very irritated with those people, who out of laziness, desperation or a mixture of both, immediately see someone's picture and then message the person without even bothering to read the person's profile first. I can usually tell right away when a person messaging me has done this. If you're not interested enough to take the time to read what I have to say first, then that shows me you're not really interested in who I am as an individual. Nothing turns me off more than that. Similarly, if you're not capable of expressing yourself without having every other word you say in your profile be a curse word, I probably won't be interested in you. With all that being said, I'm here to enjoy myself and hopefully find someone I connect with.
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So,
I haven't been on here lately partially due to my schedule and partially due to becoming increasingly disillusioned with this whole thing. Most of the responses I get are from people who have no interest in pursuing an actual dating relationship with me. All they are after is a quick fix for their sexual desires. Sorry, but that's not why I'm here. Similarly, I was flat out propositioned by someone who couldn't seem to take the hint (despite my repeated and polite attempts to decline his desperate and persistent offers) that I have no interest in being anyone's slave and that I feel it's inappropriate and reckless to spend the night with a person who is a complete stranger to me. If you want instant sexual gratification, go find a prostitute or go watch some porn. Don't talk to me. I am not a whore. That is all. |
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Fair warning to anyone making an effort to read this. I'm in a very irritable mood and fed up with some of the behavior I've encountered recently. That's not to say that I haven't had very interesting and thought provoking conversations with some nice folks on here, but here goes.
I'm getting really tired of the rudeness from some of the people I've spoken to on here. Yes, this is a big part of who I am but I do happen to have a life outside of it. I have a job which requires me to have a work and sleep schedule that is atypical. I come on here to check messages when I can but my my world does not revolve around this. I'm also tired of some individuals not bothering to read my profile or pay any attention to my likes , dislikes or hard limits before messaging me. Save yourselves and me some time by NOT communicating with me if it's already blatantly obvious that we would not be a good fit. I've already explained quite clearly why I don't have a bunch of pictures of myself on here so quit pestering me about it. I have no problem exchanging pictures privately but if I don't do it immediately or need time to think about it, DO NOT get pushy and rude with me. Also, if you cannot take the time to speak to me in a polite, mature and pleasant manner or if you cannot take it upon yourself to refrain from using coarse language to express yourself DO NOT waste my time. A curse word here and there doesn't bother me but if that's all you have to say then you're an idiot in my book. My time is precious to me for I have very little of it. I'm a very nice person but I should not have to put up with individuals who have no interest in getting to know me and just want instant gratification. If you're nice to me, I'm nice to you and that should be the end of it. |
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