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About MissDita27
I am a spontaneous, loving, caring, humorous, adventurous, complex, somewhat demanding and sadistic, full-figured Lifestyle Mistress living in Belgium. I am also an ordinary person with friends, family, many interests, emotions, problems, good sides and bad sides.
I've been in this lifestyle for 8 years, I have a lot of experience and I continue to grow every day.
I am also a semi pro-Domme, so if you are interested in a session, you can contact me through my website below. I say semi pro, because I consider Myself to be a lifestyler first. And I just do sessions once in a while, it's not my day-job and I would never want it to be 'my job'.
I am looking for a serious long term relationship. The vanilla-click is very important, having fun together, doing things, build a life, support each other, care for each other, ...
Generally I want a relationship based on equality, even though I can be demanding and dominant in the relationship, I sure don’t want a 24/7. Vanilla-stuff and being each others equals in life also has it means.
But if it comes to intimacy and sexuality, being a Mistress is a big part of me. It’s who I am, and I need to be able to life this in a relationship. I’ll desire you to surrender, I’ll play you and push your limits. Let’s say in the bedroom. Althrough I see no problem in teasing you or torturing you while we’re making diner in the kitchen.
But I need a man, with a spine in daily life, someone I can count on, someone I can build a life with. Someone who can be My equal in vanilla-life.
I’m dominant and sadistic, for me bdsm is my way of expressing and experiencing intimacy and love.
But that's only part of who I am, I'm also a regular versatile woman, with all the ordinary needs. And both the bdsm section if all else is equally important.
I am looking for someone who has humor, is sweet, and is open, masochistic and submissive (although it is only in the bedroom), but also responsible, and able to move forward in live.
I'm not constantly dominant, for the most part I am an ordinary woman, just as I do not expect you to be constantly submissive. In a relationship, there will be periods that the D/s very clearly present and we’re living it more, while there are also periods where there is seemingly no D/s. But it is in you, so it's never really gone.
Some of my D/s interests: servitude, complete adoration, masochism, CBT, nipple torture, boots worship, foot worship, breath play, massages, orgasm control, strap-on play, chastity devices, discipline, subtile humiliation, electrical play, candle wax, bondage, cages, leather, body worship, pussy worship, trampling, whips, canes, cuckolding, rimming ... (Not all will develop in a particular relationship, these are just examples) but also tenderness, honesty, respect and a very good communication.
Some of my vanilla interests: meeting up with friends or family, deep sea diving, indoor skydiving, skiing, fitness, walking, my friends and family, my dog, my snake, kids, going out for diner, movies, music, dry sarcastic humor, comedy shows, deep conversations.
I like to discover new things, meet new people. I love other cultures and traveling.
I rarely take part in the community-life, much less than years ago. My friends and immediate surroundings know my lifestyle and half of my friends are in the lifestyle. I'm pretty open and honest where I can, but of course discrete where needed.
Greetings, Miss Dita
http://MissDita.weebly.com
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Ik ben een spontane, lieve, zorgzame, humoristische, avontuurlijke, complexe, ietswat veeleisende en sadistische volslanke Lifestyle-Meesteres woonachtig in België. Daarnaast ben ik ook een gewoon persoon met vrienden, familie, veel interesses, emoties, problemen, goede kanten en slechte kanten.
Ik zit al 8 jaar in de lifestyle, heb al veel ervaring opgedaan en Ik blijf nog elke dag groeien.
Ik ben ook pro-domme, dus als je interesse hebt in een sessie, kan je me contacteren via mijn website onderaan.
Ik ben op zoek naar een volwaardige relatie. De vanilla-klik is heel belangrijk, samen plezier maken, dingen ondernemen, een leven opbouwen,elkaar steunen, voor elkaar zorgen,...
Ik zoek een relatie op basis van gelijkwaardigheid, ook al kan ik wel veeleisend en dominant zijn in de relatie over het algemeen.
Maar op vlak van intimiteit moet ik Mezelf kunnen zijn als Meesteres, op intiem vlak verlang ik over het algemeen jou overgave, wil ik met je kunnen spelen, je kunnen bespelen. En intimiteit is voor mij niet enkel in de slaapkamer, dat kan evengoed even in de keuken onder het koken zijn.
Maar ik zoek zeker geen 24/7. Voor mij is bdsm, mijn manier van intimiteit beleven. Mijn geaardheid, ik ben dominant en sadistisch.
Maar dat is maar een stuk van wie ik ben, ik ben daarnaast een gewone veelzijdige vrouw, met alle gewone noden. En zowel het bdsm-gedeelte als al de rest is even belangrijk.
Ik zoek iemand die humor heeft, lief is, open en eerlijk is, masochistisch en onderdanig is (al is het enkel in de slaapkamer), maar ook verantwoordelijk is, vooruit gaat in het leven en niet met zichzelf in de knoop zit.
Ik ben niet constant dominant, voor het grootste deel ben ik een gewone vrouw, net zoals ik van jou ook niet verwacht om constant onderdanig te zijn en ik laat je ook een gewone man zijn. In een relatie zullen er periodes zijn dat de D/s zeer duidelijk aanwezig is en we er meer mee bezig zijn, terwijl er ook periodes zijn waar er schijnbaar helemaal geen D/s is. Maar het zit in je, dus het is nooit echt weg.
Enkele van Mijn D/s-interesses: gedienstigheid, complete aanbidding, masochisme, CBT, tepelmarteling, laarzenaanbidding, voetenaanbidding, massages krijgen, orgasmecontrole, strap-on play, chastity devices, discipline, vernedering, electrical play, kaarsvet, bondage, kooien, leer, lak, bodyworship, pussyworship, trampling, zwepen, canes, cuckolding, rimming... (niet alles zal zich in een bepaalde relatie ontwikkelen, het zijn maar voorbeelden) maar ook tederheid, eerlijkheid, respect en een heel goede communicatie.
Enkele van Mijn vanilla interesses: extreme sports (wat ik wel eens zou willen proberen: skydiving, racing, wild-waterrafting, benji-jumpen), duiken, indoor-skydive, skiën, fitness, wandelen, mijn vrienden en familie, mijn hondje, mijn slang, kinderen, uit eten gaan, iets gaan drinken, films, muziek, droge-sarcastische humor, diepgaande gesprekken.
Ik ontdek graag nieuwe dingen, ontmoet graag nieuwe mensen. Hou van andere culturen en verre reizen.
Ik neem nog zelden deel aan het communitie-leven, toch veel minder dan vroeger, mijn vrienden en naaste omgeving weten wel van mijn lifestyle en de helft van mijn vrienden zit zelf in de lifestyle, Ik ben ook vrij open en eerlijk waar ik kan, en discreet waar het nodig is.
Voor mij bestaan een relatie uit een vanilla relatie met D/s als rode draad door de relatie. Dus er moet op beide vlakken een juiste klik zijn.
Groetjes, Miss Dita
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Will be travelling around Morocco from 2-22 Agust. Will meet people for interesting conversation and possibly friendship. |
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I started to look for a female sub for D/s.
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My advise for slaves that don’t find a Dominant Woman. And My reply to slaves that think I’m fake because I’m a pro-Domme:
I understand. It's very hard as a slave. Certainly in non-western countries.
I'm both lifestyle Mistress and professional Mistress. But I'm a true Mistress, real Professional Mistresses will not contact slaves to hastle for clients on CM. I get My clients true My website or advertissements.
In the lifestyle I've already found My partner and slave. I love him very much. We found eachother on collarme, so for most Mistresses and some lucky slaves this is a wonderful website. (I found most of My ex-slaves here)
What I'm sugesting is hard, but I think it's your best chance.
Look for a girl in your country. She has to have an outgoing, a bit of adventurous character. Fall in love and start a relationship. (when she is what you want) And than slowly introduce her into this lifestyle. Not by telling here, it will freak her out, probably she will never understand than. But by showing her... just worship her, make it obvious you worship certain aspects about her. That you want to treat her like a queen. Than after a long time you can slowly tell her about some fetishes (start with small things that aren't such a big deal, like you worship her beautiful feet, if you do of course... or that you like it when she pinches your nipples if you do (don't keep telling her to go harder, you are introducing her, not trying to fullfil your desires fast), and after another long time you can tell her the whole story. But this last step can be after years.
Just make sure she loves you worshipping her and that she knows all the benefits of your desires, before you confront her with fetishes and masochism and stuff. The first long period, you don't ask anything freaky from her, you just do stuff for her. Like telling her she's like a queen for you and you want to treat her that way. telling her you adore her beautifull feet or ass (if you do, don't lie of course), or that you love certain clothing she has. (that makes you dizzy)
Well you have to find your way yourself, but that's what I advise slaves that want to find a Mistress. Because in most countries, you find only professional and fake Mistresses. The real ones, just don't know yet that they like to be a Mistress.
Don't expect that in the end she will be all you fantasised about... that's not real life. Chances are small that all your desires will be fullfilled how you want them. A relationship is full of compromises. And She is the Mistress, so She desides everything and doesn't have to do anything She doesn't like to do. And you should be thankfull that she accepts your nature ands wants to do what she can feel ok with. Don't push her, you will push her to do things She is not ready for and that will ruin the relationship.
Greetings, Miss Dita
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Please don't send Me a complete introduction mail, refering to yourself as 'it'. A slave is a person, not a thing.
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Please let Me serve you.... you can use Me ... I want to be your slave...
All they really mean is: 'please, fullfil My fantasy, I don't care about you as a person. Fullfil My fantasy and I'll be on My way.'
Well as a Pro-Domme I don't mind, that's what I do, with pleasure. But in the lifestyle I look for something completely different. I won't settle for anything less than real love.
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My new trip is planned for mid May and will be to Kusadasi in Turkey.
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