MissDianaSnake


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	About MissDianaSnake *Seeking Local submissives Only (or those with the financial means to frequently travel to me) Seeking single, quality, service-oriented men to date with the goal of creating a healthy, monogamous LTR. Seeking female submissive for part-time personal service. Seeking service skills or the finances to hire: - carpentry/construction - handyman - auto mechanic - financial management - gardening - serious housecleaning** My style of Domination: Gentle, Sensual, Egalitarian Intense connection Deliciously sadistic when it's called for Nurturing Spiritual Intimacy within a BDSM relationship holds a potential for an expansive flow of spirit that can be extraordinary, tantric, and beyond deion. I am: quirky intense passionate intuitive, spiritual introverted intelligent playful complex family-oriented a contemporary, Earth-Mama hippie I'm 5'2" and curvy with long hair. I: love to laugh enjoy learning bite with consent ;-) love the Arts enjoy travel have very high touch needs love to be pampered I value: love open hearts loyalty courage honesty integrity self-insight inner strength strong communication skilla strong conflict resolution skills education I believe it is essential for a healthy BDSM relationship to have a good, solid 'vanilla' foundation. I envision my next (and last!) D/s relationship as an ice cream sundae: a big scoop of vanilla ice cream (all the vanilla parts of the relationship) smothered in rich, dark chocolate sauce (sensuality), and topped with lovely, crunchy, toasted nuts (BDSM). My beloved will find me. My beloved/knight/warrior-butler is: intelligent nurturing financially secure gentle-spirited sensual self-aware dedicated loyal passionate responsible loving motivated by his desire to please me communicative expressive about his love for me * I appreciate differences and expect that my beloved and I will have both mutual and divergent interests and that we will support each other in the expression of those interests. * I prefer non-smokers and persons who are not substance abusers. I do not smoke or abuse substances--except for chocolate. ;-D * I will work to create a healthy, positive, holistic relationship with mutual sharing, nurturing, support, intellectual exchanges, passionate and adventuresome sex, and exchanges of power and energy on the physical and spiritual planes. * I believe that the deepest intimacy and trust can be nurtured within an environment of monogamy. Contact me if you feel you may be who I seek. I'm counting upon you to initiate. When writing to me, include the words *"purple jam"* in your text or subject line to assure me that you've read my profile, otherwise I am unlikely to respond. Namaste. 4/17/11: Rest in peace, wetmouthboi. May your killers be found and justice be done.

10/22/13

It's been just a little over 2 months since my mother died and a month since I've returned home from helping her with her last days and helping my father through his first weeks of being without her. I'm still trying to catch up from having been away from home so long.

Sigh. I shouldn't have to say this, but... making a plan to meet with me and then not showing up is rude and disrespectful of my time.

I much prefer meeting in person to spending a great deal of time online. If you are interested in me and I in you, then I will want to meet you. If you live a distance away, I'll expect you to visit me to meet.

My time is valuable and my heart is to be treasured. I am not a perfect person, but I am perfect for someone.

My we all be kind and gentle and treasure each others' hearts during this season of love and all throughout the year to come.

Singing tomorrow at a small event. I'm jazzed. :-)

Last week I attended The Blind Cafe and enjoyed an amazing experience. Dinner was served in *complete* blackness. The service staff were all blind. Those in attendance rapidly came to rely upon one another. We (gasp) touched complete strangers sitting near us as we cautiously explored our surroundings and food through touch. Most of us chose to eat with our fingers rather than struggle with a fork. I was fascinated to discover that my taste perception was so linked with my visual experiences. I perceived flavors and textures differently without my sight. I gained new insights and new dimensions of compassion and understanding for my blind friends. I felt so lucky to know I would regain my vision at the close of the dining experience.

Each day brings new blessings.

Service-oriented subs are needed to serve Dominant women at a Ladies' Tea group in the Portland, Oregon area: The Society for Tea Enjoyment and Entertainment in Portland - a Ladies' Tea for Dommes (STEEP-LTD). Write to steep.ltd@gmail.com for more information.

I've also started a discussion group for men titled "PDX Submissive Men" on another kinky social network website. Contact me for more information.

Rest in peace, wetmouthboi. You were an angel of light on earth; now you are an angel of light and spirit. It was an honor to have known some small part of you and your goodness. May you live on in the hearts of all who knew you.

Oh, my!? I've not written for a very long time.? I'm chuckling to myself as I'm inspired this night to write after receiving 2 insulting and derogatory notes from a woman who is a self-professed dominant.? I just have to laugh!? Why would anyone want to waste their time in that manner?? And why would a Dom(me) waste time insulting another Dom?? Well, I'm no newbie and I offer my respect to both Doms and subs until there is reason to disrespect.? May we all learn to care for each other and to coexist peacefully.? The kink community is relatively small and we are stronger as we support each other.

Exploring the Soul
Living a Spiritual Life

Throughout the journey from birth to death, many people choose to question life, strive for improvement, seek out knowledge, and search for the divine. Simply put, this is the essence of spirituality. One?s spiritual practice can take on many forms, because embracing the spiritual is a very personal pursuit. While many people do relate their spirituality to a God or Goddess, this quest for the divine, or oneness with the universe, always springs from within. It doesn?t matter where you find your spiritual path. We are all fundamentally spiritual beings and the essence of that lies in knowing one?s true self and finding a peace that comes from within rather than the outside world. It is in remembering this that we awaken to our personal path.

-from today's "Daily Om"

"The mind creates the abyss and the heart crosses it."

~ Nisargadatta

Kinkfest was fantastic, as is often the case.? To those of you in the Portland area, you really must jump into the real-time scene.? For those of you not from the Portland area, I kept hearing how Kinkfest is one of the best conferences and parties of its type.? I had a blast volunteering, meeting people, and even playing a bit with a delicious sub whose Sir granted her permission to play with me.? Yummy.

Service

Without self-discipline there can be no character formation. It is nice to be able to help others but one should not have the idea that he or she is helping other persons because this gives rise to ego. Social work is very often damaging to the character because of this tendency to breed egotism in one who is serving the others. Even when it is selfless, in the sense that no reward is expected this tendency to the ego being boosted itself becomes reward and as this tendency increases, it creates more and more problems. Therefore, only one who has the humility to not at all feel that he or she is doing the service is really worthy of performing the service to others.

Source: P. Rajagopalachari, Chapter "Character Formation," The Spider's Web, Vol. II, p. 42.

I have been gifted with a testimonial from a delightful boy I met here on CollarMe. A second gift to me is his invitation to share this as I see fit. I am honored to share his words here in my journal:

"I have had the most rewarding privilege to serve Miss Diana.

Anyone else who may have the honor of this experience should know beforehand that Miss Diana is not a game player and *truly* has zero patience for such. It should also be taken into consideration that Miss Diana is every bit as intense as She states that She is. I can't possibly emphasize that enough. One who becomes the focus of Her attention will quickly discover that Her needs are very real and are expected to be accommodated fully. The human-sized cage at the foot of Her bed only hints of the extent of Her appetites.

Although Miss Diana is a warm, real person rather than some cheesy money Domme, or wannabe, it would be very foolish for someone to underestimate Her experience and Her expectations. Anyone who may contemplate submitting themselves for Miss Diana's consideration, should read Her profile thoroughly. Then read it again while asking yourself if you can meet Her service requirements. Know that each and every one of Her listed interests will likely become reality to you at some point.

I am not the same person after having served Miss Diana and I consider myself schooled in a positive sense for that.

While again reading Miss Diana's list of interests, know they are all too real. If you honestly believe you can't fulfill all of Miss Diana's expectations, do Her and yourself a favor by promoting your services elsewhere."

I'm finding myself becoming more and more interested in boys who are nurturing, communicative, intelligent, and articulate. I do seem to be much more drawn to boys who are younger than myself, who are slender, and who appreciate my voluptuousness. I'm also opening up more to the idea of a mixed vanilla/ D/s relationship.

I'm thinking the transwoman of my dreams is a unicorn. I prefer to live life in the present and not wait for a fantasy that may not exist.

Here and there I inadvertently offend a submissive who writes to me.? I don't like when that happens as I believe we all deserve respect for our respective roles in this life.? However, it's very difficult sometimes to know when a sub is sending out a form letter to many Doms at once and I prefer to clearly know that a sub is specifically addressing me and my desires and needs.? It is very helpful, subs, when you personalize your introduction letter to individualize your response and make it clear that you have read a Dom's profile and clearly express what you have to offer.? May we all find our best matches!

Such lovely roses from my Seattle sub!? He's so cute when he squirms.? I absolutely love how much nipple pain he can take.? Yummm. ?

My service boy was late today without even having the courtesy to call and explain the circumstances.? I do hope his red bottom has taught him not to repeat this mistake.? I find he is appropriately contrite and I'm taking great pleasure in watching his little red bottom waggle in the air as he cleanses the floor I walk on while upon his hands and knees.? I do hope he behaves himself for the rest of the day.

I have recently been honored by 2 separate Doms who have requested I consider their subs for play.? Thank you both (you each know who you are!) for this honor.

I have such gratitude for the abundance that Life provides.? I met a delightful sub yesterday and also enjoyed the gift of music arising from a Halloween party I attended.? I am blessed to have so many talented, loving, and caring people in my life.?

Yum! A wonderful play date with a new service sub just when I needed it most. I received such a wonderful massage. I so appreciate the gift of submission given to me. And my muscles appreciate being much more relaxed. Submissives are wonderful!

Thank you wonderful admirers! I've received so many wonderful replies about my profile that I'm narrowing my search a bit more; please do write if you live close enough or have the means to travel so that we can actually meet. I much prefer real-time interactions to online play.

I am pleased to be contacted by submissives or slaves who have read my profile and believe they have the qualities I have listed. I am particularly captivated by articulate and positive-minded submissives.

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