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MissDeMeanour

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About MissDeMeanour

Although I have never considered myself as a lesbian, I am in a long term commited relationship with a female (Siouxie on here) who is very much into BDSM.

Usually I would describe myself as a submissive in the bedroom and I do like to be fiercely dominated on occassion. It just feels so good to have the one you love all over you one minute and the next demanding things to be done! However, with Siouxie it is different. I have strong urges to domminate her, although this is proving a little difficult as she is very strong willed and needs to be 'tamed!'

I am naturally a down to earth person with a strong sense of knowing my own mind, but am flexible enough to see things from others' perspectives.

Siouxie has introduced me to BDSM and I would very much like to satisfy her by becoming her Domme. Although we are equals in 'everyday life,' I would very much appreciate it if anyone would be able to suggest a few ideas as to how I may go about asserting my domminant side in a way that will get a strong willed Siouxie to submit to me in the bedroom (or wherever...!)

Any help will be greatly appreciated!

Many Thanks!!!!!

Woah...Siouxie and I had our hair chopped off yesterday!  Siouxies' looks great!  Mine is quite fun to play with as it doesn't matter which direction you rub it in, it just adds to the effect.  Will take a lot of getting used to though as this is the first time ever that I haven't had long hair. 

I have added some new before and after photos which are currently being approved.
I've just noticed the constany use of 'Wohoo' and 'Doh'.  The Simpsons have a lot to answer for! :)
Wohoo!  Had been asked to come along to another local Girlguiding unit (Girlguides being like Scouts).  Went last night and it was so much fun!  Much more active than my other unit.  Any who, What really made my day was one of the leaders asked me if I would like to take the leaders qualification to become an official Guider instead of a unit helper and get into uniform.  Am so excited!  It is so rewarding volunteering to work with young people!
Please ignore the ramblings of the previous entry.  Was just having a bad day and being over sensitive.  Have been considering deleting it.  Any who, have been open and honest with Siouxie and have delt with my issue.  'Tis not a problem any more.
Doh!  Another thing!  Our landlord paid for us to do the courses (we obviously need to pay him back with his rent) as his girlfriend doesn't like to put her head underwater and wanted some company while he did the course too.  This has become a problem, as siouxie and him get on really well. 

Now, I am not usually the jealous type.  In fact, I don't ever recall feeling jealous at all before now and I have no problem with them being chummie, but I have caught him making eyes at her as well as looking at her cleavage and ass when she is not looking and it is really driving me crazy!  I can't talk to him because Siouxie would prefer to keep us a secret for a little longer to make sure that we definately are rock solid, before announcing that we are in fact lesbians, to all of our friends and eventually, family.

I don't have a problem with our secrecy.  She is not ready to tell anyone and I respect that.  However, I don't think that she realises how hard it is to see this happening.  I am so in love with her and to not be able to say to someone who is oogling over her, 'hey back off a bit'... it's just so hard!

Any thoughts on how to overcome these feelings will be welcomed with open arms, as I have seen jealousy severly impaire, if not completely wreck relationships and marriages and I am not going to allow jealousy to get in the way of what we have.

Any who, thank you for spending some time reading this and for being a sound board for someone who is feeling rather upset.  Not a happy bunny!   

Wohoo, my first proper journal entry!  What can I say?!  I've had a bit of a shit time loosing my job to a manager who was trying on the sexual harassment game on me and realising that his attempts were unsuccessful, desided to tell me that it was not 'financially viable' for his new business to keep me on.  What a bastard!

However, Souxie and I have reacently become qualified PADI open water scuba divers!  'Tis great fun, especially as it has unsurfaced a rather bizzare phobia for crabs!



Added a picture today - not the best, am trying to find a decent one to replace it, but thought it best to have one on here as soon as I could.
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