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MissCkitten

Female Dominant, 27, Richmond, Virginia
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About MissCkitten

Currently seeking like minded people in the community, but not searching for anything serious. I would rather sit back and get to know people for the moment, and prefer those interested in life-long friendships. The people I am most attracted to have an amazing sense of humor, love to talk about anything (and I mean ANYTHING), enjoy random conversations about nothing important, but are intelligent. I gravitate toward ambitious people and am truly enthralled when learning something new (I consider myself a sapiosexual). My conversations typically are not BDSM involved, instead it (kink) will creep in slowly and jokingly, then linger for a bit before leaving its mental impression. If this doesnt interest you, please dont waste our lives, because time is a precious commodity.

3/16/24 happy st paddy's day boy! Me and my girl are looking to peg a boy for a one hour session. she is in training and you understand that you answer to me! all rules apply, you will be respectful, you will be kind, you will be generous. You will be clean and arrive on time. You will prove you are worth and you will answer every question in specifics.  She is the brunette in the photo. You know what to do 

It's been several years since posting a journal, yet here I am, at it again. I currently have a lovely domestic servant who treats me wonderfull. he's (mostly) at my whim and is well enough trained that I rarely have to "ask" anything if him. This is what domestic servitude is. A servant who knows his Miss and what she desires.  One who looks away just before your eyes meet. One who kneels upon entry, with its head bowed, hands palms up, head down, awaiting a gentle touch on the head or the offer of an ankle kiss. A servant whose hands are never idle even in the mundane. he will make use of his time and provide servitude whether it be folding laundry, grocery shopping, preparing beverages, doing dishes or driving to his Misstress' house to take out the trash in trash day. it is his job to know and understand Her wishes and where she is in life, and act accordingl. Excellent communication is key and knowledge of boundaries with no exceptions. a line of respect on both parts as there is a give/take transactional relationship. I'm happy to have my little and enjoy his presence. 

Guests park in your driveway. Workers park at the street. Servants like to think they are guests, but they aren't.
A 6'6" guy was here. That only matters is because of the chores. Got a new bed assembled, all the light bulbs and air filters changed. Apparently male dominants like to be sub "for the experience". Sadly, they dont like rules and cant follow protocol, which is why they will only be dealing with an angry vanilla female. My dominance is not your toy to be played with. It's MINE, and I'll tuck it away and save it for those more deserving. But hey, at least I got chores done. Should have taken a pic of him kneeling. *Update* - apparently someone can't wait to come back
Seductive finally made arrangements to fly down for a day. April 22nd is officially booked, and someone will be working his little ass off!

It's interesting, he and I have chatted for many years and never really made arrangements. I've been near him when he was out of town working and vice versa. Our schedules never really meshed, until now. :)

Anyway, he and I had a conversation not long ago and it's really stuck with me. Transactional vs. non-transactional relationships. How one may have silent preconceptions of a course of action while opining that "expectations" is not the case.?

In the case of submissives who claim to have zero expectations and derive pleasure only from the act of serving, yet silently have parti pris which then interferes with their behavior.? This act, then and of itself, is dishonest not only to the Domme, but to the subs psyche. You will be sorely disappointed if you say one thing, but act/feel/think another way entirely. You're lying to yourself and everyone involved. We all have personal experiences in this, yet there comes a time when one must come to a reckoning where they recognize, then accept, then communicate their true expectations. Otherwise, they will be eternally and deeply resentful and disappointed with all parties involved.?

Yes, I know I'm rambling, but it was a long Monday that followed 3 days of driving. I deserve to be ridiculous.? *Update* - looks like someone is at the airport. It's going to be a fun 36 hours!
It will be a quiet week in Domme land, as I've journeyed to New York for a visit with family and to meet the newest addition! It's been one heck of an adventure so far, and several more days before getting back on the road. I do so enjoy travel. C
I'm kind of sad. I had to punish our boy today, after he did such a tremendous job helping and working so hard. I think he had a bad brain day. He forgot to communicate before arriving, and Miss T wound up reaching out to ensure he was on his way and was safe. Then he arrived without finding out if we needed anything. Of course, he was set back on track and sent to the store. After arriving with our few requests, boy worked so hard digging and cutting roots, so that my favorite plant of 20 years was placed in its final destination. He's so kind and thoughtful. After that he raked, pulled weeds, and filled bags like a champ. We filled ten full contractor bags - TEN! Such an amazing fella. After the 4 hours of yard work were done (I ran out of steam) he got cleaned up and vacuumed the house with amazing tenacity, all while plugged and gagged with the new leathers on. He looked adorable wearing them too. Yes, I have pictures, but need an 'all clear' from him before posting. We were wrapping things up for the day, and he was asked what he needed to remember to do next time he arranged to serve, and unfortunately he didn't recall, even with tiny reminders. I had to esh his memory with the reminder stick. ;( My heart breaks a little. He's such a good boy and I really do love his company. He had to leave early, so I didn't get to play with one of my new toys, but I'm holding off on that. Hopefully next time!
"That which yields is not always weak"
Well, there's a boy chained and sleeping at the foot of the bed. After 3 hours of driving he found out he should have educated himself, and knows very little about the lifestyle. He has no formal training, and needs a lot of work, but hes a quick (ish) learner. Its been entertaining thus far, but we shall see if he can really do domestic to my liking. I'll have him up and working in no time. There's lots to be done, and I'll be slaving all day. His nick name is dove. *Update*- looks like regrets a bitch and someone can't stop thinking about his brief visit. After asking in the middle of the night to be set free of his chains, he now messages asking a "do over". No second chances are ever given if you didn't fulfill your obligation the first time.
It's best to ask for permission than forgiveness.
Today was a lovely day. I truly didn't think he would do such a thing, but last week a submissive (c*****17) wrote stating he wanted to serve me, but knew he lived too far. He asked to instead purchase a watch of my choosing. One arrived today. I'll have it fitted this weekend -it's lovely and I'm grateful.
Met a tall, chatty fella tonight. Looks like I get some chores crossed off the list on Saturday. *wink and smile*
Boundatherheels came to serve today. What a wonderful and pleasant experience. Unfortunately, a man of his intelligence needs to be taught what a "couple" means, but I'm sure he has it figured out now. In case you decide to read his journal, drop him a line and send him the definition, (he needs regular reminders) From the smacks I heard from Miss T, I doubt he will roll his eyes ever again, although he denied it. Maybe he can call that a pre-lesson, if it helps him sleep at night. Pulled out my dusty flogger and put it to use. All in all he was very respectful, timely, communicative, open, and did some chores. (I have plenty more.) He will do better next time!
*sigh* Okay, look here. I get numerous messages about how you want to serve me, how you'd LOVE to be my chore/yard boy, and how amazing it would be. Then when I decide you might be acceptable, suddenly you've cut off your fingers and tongue. How you suddenly unlearn how to type, text or call is beyond reality. Silence is golden when you keep silent from the beginning, not after hounding me about your little wank-fest desires. I'm not playing that game. Either you will or you will not show up at the scheduled time. Just know, you're ruining it for the REAL MEN who truly want to serve.
I'm still seeking that elusive little yard boy who wants terribly to make my yard the prettiest in the neighborhood. Are you ready to put a rake in your hand and get some blisters? How about pushing a mower around for 40 minutes? It's the perfect day to work up a sweat. Nice breeze, sun is shining, wind chimes are blowing, you can hear the gulf waters lapping the shore in the distance if you listen hard enough. What are you waiting for?
Had a wonderful, and very helpful chore sub here. He arrived on time, was quite respectful, followed direction without groaning or complaining (extremely eager), and I heard "Yes Ma'am" enough to put a smile on my face. Got one of the kid's room totally sorted and cleaned. The yard finally got mowed, the gutters and roof both got properly cleaned as well. Lastly, finally got the Christmas lights hung! Busy but productive weekend!
In light of recent events I'll share what I'm currently seeking. Chore sub. Compliant, great listener, excellent follower. One who speaks proper English, meaning uses " Yes, Miss" vs "Yeah". I am attracted to intelligence. My expectations are that you can work inside as well as outside. You must be fit, meaning up to tasks requiring hard physical labor at times. The job will be done to completion and to my expectation. I am a perfectionist and expect you will do as told, paying great attention to detail. I am not making up chores at your whim. These are tasks I need and want done. If I allow you to come to my house, it is a gift. You will be on time. You better let me know when you're on your way and find out if there is anything I need on your way here. You will be prompt/timely in all forms of communication. If you fail at any of these, you will be told to leave and never contact us again. (The "us" I speak of is another female in this lifestyle, who is my roommate). I do not offer sexual gratification. Your mind is what I want. Your body is simply a useful byproduct to my desires of getting chores done. Be warned, my cruelty comes in many facets and exposes itself on my time, not yours.
Poor little chore-sub ran to his car, an hour and a half in, and left halfway through his job. Tks tsk.... couldn't hang in there. All talk.
I'm not looking to provide you with any sexual favors. If that's how you decide to come at me, you're doing it all wrong. 

I look at the person first and foremost. If you're shallow and one track minded, then you're incapable of satisfying me in any way and are a time waster. Move along.
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