MissBee64

What's up with people who create a profile, make contact, send a message or two then delete the pofile?  Talk about time wasters!

25/10/2013

Random thoughts/ramblings on a Friday night....

Today I was asked why I was still on this site if I wasn't seeking.   Sometimes I wonder the same thing.  I haven't completely lost hope that the right fit will come along; however, given the experiences I've had in the past year, I must say that I'm not nearly as optimisitic as I once was.  It seems like that "kinky boyfriend" I once wanted is a rare and ellusive beast.

I state in my proifle that I'm not "actively seeking".  For me, this means that although I might peruse the odd profile, I probably won't send a message unless something really stands out.  I answer most messages I get.  And sometimes those messages do come from people with whom I think there might be some common ground.  I'm open to meeting but am being very very selective.  The last three people I have made attempts to meet have bolted out of the blue.  Sad that even people in their late 40's and early 50's still play freakin' games....

I've also been told by more than one person that this isn't a "dating" site.  WTF?  I was under the impression that this is a niche dating site where people who are kinky can connect.  But it seems that nobody wants to 'date' a domme.  Mostly I find people are only interested in 'sessions'.  My response to that?  Seek a pro.  Maybe that's why I see so many male subs' profiles bemoaning the fact that this site is full of pro dommes.  One wonders which came first - the pro dommes or the subs who only want 'session' type play....

Fake Profiles...

Guys - if you're going to create a fake profile for shits and giggles, you might want to ensure the information you include is fairly plausible.

Have a look at this example:

Male Submissive

supposedly from Buffalo New York

Height 5'5"

Weight 67 lbs

Age 33

Orientation Gay

Other than the weight you might wonder what was wrong with the information.  Well let's just say that this particular fellow told me in his note that he was searching for a Mistress to serve.  Strange for a gay man.  Also his command of the English language was highly suspect for someone who claims to be from Buffalo.

If you want to live a fake life - aren't there game sites for that like Second Life and such?  Or has that fallen out of favour?

I have decided to start journalling some of the more interesting notes I get from people here on the CM site and perhaps hopefully spark some discussion.

 01/05/13

 In my profile I state:

 "I am seeking a strong, intelligent, confident male who will proudly submit."

 In response I got:

"It is a contradiction in terms.A strong and comfident male would not submit, because he is proud and because he is strong.That is what proud and strong mean, someone who will not submit to noone, never.
It is like saying that you are looking for a man that would not submit, that would stand and fight for his belifs, that will submit, proudly.
You want someone dominant who is submissive.
It is total nonsense. "

 My response to this gentlemen is that he did not understand the Alpha-male submissive.  That elite class of males who are dominant in every other aspect of their lives but who are, in their hearts, sexually submissive and kinky. 

 I know they exist.  I have played with several of them - and still hold many of them dear in my heart.