MissArtemis


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	About MissArtemis Updated August 27, 2006. If you don't have the patience to read all of this, please don't bother writing to me. I'm looking for WOMEN through this site. My interest in men has always been limited and, of late, I've had no patience to deal with the amount of rude, inconsiderate messages that men bombard me with. If you're male and you're reading this, please don't waste my time and yours. My name is Kai. I'm an assertive, pansexual, monogamous, progressively-educated 23-year-old Dominant feminist female seeking an *articulate, young, flexible submissive. I would ideally like a long-term relationship/collaring situation. I'm not* looking for a 24/7 lifestyle: I expect us both to be fully functional adults who work or learn, have social lives, and otherwise interact with the outside world. I want someone who will not expect me to run her entire life, though we can discuss how active a controlling force you would like me to be. Other than that, I'm fairly flexible--read on to see what that means. My interests include, but are not limited to: -Shibari/Rope Bondage -Role Play -Spanking -Chastity -Breast Torture (mild/moderate) -Crops, Canes, Floggers, Whips -Psychological Bondage -Non-Verbal Humiliation -Puppy Training/Kitty Training -Strap-on Play -Knife Play (no cutting, unless specifically negotiated) -Collars -Foot Worship -Bits, Gags -Writing, co-authoring, RPing -Artistic photography (you keep the negatives; I'm not that sketchy. ;) I've been doing still photography since 1998.) This isn't a complete list, and we don't have to be interested in all the same things (obviously). However, I'm NOT interested in: -Infantilism -Obesity (aesthetically uninterested; sorry) -Scat -Switching -Piss (willing to discuss this/soft limit) And, just on the off chance... I'm particularly fond of: ~A sense of humour. (I love lighthearted scenes almost as much as intense, serious ones--hell, BDSM is supposed to be fun!) ~Communication, articulation, eloquence. I'm on a PhD track; I love academic debates. I want BDSM to be a mental as well as physical high for both of us. ~Petite or athletic women. ~English, Scots, and Native Americans. ~Japanese and Korean women and men. ~Anyone willing to teach me yet another language, or help me brush up the ones I already know. (Hey, I'm not all about kink all the time.) ~Footballers (professional or otherwise in shape, and if you're American, no, I don't mean your type of football...). ~Intellectuals of any persuasion. My limits are flexible to a degree. Some things I'll be willing to consider within certain contexts; others I will not consider at all. If you don't ask me, you'll never know. And now, a few asides. Exotic kinks: I'm an EMT, so I'm willing to consider most kinks as long as things are kept safe, sane, and consensual. I'm also a hurricane; my moods change from one day to another. Today, pony play might not interest me; tomorrow I might be strapping a saddle to your back and teaching you dressage. Again, ask. For the most part, I love variety in my diet. Cross-dressing: I'm not into cross-dressing males unless you can actually pass as a woman; on the other hand, FTMs and bois rock my knee-socks, and I adore playing with gender dynamics in role play. Older and full-figured individuals: I'm not interested in anyone over 30 or overweight by more than a bit; you'll be put into rigorous rope ties and I expect you to look aesthetically pleasing in them. I find that I communicate most effectively with people in or around my age bracket. Age isn't a deal-breaker, however; it just might be more difficult to find common interests or experiences outside of BDSM. I'm also quite happy to make friends of all ages, genders, and orientations; there's no better way to travel the globe than through a network of kinky friends, after all. Switching: If your profile says "switch", don't waste my time. You can feel free to ask me about why I'm not interested, but don't try to convince me. I'm happy to make switch friends. The easiest way to get ignored is to type up a message that includes spelling, grammar, or syntax errors. I'm not interested primarily in sex. You shouldn't be, either. BDSM requires maturity, trust, and communication--if you just want to get off, there are easier ways to do it. I'm monomagmous by nature, but I would be willing to consider polyamorous fidelity. I like the idea of triptychs. Asking me to shag you in front of your boyfriend is NOT polyamory. Submit a picture (I want to know who I'm speaking with) and why you think you're a good match for me, or I for you. Amuse me. Spark my interest. Show me something you've made, written, or visited. I always reply, but I reply faster if I'm intrigued. And thank you for reading all of this! (Stick an asterisk at the beginning of your message to let me know you've read through this all.)

Looks like the search is back on, after all. Chalk another one up to karma's brilliant timing. Somehow I never manage to get to the right person at the right time--I'm always just a few steps behind whoever's caught their eye, and after D, I don't quite have enough pride left to wait around in case things don't work; I have no desire to be a back-up spare. At least I have a cup of strong coffee and paperwork to keep my mind off of my disappointment.

What a whirlwind of a week! I'm finally done cramming everything into my car, but I'm not looking forward to unpacking everything tomorrow--what I wouldn't give right now for a few muscular friends. I've been exchanging messages with a wonderful woman who sounds absolutely fantastic, though I think she's already got somebody in mind. That'd be quite in keeping with my karma: it's always someone taken or asexual. But I can still hope, and drown my erstwhile sorrows in.. bills. *sigh* After London, I don't think I've ever been happier to be getting back to work.

Back in Philadelphia. I'll most likely be back in London for the holidays, but the soonest I'm looking to be back in London for a considerable period of time is next fall. Do feel free to keep in touch, though.

Starting January 5th, I'll be relocating to London.

I've decided that, for at least the time being, I'm not actively seeking anyone. I need to focus on my education, and all the replies I get imply that people immediately want to start in on an intense, time-intensive relationship which, while I wish I had, I don't have the time for right now. I suppose that for the time being I'm looking for someone who'd be willing to take things fairly slowly.

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