MissAelle


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	About MissAelle You can call me Aelle. Things I am: 24 years old born and raised and currently living in Sweden seriously introverted slash pretty damned shy aka more specifically social phobic a feminist interested in reading, writing, working on my sometimes terrible piano playing, knitting slash crocheting, learning random stuff from the internet, listening to podcasts and radio documentaries about horrible crimes while doing the dishes, consuming various kinds of media, etc etc currently studying, not telling you what exactly vaguely paranoid, as evidenced by the statement above this one not actually called Aelle Things I am not: an idiot interested in idiots super experienced sexually or relationship-wise Things I'm looking for: funny, awesome people who make me happy when I talk to them one particular funny, awesome person that might one day graduate from friendship to instead be my funny, awesome and preferably submissive boyfriend, who would hopefully also make me happy when I talk to him (?) Things I'm not looking for: people who want me to tell them sexy things while they wank people who want me to tell them non-sexy things while they wank people who want me to do some manner of online domination crap or long-distance whatever people who are MUCH older than me people who want to be my boyfriend but they live halfway across the planet and they think I'll come to them people who want to be my boyfriend but they live halfway across the planet and think I'll fall for it when they say they'll totally move to me if I just agree to do some online kinkiness first people who want to be my playmate or fuckbuddy or anything else that doesn't involve a romantic relationship but does involve sex/kink people who want to be my footlicker/cleaning slave/furniture and literally nothing else Things I am a huge fan of, apparently: lists more lists (Things I want to strangle: collarspace's stupid fucking profile function that makes it impossible to make a profile that doesn't look like shit) Finally, if you want to talk, we talk on here (or on Fetlife or Tumblr, where you'll find me under the same name). If I gave out my kik/skype/email/whatever to every random dude who asked for it, I'd have to spend approximately 300% as much effort keeping track of stuff and blocking idiots, so save us both some energy by just not asking, m'kay? :) Also, I'm on tumblr, which is a really good place to find out the kind of stuff I'm into! http://missaelle.tumblr.com/

So I remembered I made a tumblr back in 2013 or something, so I figured I'd post it here! Figured it'd be easier to spam my random thoughts there instead of wrestling with Collarspace's lovely text editor thingy...

http://missaelle.tumblr.com/ :)

In other words, all "journal updates" will be found there from now on, most likely :)
New posts every once in a while, so if you like my ramblings you should probably check it out now and then :)

True dommely problems of a Domme:
My favourite instant noodles have changed their recipe or something. They have some weird kind of aftertaste now and I can't eat them :( :( :(

Yay, new profile! Pretty long one this time. I still haven't quite found the formula for writing the perfect profile so bear with me :) It would be a lot easier to experiment if Collarspace's profile thingy wasn't so badly coded that a monkey could do better, though...

I do love the look of corsets... wish I had one myself, but a) good ones are expensive, and b) my lovely albeit fluffy tummy demands the exact right style, or it simply won't behave itself :) Once I'm rich, I'll invest in a custom made one, I guess. I'll add it to my list of luxury stuff I don't really need but would really enjoy having.

Public Service Announcement: Do NOT offer to buy me stuff. I won't accept it, and it will most likely insult me and keep me from ever talking to you again... because it's creepy as fuck.

What is the deal with people thinking "BUT YOU'RE FAT!!!" is a good, impressive comeback when I turn them down? Whoop-de-fucking-do, sweetheart, I'm fat. Never would have known it if you hadn't told me, thanks! And the fact that I myself put my weight on my profile is a sure sign that obviously I'm VERY sensitive about it! You're simply the awesomest insulter who ever lived. Idiot. Oh, and immediately saying "WELL I DIDN'T LIKE YOU ANYWAYYYY I WAS JUST KIDDING" the moment someone turns you down is totally not an obvious sign that you're very, very butthurt, crying tears of blood and sobbing into your blow up doll... Don't you let anyone tell you differently!

I could take a job as a professional eye-roller if this shit keeps up. o.O

Two thoughts I've recently started putting into words:
- I don't think this is really all about sex for me. My imagination conjures elaborate scenarios where I lay on the couch while my pet mops the floor just as often as it conjures sexy things. :) The sex part is nice, of course, but I think I would like the domination and submission to be a part of our everyday life even outside the bedroom as well. Definitely something worth thinking about!
- I think I do want a certain romantic involvement with my pet. It would be lovely if we were ~totally in loooove~ or something, of course, but I'd settle for something slightly below that as well... as long as it wasn't only about getting our various rocks off, basically. :)

Guessing these handy little revelations will take me even further away from the good old "plz dom me mistress i am very hard" crowd on here, but then again, we all know that wasn't going to happen anyway, don't we, boys? ;)

So, I did one of those online personality tests for fun, because self-analyzing is my favourite pastime. :P I don't really trust stuff like that too much, but I do agree on the introvert thing!

Your Type: INFJ
Introvert(78%) iNtuitive(38%) Feeling(12%) Judging(1%)
- You have strong preference of Introversion over Extraversion (78%)
- You have moderate preference of Intuition over Sensing (38%)
- You have slight preference of Feeling over Thinking (12%)
- You have marginal or no preference of Judging over Perceiving (1%)

I always get this feeling that I only ever write about stuff that annoys me or stuff that I don't like. I re-read my journal just now and it's not that bad, but yeah, that's the feeling I get. ^^ The thing is, there's a lot of definite things that I'm not into, and not a lot of things I'm really into. That is to say, I'm a lot more open for suggestions for things I might like, but I know very firmly what I'm not interested in. On the "like" side, I do have a particular interest in anal play and bondage, but other than that I'm pretty open for discussion. I don't really have a huge overarching fetish for anything in particular. So it's really just easier to say the stuff I'm totally not interested in. :)

Sometimes I wish I had a houseboy. He could scrub my floors and clean my bathtub drain. That would be fabulous. :P

How come I get dozens of messages when I'm in a bad mood and very much not interested in conversation, and then absolutely zero messages when I -do- want to talk? ^^ It's some sort of universal law, apparently.

I think I'd be a rather cuddly domme. And I think I'd like it that way. :)

Who even came up with the stupid idea of women having to have hairless legs? It grows there naturally, people. Who has the time to shave those fuckers all the time, and if waxing is so damned fun, why don't guys do their legs too? :P

Just got my first "WELL YOU'RE FAT AND UGLY SO I WASN'T INTERESTED ANYWAY BOO HOO" flounce mail! This is like a huge milestole in my internet life. Also, rather hilarious ^^

Surfing profiles at random and noting that a lot of people are actually ruining things for themselves, at least with me (and I suspect a lot of other self-respecting women). For example, a huge capslock rant about everyone on here being FAKES AND FINDOMMES (oh my!) doesn't really make me think you're a mature, charming individual. :)

Also, blatantly misogynistic bullshit probably won't get you the girls. For some reason, phrases like "girls with naked pics should learn to respect themselves more!" (because if the Madonna-whore complex and all that isn't totally hawt, what is?) and "findommes are fakes! what, do you want to be a greedy whore or what?!" (because you totally can't just ignore them or anything...) doesn't really make my panties wet. Oddly enough, being generally hostile and douche:y towards women doesn't make me want to get anywhere close to you... seeing as I'm a woman and all. Funny how that works. :P

Someone messaged me saying they were looking for a "cruel domme", and that made me realize I haven't really explained what exactly I'm into, dynamic-wise. There's a very simple reason for that lack of information on my part, and that reason is that I don't really know myself yet :) "What I want" is, as of yet, still just a bunch of very loose ideas and fantasies, and I suppose that's good, in a way, as it means I'm not really narrowing my search too much as of yet. I think that a relationship depends a lot on both people in it, and I'm sure I could be happy in a multitude of different dynamics if it was with the right person.

I do know, however, that I don't really view myself as a cruel domme. That probably depends on your definition of cruel, of course. I could be cruel as in the fact that I think I could enjoy hurting my pet, within sane limits. Just to give an example. But that, for me, would be a sort of tender cruelty, you see? That's what I like. I want to take care of him, in a way, and if I hurt him I would want to comfort him afterwards, and tell him what a good boy he's been. I don't want to humiliate him, at least not in the harsh kind of way I usually associate with the word cruel (you're not worthy of licking my boots, you worthless snivelling worm!). I'm more the type to tell him he's such a very pretty boy, and wouldn't he like to thank me for taking such good care of him? With just the slightest hint of condescension. ;)

I sincerely hope that makes sense because I'm not rewriting it. :D If I'm lucky it at least gives a vague hint about the kind of domme I think I'd be.

The funny thing about chastity cages is that they don't do it for me. At all. I see one and I'm like "yeah, that's... a thing, I guess". I see a caged cock and I go "huh... okay". At the same time, I like the idea of controlling if my boy gets to come or not, if he gets to touch himself or not. Chastity cages seem like a natural part of that, theoretically... but they just don't interest me. I guess it's the fact that if I were to tell my sub to not touch, I'd bloody well expect him to keep his hands away. I told him not to, so he shouldn't. If he still were to do it, I don't think I would decide to solve that problem by caging him... I think I'd solve it by inventing some rather unpleasant consequences for not obeying me. :)

I do see the appeal, though, in theory. And I suppose cages might be a lot hotter to the guy who has to wear one, since he feels it and it takes away his choice in a much more absolute way... but it just doesn't turn me on. At all.

I overhauled my kinks list. :) It was getting so messy. For now, things under curious about are things I'd probably want to have in any future relationship of mine, and things under dislikes are those things I actively don't care for. Everything else, other than hard limits, are things I could probably be okay or even happy with if my partner was really into it. :)

Ever get that feeling that there's something you want, right in this moment, but you can't quite figure out what it is?

Oh crap, profile update! Aaaaaand I'm officially "looking" again, though not very vigorously :)

Every time I get an alert for a new "admirer", it creeps me out. :P Please don't favourite me if we've never talked, it's just weird.

I just dislike that whole function, actually. If someone wants to favourite me for my writings or something, why do I even need to know that?

I appreciate shy people, and sometimes I feel that's a bit unusual! I feel like everyone is trying to tell me how social and charismatic they are, and I really just have a bit of a preference for people who just... aren't. :) Part of it is, I think, that I perceive it as a little bit of vulnerability, and I like that. The other part is that I'm quite shy and quiet myself, and it's easier for me to step forward when there's not a bunch of other loudmouths talking over me. Which sounds kind of weird for a self-professed dominant (I should obviously just give them a Look and make them all shut up to let me give My Domly Opinion!), but I figure, why not just work with my character instead of against it? :)

In other news, I don't really believe in the whole 'dominants have a natural air of dominance!' thing. :P Sure, some probably do, but I personally don't feel it's a requirement. We make a big deal out of submissives not needing to submit to every single person ever (if you think a submissive has to submit to you just because they're submissive, please go chlorinate your reproductive system...), so why do dominants have to act in some sort of generally domineering way, showing off their "powerful personalities" to all and sundry? I personally feel that my being a dominant is a matter of what I want from a D/s relationship, what my fantasies entail, and not about how I act in general society. Sure, if you met me in the street you might not want to fall to your knees and worship me right away from the sheer force of my Domly Domliness, but on the other hand I'd kill you with my bare hands if you did that. DON'T MAKE PEOPLE LOOK AT ME, DUDE! WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU?! ;)

Every time I see a guy on here with really lovely hair (dark, long enough to grab, preferably curly...), I just want to grab it.

So I uploaded a profile pic at last. Not very revealing (what would be the fun in that, I ask?), but it feels a little bit more genuine with a picture, doesn't it? It probably won't satisfy the "zomg if u dont show me pic u probably not real grrl! prove ur a gurl!" crowd, since I don't think my hands are unmistakably ladylike or anything (is there even such a thing?), but yeah... feels nice to have a pic. Even if I only took it because I was bored as hell just now, lol.

Besides, I'm pretty sure 99% of all "prove you're an actual girl!" spam is just amateurish attempts to get free boobies on cam. :P And fuck that crap.

Warning for tongue-in-cheek:
I'm kind of surprised how few truly nice dick pics there are on here. ;) I mean, if you think it's so bloody important that everyone gets to see your dick (it isn't, for the record), why don't you at least try to make it look its best? You know, sell the merchandise a little? Blurry pics that look like you shoved your camera down your pants on a whim while wanking (I know, why would you wank with your pants on, but work with me here!) don't really give the best impression. Couple that with the fact that dick pics in itself doesn't really give the best impression, and you're ruining stuff for yourself. Come on, at least pour some glitter on that shit, it'll make it look nicer ;)

(No, this is not an invitation to send me pictures of your penis, covered in glitter or otherwise. If you do, I will block you on principle because you're obviously an idiot.)

Your kink is not my kink but your kink is okay. That said, I thought I'd write a little about two kinks that don't appeal to me yet seem very common here. :)

First of all, foot fetishes. I'm all for a nice foot massage or someone doing my toenails for me. It's when it gets to slobbering all over them that I get a little squicked out. I have a bit of a phobia for people's mouth germs, so I don't really want those all over my poor feet, especially since it's not my own fetish so I don't really get anything out of it. :) I do think I could possibly be with a foot fetishist (depending on his other charms), though, since I think a lot of the 'squick' I get from it is because of the way some people present it. Many seem really fixated on it, and that doesn't appeal to me. I don't enjoy the idea of someone being completely and utterly fixated on any part of me, including my feet. And some people don't seem to understand that no, kissing my feet isn't some sort of universal sign of submission. Especially not when you're only kissing them because you get off on it. Nothing wrong with getting off on it, it just doesn't appeal to me. :)

Second of all, sissification. This explanation probably needs a few brain cells, so if you're wanking you should probably finish that and come back to this later. ;) The thing is, I like the idea of dressing my boy up in pretty panties and such. But I like it because it would, presumably, make him feel embarrassed and vulnerable. It's the vulnerability I like, and it's that part that sort of appeals to me in pet play and diaper stuff as well, even though I'm not really into either of those kinks. With the whole sissy thing, it's different, though, because it looks very caricature-ish to me, and I don't like the implications towards women (is it really so horribly demeaning to pretend to be a girl?). Also, the fact that a lot of people seem very fixated on it, again. I guess I don't want a one kink pony, pretty much? :)

To the people whose profiles made me realize this:
I don't want to be a beautiful goddess, perfect mistress or lovely princess to you. I just want to be Aelle :)

So, I found this "test" being discussed on the message boards, so I decided to fill it out just for fun. Could be enlightening, yes? These are my results :)

== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==

91% Bondage Giver

84% Dominant

74% Daddy/Mommy

74% Master/Mistress

66% Degradation Giver

64% Experimentalist

59% Sadist

38% Vanilla

20% Primal (Predator)

19% Brat Tamer

13% Non-monogamist

9% All-Rounder

9% Exhibitionist

9% Voyeur

4% Girl/Boy

4% Submissive

4% Switch

2% Brat

0% Bondage Receiver

0% Degradation Receiver

0% Masochist

0% Pervert

0% Primal (Prey)

0% Slave

It's funny that I rate rather high on the mommy axis, even though I'm not really into that kind of play. I do want to be more of a caregiver than an icy bitch, though, so it's probably that. ;) I'll never be one of those stereotypical dommes who stand around whipping people and yelling about useless worms, and I'm kind of happy about that. I want a pet, but without the "pretending to be an animal" part. :)

I'm also sort of surprised that I rate 59% sadist, since I've never really thought of myself as one. Then again... ;)

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