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	I have changed in my outlook with respect to women, relationships, deviance, perversion, virtue and where those things belong in my future relationships. I must take some time to adequately explore intellectually what I am feeling emotionally before I will write a factual deion of who I am looking for, if that person could even be found from a site like this. From my own experience with modern gender roles and how I've been forced into the darkest corners of fetishes to find a traditionally minded companion, I'm hoping that my reciprocal will be forced here, looking for a traditional Dominant like me. Thank you. ~R

1/29/2012 9:30:26 PM

1/28/2008 8:34:16 PM

I've come across a lot of profiles of submissive single mothers seeking a Dom, who emphatically state that their kids come first or their lives revolve around their kids.Let me ask you this; why would any real Dom (especially from this site) want to court you when he knows he'll come second in your life?

Face it, to you the kids are yours but to another man they're someone elses. And God forbid if the kids fathers are involved in their lives too. Now you have an outside influence to which the Dom has little to no control of. I'm sure you're the greatest thing this world has to offer a man and your kids are the sweetest things ever but no real Dom is willing to take the backseat in a relationship. Not to your kids, not to your baby's daddy.

Instead my fine submissive ladies, why not emphasize that the Dom in your life comes first. That you humbly seek a Dom who will take your children as his own and raise them in the way their fathers can't. And don't be afraid of men either; not all of us will harm you. Just because your baby's daddy did you wrong doesn't mean all men will to.

I've seen too many instances where women turn to their kids because it's an easy way to have security. You must always be willing to trust and give everything you have to your Dom, kids included, for the true Dom will take care of you.

1/29/2012 9:25:23 PM

1/28/2008 8:32:33 PM

I'd just like to share an intimate detail of myself with you now; One of my all time favorite songs is "Praying For Time" by George Michael.

The album which it comes from is "Listen Without Prejudice" and is a wonderful departure of the fluffy pop that made him famous.His lyrics are deep and powerful and the melody somber and haunting which is offset by the subdued optimism in his beautiful voice. Magnificant! Powerful! Sensual. Real...Make no mistake, this is a great song with addictive qualities. Hell, there are days that I listen to the song over and over for hours on end.So give it a try if you're in the mood for some aural sex. You'll be glad you did.

1/29/2012 9:24:15 PM

1/28/2008 8:29:59 PM

Relocatable; What exactly does that mean?

In my mind it means you're willing to move with no maximum of distance. To others that I've spoken with it must mean the other side of town because on more than one occassion they'd made negative comment on the distance between us.

There was one person who was only one state away!

Let's face it; in today's modern age it's nothing to traverse great distances in short amounts of time. Plane, train, automobile, all widely available to transport you and anything you desire cross country. So please if you're going to put relocatable then at least give some indication of your limitations. It would save us both some time.

~Rich