I keep seeing profiles expressing disgust with the sort of messages being received from "dominants", and I find this state of affairs pretty pathetic.  First, to the submissives being approached in this manner, I would say that your submission is a gift to be give to someone worthy who has earned it, not something to be taken by anyone who thinks they have a right to it.  Anyone who introduces themselves by calling you names doesn't understand true dominance, and isn't worth your time.  There are decent dom's out there, so keep looking and don't settle for some asshole who thinks that you are dirt because you happen to be submissive.

To the "dominants" doing this sort of thing, I would say that talking down to someone you don't know because of their chosen lifestyle is ignorant and childish.  Submissives are real people with feelings that are every bit as real as your own, and though they might enjoy being called names and degraded by someone whom they trust, introducing yourself in such a fashion makes all doms look like childish assholes and certainly doesn't make you look dominant; it makes you look like a scared little boy with something to prove.  Someone who is submissive is every bit as deserving of respect as someone who is dominant, and the simple fact that we are online doesn't give you the right to be a jerk.  You wouldn't walk up to a woman on the street and call her a "bitch" or "slut", so don't do it online.  It lessens the whole tone of the community and makes us all look like idiots.