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So now I want to talk about age and the majority of people who make the judgement that someone who is young, is also in-experienced.
Listen, first of all, know this. Occasionally you will find people on this site that are naturally dominant. It doesn't take long to learn how to "swing" a flogger or tie someone up, but all those things are completely irrelevant. What matters is the dominant's ability to read a submissive, take a genuine command towards the situation, and do what's in the submissive's best interest. If you can do that, well than, experience shouldn't be looked so heavily on. Number one, everyone you deal with is different. Which brings me to another thing; the ability for a dom to adapt. Another crucial trait that I think is one of the tipping points to either a bad relationship, or a great one.
I mean yes, ofcourse, age is a factor... all i'm saying is, maybe it shouldn't be such a large one.
Do know, everything I say in here is all my opinion. I'll never assume that I know any universal concept in bdsm or romance...
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