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Female Submissive, 56, Brooklyn, New York
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Female Switch, 22
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Female Submissive, 52, middlesbrough
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About MidgetGems
** Here for friendship only and to keep in touch with existing friends.
I have found someone very special here. xx
Hi... where to start!
Ok, first off I'm not a midget. It's just a name. I'm pretty average-ly heighted, if that's an expression, so those seeking more diminutive people would be disappointed.
I'm 29, a friendly, professional, good job, well turned out kind of girl in everyday life, and someone whose alter-ego isn't made obvious in any way. In fact, I prefer it that way.
That alter-ego, the submissive me, has been a journey and a battle and a real emotional roller-coaster to come to terms with, and I'm pretty sure it's not finished yet.
Something I think other people with a submissive tendency can relate to is how hard it is to recognise and make sense of and admit to yourself before even taking a step of creating a profile somewhere like here. Sometimes, when I try to put this side of me in a context I can understand, it's almost like I'm looking at myself in the third person. Maybe that's the only way I can square the circle between the two me's. On one hand, the person scooting round the supermarket looking in vain for celery, and the other one who inhabits a much darker and more exciting place (what an odd sentence, I'll leave it in as it made me laugh anyway).
I'm a bit reluctant to spill out all of my darkest and deepest secrets onto my profile page - I would hope getting to know someone and actually liking them might help there - but I'll give some indication at least of my "Kink DNA".
The following is under the proviso that it's with someone I actually feel a connection with, not just the milkman...
I'm happiest under control you could say. I respond to clear rules. I like to please, or at least to get approval. This makes me both eminently controllable, and also hugely fussy about who I give that opportunity to.
I am a kind of reluctant masochist.
Nothing quite affects me like humiliation, in various forms.
I'm looking first and foremost to chat to people, no strings, no expectations, just exploring what makes me and them tick. If I feel good about someone, more might happen, but I am in no hurry - being sure about things is the least I owe myself. If you are in a hurry, you might be best moving on from this profile. Thanks for reading this far at least!
It might be easier to say who I'm not looking for as a kick off to save us all time.
People without profiles that tell me something about them won't be responded to. Sorry, but that's how it goes!
People significantly younger than me won't be responded to. That's just a preference of mine.
People outside the UK won't be responded to.
I'm literate, and put value on words and their meaning, and being able to express myself. I am also a trained grammar Nazi. As such, if I detect anything more than a few typos in a message or profile, you won't be responded to (sorry).
They're my main no-nos. If you don't meet any of those criteria, I'll promise to at least try to reply! Bear with me, as my time here is likely to be a little unpredictable.
Sorry about this mess of a profile, by the way!
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