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Not sure why Collarspace site keeps altering the way my profile is written and formatted but oh well... can't seem to correct it, so I hope it is readable enough!
Living in Michigan permanently for time being but always open to relocating for the right person. It's not always possible and practical that a submissive always has to be the one to do the relocating! Also the fact that I wouldn't let something so simple as distance keep me from my prized possession! it is not written in law that my soulmate is and must be in the same city or state as myself! Nothing would keep me from her once she is found!
I am a single financially secure, experienced, dominant, creative (artist) loyal, non-poly, man with other many outside the lifestyle interests, and I am hoping to talk with and meet only serious, genuine, mature, sane, drama free, humorous and intelligent submissive women wherever they may happen to be! I am seeking women fitting these traits for a mutually rewarding and trusting long term relationship. I am not seeking nor do I want 24/7 as far as bdsm or a submissive/slave,girlfriend is concerned. (Meaning that 24/7 is at time it both difficult and impractical) In simpler terms anyone I am with wouldn't be kept shackled and naked every moment of the day but things would be much different when alone of course and we are able to be exactly who and what we are to one another. She will not always need a collar on her neck, to feel and know within her that I am her dominant/Master, she will feel this even when we are doing the most vanilla of activities!
I want and feel a need to clarify what i mean by not wanting or seeking 24/7. By that statement I only mean that in a physical sense only! I don't honestly believe that keeping my girl/sub/slave kept naked and chained running around the house is a hard thing to accomplish, unless of course her and I lived out in the middle of nowehere and it would be more doable. I am seeking and want a girl/sub/slave that knows that what we will have together is 24/7 in the mental sense! There will not be a moment where i am not Her Dominant or Master and she will not be completely mine in the capacity she wishes to always be. I would hope that if any of this part of my profile is as confusing as I think it may be, she would allow me a chance to further explain this topic.
To me this isn't something one turns on and off, not seeking to simply play roles with someone! 100% of the time when we are together there should be no doubt of who I am to her and what she is to me! I know without any doubt that I was born this way (naturally dominant) and have since rather young. I have never fought this and hope that the girl meant for me has done much the same with her life.
I am fine with a varying balance involving bdsm and vanilla when involved in a relationship with someone. This is of course dependant on a submissives level of experience, my levels of dominating her would conform and as she develops then so would my practices!.
I have been actively living and loving my lifestlye choice for over 25 years and realize that everyone I meet in pursuit of finding my one and only, may not have my exact experience and am willing to be patient. I also have an interest in those submissive females seeking a Dominant Daddy type figure in their life as I also find the dynamics of that type of relationship to be appealing and enjoyable, but it would not be the main concentration of a relationship! I will add that if this is not something someone is interested in it not an absolute must on my part!
I would hate for one aspect or activity of the lifestyle disagreed on to ruin an otherwise perfect relationship, this too goes for all of my interests (nothing is written in stone) except that of physical restraints!! I am not concerned that this view on things will make me look soft or wishy washy, if the one I am meant to collar reads this she will realize and understand that i won't always put my own likes in front of hers simply because she is submissive. To me letting her know how important she is, by showing her my willingness to compromise is far more important than always doing eveything I want.
In a submissive I hope to find a humorous, adventurous, interesting, intelligent woman who enjoys museums, live theater, fine dining, traveling and loves alone time with her man. I also enjoy great movies, cooking,playing pool and much more. I think it's important to state that I am able to move at a novice partner/subs pace for the time being and hopefully as the attraction, trust and respect between us grows so will our actions, our activities, and their intensity.
I will not write pages of who I am or what I want, hopefully someone as serious as myself approaches (messages me) and wishes to find out more about me , based on what I've written here in my profile and not solely on pics alone! I will however mention this out of importance, my first love in the bdsm world, was, is, and and always be bondage and all that goes along with it! I love binding my girl up in ropes almost as if I am cocooning her in not just my ropes but also all my affesction, my lust and my feelings! I want and hope to find a woman/submissive who loves and enjoys bondage for her own sake and not just for mine!! With that said...
As i previously mentioned, I have been active in the lifestyle since age 21 (interested even younger) and that I strongly believe in love and hope to find it with someone with similar interest within the lifestyle as myself. I will have and must have certain elements involving bdsm in any and all future relationships this I know, but nothing is written in stone as far as limits are concerned. I will close simply by saying that, I truly do hope to hear from those of you, serious women who are seriously seeking a real man as well as a dominant.
Ladies, please have an interest or curiosity in being placed in bondage if you wish to talk seriously about compatibility with me! Meaning I have a large interest in physical restraint so it is important for me to meet a woman who enjoys the same interest! If you happen to have little or no experience with bondage please don't let that scare you away from messaging me. A desire, interest or fantasies of being restrained is good enought for me!
In closing, thank you ladies, for taking the time to read my profile and I hope to hear from those select women who feel that we just might be a match!
( I do have pics available of course.)
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