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Pan Female Submissive, 61,  Cheshire, United Kingdom
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I am submissive, experienced and bisexual but not stupid.

I lost my kindred spirit a few years ago and I am not looking to replace him. So I am not going to commit to anything at all. I use this site to stay in contact with old friend simple as that.

I am not owned and I do not want to be owned. I do not need to be trained as I am not a poodle nor do I wish to be used as I am not a lawn mower either. Most of all I do not suffer fools gladly.

I am happy very to chat if I have time however, it will be a short conversation if people have not read ALL my profile.

Please do not think that anybody has the right to tell me or others how they should act or worse what they should think as it just makes you look stupid.












 Submissive Female


 United Kingdom

 5' 5"

 135 lbs






 Lives For:

 Being Massaged

 Vibrators (Expert)


 Fine Dining


 Begging (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Collars (Expert)

 Corsetry (Expert)

 Electrical Play

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Rear End Play (Expert)

 Erotic touch (Expert)

 Humiliation (Expert)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Masks on Partner

 Modern Primitivism (Expert)

 Outdoor Bondage (Expert)

 Public Play (Expert)

 Shibari (Beginner)

 Spanking (Expert)

 Strap-Ons (Expert)

 Suspension Bondage (Expert)

 Watersports (Expert)




 Behind Worship (Expert)

 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Body Worship (Expert)



 Leashes (Expert)

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Wax Play (Expert)

 Whips (Expert)





 Eye Contact Restrictions (Expert)

 G-spot Stimulation (Expert)

 Genital Punishment (Expert)

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Orgasm Control

 Sensation Play (Expert)

 Role Playing

 Sensory Play



 Hair Pulling (Expert)





 Hard Limits:


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Journal Entries:
5/16/2023 6:54:25 AM

Today I read an old letter I found from a Dom, which was pre internet (Yes I am that old) and one part of it I thought was excellent, it was:

"Don't mistake servitude for stupidity."

4/30/2023 11:55:39 AM


4/23/2023 3:01:10 AM

Oh dear still getting messages from people who can't or won't read a profile and I am still getting one line messages from people.

I am still not answering them, oh well.

4/16/2023 4:01:54 AM

To save everybodies time both the people messening me and my own, I won't be answering messages with just two or three words. Nor will I be answering people who ask for photos and don't even have them on their own profiles.

Sorry if this sounds rude or bad manners it isn't meant to be but you get sick of messages like "Yo bitch" and "Nice ass I wanta fuck it" charming.

4/13/2023 6:40:40 AM

It was pointed out to me today (not for the first time) that if I was a man, I'd be called a Stud.

Still not sure how to take that.

2/26/2023 6:58:02 AM

Question to me today:

"If you can prove to me that you are over 21 years old I may take you as my slave but you will have to pay for your own realication to the US, so send proof."

My responce:

"Thank you for your very kind offer however; we have our own idiots over on this side of the atlantic without having to travel to the USA to meet another one."

His responce:

"You stuck up british bitch."

I did point out British is spelt with a capital B.



1/24/2023 9:10:26 AM

Since my last post I have been told I should change my name to Grumpy, told to get a life, to learn that men are the Master race, called a bitch, a whore and other thing you are not allowed to put.

In fact I am quite happy, not at all grumpty in the slightest, why is that you may ask?

It it because these people are so stupid it makes me laugh. 

1/16/2023 8:42:53 AM

I was asked the other day by a so called "Master"  "You have a great butt, have you ever been mistaken for a man?"

My answer "No, have you?" I didn't get a reply.

10/26/2022 1:19:44 PM

I am just going to block people who clearly have not read my profile so much easier all round.

9/17/2022 2:02:26 AM

Respect is a two-way street and just because some fool gives themselves at stupid name, does not give them the right to demand you call them Sir.

All it does is make them look stupid because not only is respect a two-way street, it has to be earnt.


7/6/2022 12:14:22 PM

To save any confusion I put the following, in bold and in red on my profile it is easy to see.

I am not owned and I do not want to be owned. 

Still the first question I am asked by people who tell me they have read my profile is.



6/11/2022 1:08:20 PM

I just thought I would point out that I live in Cheshire.

Cheshire is in the UK and not in the USA, I just thought it was worth pointing as so many people think it is.

6/7/2022 4:51:47 AM

You know I really hate it when some pompous idiot tells me what I think.

6/1/2022 12:23:55 PM

When are people going to realise that talkng to people they don't know like filth is not going to win them over.

Things like " Whore I like your tits" or "Slave is a well trained cunt." Both of which I got from so called Masters with ridiculas names in the last couple of days.

It doesn't make you dominant it makes you look an idiot.


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