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Female Submissive, 50, NAshua, New Hampshire
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About meltingpot
04062020, yes, I am aware that this is a long read.
deal with it.
I find myself having to change my profile once again and wait for the however long purgatory stay to get it approved, because the site is losing it bit by bit and the journal cannot be edited or touched at all anymore. Do not bother reading it, because I have put the things that are still relevant in this here profile.
I have been on this site off and on, for ages, since well before the name-change. More often than not to browse and have interesting conversations. Very rarely have I actually met people from on here, but doing so I made a few good friends.
My circumstances have changed a great deal over the years.
So here I am, back at the starting line.
I am primarily looking to get to know interesting people online
I want to explore kinks and what people experience when they indulge in them, I want to know what makes one tick, what brings the satisfaction, the orgasm, the intense zest for life.
Let me explore your minds and I will be a happy man.
Should an affinity or curiosity become such that we decide to take things further, IRL or virtually as may be, I am open for it.
I am currently not interested in a traditional-vanilla long term partner, but that does not necessarily mean kink based relationships of whatever kind are off the table.
Full disclosure I am short and stocky, have a few kilos too many that I am endeavouring to lose and, oh, the horror!! I have a beard.
Shut up, it is an awesome beard!
To be clear, I am here for me, not for you. If our kinks happen to align and we can get off on the same things, then that is a bonus. If you get off on being used and used again, and are willing to show submissiveness by occasionally putting my satisfaction above yours, we will get on like a house on fire. I am not a mean person outside of the bedroom, but for a while at least I aim to pursue my own pleasure. I will always try to give you what you are looking for too, but if I must choose between my and your satisfaction, it is an easy call to make.
That said, outside of play, I really am a considerate person and I will not ever stray, in and out of play, from sane, consensual, ined behaviours, nor do I intend to do lasting harm.
What follows is essentially an edit of my journal, to reflect my current circumstances.
1)after 5 years, I am single again. We parted amicably but it is still a sore subject. One I will not bore you with in our interactions. It does however mean that I am not looking for a partner at this time.
Partner and dom sub relations need not be the same thing.
2) I am a straight dom. Should you happen to be male and notice me looking at your profile, it is probably by accident, unless you are part of a couple, or a cuck.
3) I dislike voice chat and will not do it. A simple matter of preference, nothing more.
4) If point 3 leaves you concerned with me being real or fake, I have no problem showing myself on cam. I expect the same consideration in return should it be asked of me.
I agree that trust must be won before even showing oneself, especially true for a woman who might otherwise put herself at risk, but at some stage I will want to have a minimum of reassurance that I am talking with who I think I am talking with.
To this end, the age of internet offers marvelous and anonymous options such as Telegram, Skype, hangout or Kik.
I might put a pic of myself up again at a later stage.
5) Do not expect cyber nudity on my part.
That could only happen after we met in the flesh.
Should we decide to give online play a try, I might ask for pictures or video or even live videochat.
Double standards? Absolutely.
If that is an issue for you, feel free to deny me cyber nudity in return.
I would not hold it against you and we can still play in the theatre of the mind.
If however you feel confident enough to share explicit images of you with me, rest assured that they will go no further than that unless you actually ask for them to be shared
(I have had some odd requests over the years)
6) English is not my first language but I try to do my best.
Please do the same. I rarely use crude language, even though I am no prude. I think there is little need for it and there are many other ways to get the point across.
If it is something you get off on, I can of course make an effort.
7) Be upfront about what you are looking for.
If our conversation or its pace is not going in the direction or at the speed you want, let me know. Be an active participant in our dialogue and interactions. If it does not work for you, tell me instead of ghosting me.
Looking for micromanagement or for someone to impose their will on you and dominate you does not absolve you from holding up your end of the conversation, especially so in an online context.
8) It should not be necessary to say this, but we are all familiar with what goes on on this website, and sometimes people feel the need to not be themselves and to pretend to be someone else.
That is fine, just not my thing.
Please, do not pretend to be someone you are not outside of a scene.
I play actual tabletop roleplaying games for that experience.
I do not care what you pretend to be if we are playing out a scene, but outside of play, be yourself.
9) Whatever your level of experience is, we can talk.
I have introduced a small number of women to kink and to exploration of their sexuality and of BDSM.
I always take care to not do any lasting damage, intended or unintended, and not to suggest things you would not want me to.
I will however test your boundaries if you are open to that level of exploration, and no subjects should be taboo for conversation and, or, consideration.
Should you actually be more experienced than me in general or in specific kinks, I will welcome the opportunity to learn something new.
10) I have a limited experience with couples and with cuck situations.
In the latter, I am the bull. |
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