I am a 49 year old in the Atlanta area. I have been active real time in the “lifestyle” for over 15 years. My primary focus is a D/s Dominant. At 49 and medically retired the amount of time you have on your hands gives you a completely different outlook on life. Those who know me can attest to my strengths and weaknesses. I am loyal to a fault. I have been looking for what I want in a submissive partner longer than most have known about this lifestyle. I am picky and have said on many occasions that I will not settle for less than what I am looking for. As a dominant I believe that any successful relationship is a partnership that everyone contributes to and each is just as important in. Can a 24/7 TPE lifestyle work? Yes but it is rare and is based on trust and communication and is built on long hard work.
What I am looking for is hard to articulate; a submissive as well as a masochist; a lady that knows that submission is not all about whips, chains, floggers, and play parties, but hard work. As I said above service is important to me; but service is a two way street the dominant partner serves the submissive just as much as the submissive serves the dominant. Everyone brings something different to a relationship and what is important is how well each partner compliments each other.
The respect of a dominant for a submissive is more important than the submissive for the dominant. I will never refer to a submissive in writing in lower case for their name; they are a person not a thing.
