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I am an older very well educated mature hwp man who has been involved in bdsm and kink on and off since the 70s. I bring a measured approach to all of life, a wealth of experience and compassion, a deep appreciation for our differences, respect, and a solid understanding of the dynamics of a d/s relationship. I suppose you could describe me as a gentle or erotic sadist. I appreciate exploring eroticism. Yes I like spanking you and even marking you at times. Yes I like you in bondage, and yes I will explore every inch of you and at times wring you out like a wet dishcloth. You will find it all thrilling. I will treasure you and always be there when you need me. But I will never harm you or damage you. I will nurture you, be supportive of all you do and want to be. I will guide you when necessary, and you will have 110% of me all the time. I will be your rock.
Chemistry is the key to any successful relationship. And every successful relationship is about 2 people never just 1. I enjoy control, and I am very erotic. I enjoy being the leader, but I am just a man. I am not some bdsm god. I am soft spoken, but direct. I don't get angry. I don't react to anything in a knee jerk fashion. I am measured and calm but purposeful.
There is no way to know if I can be YOUR leader until I know you thoroughly. I need to understand your needs and wants and desires before I could ever presume to know if we would be a good fit. How do you know what you don't know? It takes a lot to build a successful positive relationship and it starts with friendship. Commitment, trust, respect, integrity, honesty are all the building blocks of what I seek. I want the proverbial best friend, companion, and lover who just happens to be submissive. If that sounds like you let me know and say hello.
I am sympathetic for those who suffer through the attentions of the many neanderthal knuckle draggers who are on this site. I am not here to yank your chain.
I have photos that I will gladly share with those that interest me.
I am a smoker (but smoke outside my home) so if that is an issue I understand.
I enjoy my life here in Florida, but I am able and willing to relocate for the right woman.
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