OK so this is a journey and as such things change:) I started out just looking for friends and information.Got that. in spades;) I made a couple of good friends here( and met every lunatic that ever picked up a paddle I think as well;)) and I gained a lot of insight.I am now clear on what I want and how I want to move forward.
So to you who might want to get to know me...
I want a Dom, I want someone to teach me and guide me.. but on my terms(oxymoron maybe but it's my journey now isn't it? When I find you and it becomes our journey I'll give you the reins no fear:)) I think I would prefer a more sensual Dom as opposed to super sadistic, and a Daddy type.I love the dynamic of evil one second sweet the next and I tend to like older men.This is not a must I would consider a younger man or a man in my age bracket if we clicked. I would like someone who at the core is good. You can be as twisted and evil and dark during play as you like.. I am pretty depraved.. but I prefer someone who has a good heart and for whom this is ONE aspect of their lives... NOT the sum total. We don't have to be best friends or even friends(although if we are that's nice as well) but I need to trust you so there has to be that core of decency underneath. I am very new here and I am figuring it out. I want to explore everything but I have limits and I need someone who can respect that.Someone who might help me stretch those limits but understands boundaries. Also I am very careful about new people in my life. If you cannot be patient with me you should not bother:) I will require SIGNIFICANT im /email chat before I meet you. When do meet you it will be in public with all safety nets in place until I trust you.I take this as a big process and a big committment.Whomever I choose, I am trusting with with my body and my psyche and my safety.You better believe I plan to choose well;) I am married. My husband is open to my exploration as this is not his thing. He will not be involved in any way.But he is my first priority in all things so you need to know that:)I cannot be available 24/7 or on demand and I cannot and will not stay with you for any inital "training period"And my husband or someone close to me will always know where I am and have all of your information and access. If you are not comfy with this you should REALLY pass me by :) I bring a lot to the table. I am pretty and smart and open minded to the extreme.I am all about sex and kink,but I can hold a conversation as well.I am very nurturing and accepting.I can be a little bratty sometimes but I think it just adds to the game.:) I am a plus size 16 so if that is an issue for you again.. reconsider.I have big breasts and hips and thighs and a roundish belly. I am NOT a swimsuit model. And I am perfectly gorgeous:) I am confident and sexy and I have no weird body issues. I am a women in my thirties who is way to much of a self indulgent venus to do the work required to have the body I had in my twenties:) So I like the temple I live in and I use it well.I don'T discount anyone for NOT liking plus size women, We are attracted to what we are attracted to..But the person I am seeking will:) I really do not have a preference as far as type or looks. I am all over the board as to what turns me on.Its all a combination of chemistry anyway so it's useles to speculate:) All candidates welcome.. So there is my little to get a Dom list.. Please contact me if you feel we might click:)'
I need to update add and CLARIFY a few things:) I took a lot of time wth my profile andI felt that I was very clear on what? as looking or and who I am. However,It seems that some of you have BIG trouble with comprehension. First, if your profile has no pic or info? I will not respond. If you, for whatever reason ,need to keep your profile picture free then? please add a picture if you write to me.Attraction is more than looks and I will NOT initially dismiss you if I do not like your picture. However,as I am putting myself on display for your consideration I expect the same in return. Second. I AM NOT AM NOT AM NOT AM NOT CANNOT SAY THIS ENOUGH LOOKING TO BE ANYONES SLAVE OR ANYONES EXCLUSIVE ANYTHING!NOT INTO TPE at ALL. AM not looking for a long term? live in in situation.AND I WILL NOT be you HOUSESLAVE. ?I am married and my husband is my primary relationship. I am looking for a play partner.That is all. A teacher,, a mentor, a guide yes... but NOT an exclusive thing and NOT in the capacity of a slave. So if that is what you are looking for I am not the one. I am not into extreme pain so if you are a extreme sadist I am also NOT FOR YOU. Third, I get a lot of mail. I try to answer it all but I don't live my life on this site.And sometimesI don't answer right away because I am not sure about you. Sending an email 5 minutes later will not impress me.I meant what I said about being careful. I will not give out my info right off the bat, I will not meet you after one phone conversation and I CERTAINLY will NOT flip on my webcam because you? TOLD me to by way of introduction.!!!!! And those of you who seem to have a problem with my rules , you can quit sending me emails asking if I am really a Domme;) A.If you? are that insecure I have no need for you and B. By being careful I am displaying intelligence and self respect. In my world, Submissive does not mean stupid.If you take issue with a woman showing caution in regards to potential? partners then I suspect you are just prowling for a women with crap self esteem to knock around. So find her elsewhere please:) Ok done;) back to my normally? sweet Self...
