maturegirl

i read this and tweaked as my own:

What does submission mean to me?

Submission to me has many forms, to speak of submission to others to try to explain it is truly a difficult thing to do.   “Vanillas just don't understand the deep relationship we have with the Dominants in our lives.  

Submission to me, is a state of mind for both partners. The Dominant must earn of the girl’s submission.  You must have their trust completely.  For a Dominant to do what You do to us, requires that deep seeded trust.  Without it, You are just beating her for Your own pleasure.  When you have a pure Dominant/submissive or slave relationship, compassion and respect also come into play.  You as the Dominant, must be able to listen to our sounds, to know where we are mentally and physically in the scene or the play time. 

The act of submission to the Dominant is simply the act of love, passion and the trust within the relationship.  This allows You to enjoy her.  In turn, she will enjoy what is felt thru your tools, your words, and your actions.  Being a submissive not only is the respect she has for you as a Dominant, lover and a person to be able to give You total control over her life, but also the respect she has for herself as a woman. 

And in the end, You the Dominant, must be there to protect her and care for her in every aspect, before, during after and in between any play time Y/you may have with her.