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	I am a very experienced, mature, Dominant male living close to the sea in South Ayrshire. I entered the lifestyle 40 or so years ago when I first spanked my then "wife to be" and we developed interests from that point. I was a lecturer at Nottingham Business School (and at other universities) and then spent a number of years in international management consultancy, principally in Education and Human Resource Development, working mainly for UK Government Agencies and foreign governments. I now have a smaller management consultancy business which is partially supported by the Scottish Executive. I was raised in Yorkshire and I have lived in Hull, Nottingham and Bury, Greater Manchester, with brief spells being located in London, Derby, Earl Shilton (all UK), Kuala Lumpur and Port Dickson in Malaysia, Jakarta in Indonesia, Louisville in Kentucky and Vancouver in Canada. I used to live and work in my 150 year old, semi-detached stone cottage, in countryside - but have now opted for an apartment on the outskirts of a small town overlooking fields and hills. I have a pro-sub next door neighbour (with her own Dom) and I am located within easy travelling distance of the rail and coach stations/terminals - The Atlantic Ocean, and Turnberry Golf Course, are less than 15 miles away. My location is ideal for indoor and outdoor play - fields surround my home and woods and forests are literally a matter of 200-600 yards away. The new in-house dungeon is being prepared. Not as good as the one "along the road" but we will eventually get there. However, I manage that for the owner of the property in any case. I can accommodate and host 24/7. My interests in bdsm are very varied although I do have limits. I believe that the M/s or D/s relationship (even if just play) should be one of mutual consent with lots of understanding on the part of the Dom. He MUST earn the respect of the submissive (respect can never be beaten into someone) and guide them to fulfillment in their emotional and physical needs, whilst also ensuring that she serves him to the full and meet his requirements. My limits are, therefore, linked in some ways to a sub/slave needs. Mutual agreement. I believe a submissive can be supported in life and in her career and can have independence as long as she recognises and respects her Master's wishes. I am fit, strong and healthy and lead an active life. I still love to walk in the hills and ride my mountain bike. And lots of other things as well. My tastes are varied and I love all kinds of music - but my passion is cooking, at which I am very good - and that is not bragging! I seek friends or play-partners and maybe much more (LTR), but that is down the line. I manage the business activities of MistressBristles (on this site) and she bears my youngest children. We are not "committed" - it is a business relationship, as I had with her mother and grandmother before. I am no longer active in the "scene" - I once ran the Ayr Munch - but I host decent parties when home. Looking forward to hearing from you.

3/7/2011 7:11:45 AM

Having spent several years here - introduced several new people, seen people like Terri Pheonix pass on to pastures new (she died tragically young), and brought my own "family" to CM - I am saddened to see that people are still slagging not just me but others also.

Just because we have a distyle - and actually use our real names - my name IS Martin Barrass - I do not see why some see it as unusual.

My partner gets the same and so does our submissive.

OK - rant over.

1/8/2008 3:55:01 PM

I am saddened to say that a good friend of mine - Melova on this site - Terri Phoenix in life - passed away at the age of 28 on 1st January, thankfully peacefully after a sudden illness. Those of her friends here may not know. She had planned a new life but it was not to be. If anyone wishes further details then I shall try to help.

7/12/2007 8:05:23 AM

Many profiles say "no one liners" - so you write a decently constructed and detailed message and get the reply "too long - didn't read" -- I suppose some people will never be satisfied.

12/3/2006 9:53:22 AM

It is strange.

No one seems to understand that a M/s relationship does not have to be sexual in context.

No one seems to understand that a M/D with several submissives/slaves can be monagomous to a chosen partner.

No one seems to understand that even in a poly relationship the female (or male) submissives can be straight and not have to participate in activities beyond their limits.

Limits are limits. Agreed in advance. Strictly enforced. No M/D worth his salt ignores the needs and desires of a sub/slave under his control.

Ignorance is bliss they say. It is about time some in this alternative lifestyle had some lessons to teach them true Domination and the responsibilites that go with it.


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