markwoods

,I am a 44 year old dominant male,based in hertfordshire, seeking a female who wants to explore her submissive side through regular meets. Do you fantasize about giving up control, having to follow orders, being used, punished, tied up? Are you excited by the thought of being on your hands and knees at a controlling man's feet ready to do as told? Maybe it's time to explore these fantasies.

About me: I am an educated, professional white male who has had a few discreet D/s relationships in the past. I am hoping to find a sub or sub-curious female who has a similar lifestyle as mine, that is, leads a normal everyday life, one where no one would suspect her fantasies, and is interested in exploring them through safe, discreet meets. I don't want to know too much about your personal life and will respect your privacy, just as I expect the same. I am not looking for a girlfriend, wife or live-in sub. My areas of interest are wide, but I respect all hard limits and always work within them. That's not to say that I don't push limits, something that I would think an eager sub would want. Areas that I am always open to, and keep in mind that these are not a menu or requirements, are over the knee spankings, bondage - discipline, role play, obedience training, Some of my favorite toys are collars, leashes, clothespins, nipple clamps, straps, gags and rope.

About you: Past experience is by no means a requirement. In fact, I would prefer to find someone inexperienced but eager. A married sub or someone with a boyfriend is perfectly fine. You should be open to experimenting within your limits, and be open to having your limits expanded. You should be articulate enough to discuss your particular interests, fantasies and limits in advance so that I can determine if we are a match and learn enough about your submissive side to know your boundaries. Again, you do not have to be experienced and may not have a clear-cut idea of how far you want to go at this point. That is ok, it's my job to lead you there. Most importantly, you should be ready to give up control when we are together and be ready to learn your place as my obedient sub.

Some final thoughts: I do everything safely and sanely, nothing dangerous and always respect limits. I suspect that many women want to explore this side of them, but feel that they are too inexperienced or interested at starting at too mild of a level to get involved with someone. If this is the case, don't let that stop you. I can be very mild to very extreme. We will start at a level that is right for you. If we start at a very mild level, all I ask is that you let me train you to go beyond that at a fair pace. I feel that the level of D/s that brings excitement to both sides is whatever level is right on the edge of what you're ready for and what you're not ready for. As long as we always stay at that point, it is rewarding for both of us. So if this type of situation appeals to you, email me back with some information about you and let's discuss.