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Male Submissive, 25, washington, Washington D.C.
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Male Dominant, 42, lafayette, Indiana
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Female Submissive, 18
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About MarkC
Poly household looking for Female bi-sub/switch in Florida.
Things I'm looking for in a female.
I don't want a drunk. I don't want someone violent. I want someone who has a job. I want someone who will help out with the house, and be willing to work together for everyone's betterment present and future. I want someone with an IQ of 110 or better. (there are plenty of IQ tests out there) I want someone who will respect family. I want someone interested in the long haul, I believe relationships get better with time.
Things I will provide:
I will listen to what's bothering you. If need be, I will set aside time for you to talk about whatever you want to talk about.
I will hurt you physically, and I will push you. (This is BDsm ...)
*Physically I don't leave marks or "damage" so I don't tend to leave trophies to show off with.
*Emotionally/mentally I believe we need to grow.
I will care about you, but you will have to earn it, and love will not be quick.
I will be as open with you as you can handle, to the point of brutally honestly open. Don't ask if you don't want to know... seriously! (many say they want honesty, but that's only when it's limited to a couple of subjects)
I will be able to "fix" whatever you want to fixed, but I will do it in a way that works, not some PC way that does nothing. (Again don't ask for it unless your willing to work for it because your negative feelings will get transferred to me over it, and that's not in my best interest)
** It should be noted that what you want fixed and how deeply rooted it is in you will dictate how long it will take to change the behavior**
Things about me:
I'm ISTJ - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ISTJ. (I would say Introvert Thinking is my Dom behavior)
I am smart, and I will be able to answer questions you didn't think could be answered with little knowledge about the situation. (this may make you feel stupid, sorry in advance that is not my intention)
I will be your protector, but I will not be your bully... Well unless I feel like it. :P
I tend to be a confrontational/aggressive person, but I will contain that if it bothers you in public. (I am not an abusive person, the difference is big IMO)
I will resist any form of manipulation. (If you like to top from the bottom you need not apply)
I will tell you the bad parts, even in the beginning. (You should consider this proof of my honesty, but I know that most will just see the bad before they "invest" and choose to move along.)
I'm very sarcastic. I think it's funny, but not everyone "gets" my humor.
If there is anything else you want to know, just ask. I have tired to be through and let you know who I am. I am not going to play mind games, and I'm not going to leave you wondering were you stand. I hope you can value this, and I hope that you see the value in being open and admitting faults rather than pretending to be something so the other person will get invested just to find out your not what you've portrayed yourself to be.
Thanks for reading my book. :P
Mark
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I'm so tired of my ex-wifes BS. Hmm maybe i should give a bit of a background before I start this up. Mary (my ex-wife) has custody of my Heather (my daughter). I've went to court 3 times with different proof of abuse and none of it seems to overcome the fact that I don't have ovaries. One of the police reports Mary stated she feared for her life and the life of her children. They took his gun away from him. That court hearing was thrown out before it even went to court as frivilous. I had to pay her court costs on that one also. Anyway in nov of 06 the stepfather did another round of brusing Heather up, so I was driving up to Memphis to have a look. Mary promptly threw Heather out of the house because she was disrupting her family. (I didn't mention Heather was part of her family also) Anyway since 11/6 she's been living with me and going to school here. Her grades have improved and she enjoys living with me. Mary still has custody and loves to throw it in my face. I'm so tired of it I can't stand it. Anyway as she was going up there for the summer. (and dreading it) I sent her alittle early so my mother could spend a week with Heather before she went to Mary's. My mother decided to tell Mary about this, so now Mary has Heather, and has decided that we are going behind her back and lying to her. Because of this Heather isn't coming back down to live with me anymore. Now I'm simplifing it, because there were alot of threats that my mother was going to jail for kidnapping, I was going to jail, she was going to sue me, and numerous other pleasent things. She so badly wants to hold custody of my daughter over my head. And I am SO tired of it. I'm tired of her lies, and her BS. It's hurting everyone and most of all it's hurting Heather. I don't understand why Mary doesn't see how much pain she is causing Heather. Well I'm done with my rant, I guess a desire to protect and nurture her child is too much to ask from Mary. |
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