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Male Submissive, 27, Cerritos, California
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About marissalynn
I am a 27 year old submissive from Massachusetts.
I will say right off the bat that I am simply into Discipline. I am NOT looking for a Master, but welcome friendship and welcome any REAL disciplinarians to contact me.
I have had many experiences with a lot of different people. Some wonderful and some not so wonderful. I was in a D/s relationship for four years. Through this experience I changed and learned a lot about myself. I pretty much know what I want, and what I am looking for. But that information comes with time. I am picky because I don't just trust and confide in anyone and many find it very difficult to really "reach" me, so to speak. I believe that kindness, compassion and forgiveness is what I live for, which tends to be a weakness.
I am very open-minded and accepting to new ideas, however I am very outspoken and expect for my feelings and opinions to be as equally respected and I respect others. I have been labeled by many of my close friends (be it Doms or subs) as, "not the typical sub." I don't know whether to take that as a compliment or not. lol. But I don't like to be typical. I'm just me and if that's different than everyone else, than that's great.
I consider myself to be very loyal, respectful and honest. When I feel I've found the right person, there isn't anything I'll hold back. I'll give ever part of myself to who I'm with.
I am very outspoken and not afraid to say how I feel. I find that submission comes naturally to me in every day life and whether in the past I have wanted to escape it or not, I can't.
I don't play games and I'm not interested in power hungry sexist people who are looking for someone to control in every way. If that's what you want, than that is not me. |
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I think I've come to the realization that although a majority of people I meet here are fake, disgusting, or rude... that there are also very real people here. And that finding that "special" person, be it friend, Master, Mistress, slave, submissive, Spanker, spankee... etc.. takes time. You have to weed out all the fakers, all the scammers... and find those special people that will either fulfill your every desire or give you the discipline you need.
No, I haven't found anyone that truly understands or cares about my needs yet. But that doesn't discourage me, because I will. I will find that Disciplinarian who I can trust to do what is best for me.... not for themselves.
So to all those out there who are discouraged and wanting to quit... don't. Its who you are, and just like the real world, finding the right person is a uphill battle. But I think in the end... it's worth the wait.
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It really sucks when you decided you liked someone, and you thought they liked you too. But hey, I'm use to it.?
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Life seems to be looking a little more promising.?
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Contrary to popular belief, there is no set "model" for a submissive to follow or "checklist" that needs to be met. I feel that is just an excuse for these less intelligent, dimwitted, annoying, sexist and arrogant Doms/Dommes/etc. to use when they come across a submissive who is either smarter than them or knows what they want and won't be told otherwise.
Just because we submit to you, doesn't mean we are "beneath" you mentally or physically. On the contrary, it may just be you who are beneath us because in the end, we are the ones in control. Unfortunately, some just can't handle that.
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It is nice to know that not all people here are idiots. I appreciate those that have reached out to show support or comforting words. Perhaps there could be something promising and fulfilling to look forward to. I suppose time will tell.?
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I find it interesting how some people message me and are the complete opposite of absolutely everything I mentioned I was seeking in my profile. Do people actually even read profiles or just go around messaging every name they come across?
I find it infuriating, especially when they show a total lack of respect, and yet try to demand respect out of me after just one message that was completely uncalled for. Sorry guys, but that don't fly with me. You are not worth my time.
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