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Here's to giggles and an unexpected smile from a stranger...
Happy Hump'it Day! |
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I really believe that people writing to strangers asking "What do you think about K9?" should be banned from this site or any other site.
First let me clarify that it's not called "K9" it is called bestiality. Call it what it is unless of course you also get that sick in the stomach feeling when you see the proper term for it therefore opt to call it something that you are more comfortable with.
There are social, moral, personal, and tremendous health reasons as to why bestiality is absolutely hazardous to anyone. I cannot even list all the diseases that ARE transmitted via various body fluids and contact with animals.
Why would a man (assumed man since their profile states they are male) write and ask anyone what they "feel about K9?"
I will tell you what I feel:
Domesticated dogs are not meant for kinky or sexual activities. People most often love dogs and have them because they are loyal, loving, protective, provide a companionship of sorts, they can be funny as hell and playful. I am sure there are even more reasons but I am certain that most animal rights activists, especially dog lovers, will tell you it is abuse to force any animal into sexual activity especially outside their species.
What I feel about being asked in a message about K9 is beyond repulsed and almost saddened. Please don't write asking me about bestiality it is A. Illegal in most states and B. Against my moral fiber C. Repulses me
Thanks!
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Hope everyone is having a lovely Monday! The weather is perfect and so far the day holds great possibilities :) |
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It's really sweet of people to write however please take a few moments to read my profile. It will save those of you that are outside my local area the time of writing to someone that isn't interested in long distance.
I will state it here as well that in no way am I interested in chatting exclusively online, on cam, nor do I believe in or have interest in some sort of "virtual collar"
If we are not in the same area, NO more than 1 hours drive from one another then I am not interested.
I don't do online relationships, the term alone is an oxymoron. |
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It's been several months since I have felt compelled to make a journal entry. The last few days has provoked a bit of thought in me, after I received a message from a,and we will assume gender since I've never met this person,a man.
In his initial message he wrote, "I would like to see a full body picture of you....I am interested."
So I in turn asked what exactly was it he was "interested in." And obliged his request for another photo, PG of course.
His response to me was, "only interested in true sub..nice pic"
So then I went to respond in kind and learned that he had blocked me. So after re-reading his 2nd message I figured he had deduced I am not a "true sub."
So after thinking about this for a few minutes I have decided that IF a man cannot see his way to allowing a retort after making vague comments then perhaps it is best for that sort of man to NOT write to me at all.
Conversation is a volley and while we all have a right to block whomever we please, I really felt it was uncalled for as a reactionary measure to some sort of imaginary conversation he must have had in his head.
In closing I suppose I would like to state that I welcome intellectual, respectful, and tasteful conversations, however if my having a brain offends someone then perhaps it is a better choice to steer clear of me entirely. Because I will not dumb myself down for anyone at all.
That I can articulate cognitive sentences doesn't make me a "less true or genuine submissive." What it makes me is a woman as opposed to a child. And I'd prefer adult men to contact me over pubescent egos.
Perhaps I expect too much? |
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Please understand that I am not open to "relationships" with anyone that is outside my local area.
Really, I am not relocating to New Zealand or California or anywhere else for that matter. I am happy where I live. I am confident that there ARE people within my local proximity to get involved with.
"Distance can be overcome" etc, etc, is not going to change my mind. I am sure there are women in most areas that are in the lifestyle within a man's local area too.
If you're in the Savannah area then I am open to communications and getting to know people. |
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Here's to the new year!! I hope it's off to a prosperous start for everyone and that the days, weeks, and months to come will prove to be happy for all!
I am keeping my fingers crossed :) |
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It's funny isn't it, a persons perception of another person based solely on the written word. No influx of voice, no body language, no facial expressions, nothing other than letters piled together to make words that make sentances.......
Personally I like to error on the side of giving people the benefit of the doubt rather than to assume myself to be so superior that I can read into words that are one-dimensional and judge a persons intentions.
Just an observation.... |
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So perhaps a quick entry is in order:
Please understand that after 1 message or in an initial message I do NOT want someone's phone number.
Please conduct yourselves with respect for yourself and try to avoid seeming so pushy or desperate. Please?
I mean no offense but really, who offers their phone number in an initial message? Especially when my profile is very clear about the fact that I do not even entertain the idea of relationships with someone that is hundreds and hundreds of miles away!
I look for people within a local or as local as possible proximity to me.
I do not want the following:
1. Online "relationships
2. Weekend hook ups
3. Lunch hook ups with married men
4. NO CAM - if you want that there are plenty of free porn sites out there. Please refer to them.
4. NO married men- I will NOT change my stance on this. See your wife for your needs.
5. Please stop sending cock pictures they are not enticing |
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So how to say this politely...
I DON'T want pictures of mens cocks......it's just not very attractive nor is does scream "Dominant" it screams desperate....sorry
Just sayin' |
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Hickory dickory dock
an ant ran up my sock
bit my shin
made me cringe
Hickory dickory dock
Sand fleas and ants are my LEAST favorite thing about working at the shore :(
Of course there isn't anything else to complain about. What's not to love about being able to peer out at the ocean every single day!!
Have a great weekend everyone! |
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“Rest assured, you make perfectly good nonsense. I understand you one-hundred-percent not at all.”
― Richelle E. Goodrich
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I don't normally dwell on idiocy. But in an age when there is little if any way at all to hold people accountable for the way they "speak" to us online, I just felt that I should revisit my unsavory experience from the other day just one last time.
What I implore people to do is this. Write to people the way you'd address them face to face. Would you really cuss someone out after two exchanges just because their ideas didn't agree with yours and the differences were of no consequence to either of you?
I implore people to write to one another in a way that would reflect positively on themselves and doesn't leave people with a foul taste in their mouths and disappointed in the "evolution" of human behavior.
The internet is an invaluable resource, or can be, let's all do our part, please, to use it wisely and for good rather than to act like children having verbal tantrums because no one can turn us (literally) over a knee and beat our asses as we deserve for being such errant jerk-offs.
I will also hold myself accountable, I am not immune to stupidity but at least I am woman enough to admit it accept it and develop myself in spite of it.
I leave the masses with just one last little thing
"When a man points a finger at someone else, he should remember that four of his fingers are pointing at himself."
Louis Nizer |
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So a married man wrote to me yadda yadda etc etc....(fast forward past the details to the important stuff)...
So I said my profile indicated I am not at all interested in married men. I will not get involved with them.
His reply "sometimes a persons mind changes after writing a profile"
So, to clarify:
In no way will I ever be interested in any married man for a relationship. I will not violate someone's marriage for some romp in the world of kinky sex.
I differentiate in regards to men who are in marriages and their wives are also in the lifestyle (THATS different!).
I won't be someones secret, lunch hour fuck, weekend getaway, or midnight phone call stolen in a moment when your wife is sleeping.....
My mind will not change on this matter.
So hope that clarifies :) |
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Heading out of town for about a week......
au revoir !!! for now :) |
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It is hard to imagine a more stupid or more dangerous way of making decisions than by putting those decisions in the hands of people who pay no price for being wrong.
Thomas Sowell
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I was recently asked; "What brought you to collarme" Not an uncommon question really and one I am open to usually answer. So I replied in kind but felt compelled after sending it to share my answer a bit more publicly.
What brought me to collarme?
I honestly do not have a logical answer to that question, at least not very logical to myself. I wish I did then perhaps I'd know which route to take when I get to it.
After my last relationship, I was left with emotional debris and in Dec 2010 I decided to take some time and just take care of me, piece back together the shards of my emotional state I guess you could say.
In the end I guess I will figure out the exact reason I am even attempting to use this site.
Part of my response to the person that asked me was this, the final part:
.....perhaps I am here simply looking for a little hope. A little hope lends to developing faith. Having faith provokes courage. Courage enables us to take a chance.
So I am here to find hope I guess.
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Am off to Savannah for the evening!! Did I mention how much I love Georgia :) |
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Okay so a little motherly bragging today.....can't keep it in any longer!!
My amazing son, who plays college basketball
has been named Defensive Player of the Year! As a freshman!!
Okay gloating done!! |
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Since I am no artist of written word nor philosophy for that matter, I enjoy reading and leaning about the thoughts and ideologies of others; especially those considered to be great minds. So yes it leads me to toy with collecting quotes from books I enjoy and other resources.
So here is one for the masses:
“The two hardest tests on the spiritual road are the patience to wait for the right moment and the courage not to be disappointed with what we encounter.”
Paulo Coelho
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When I consider what being submissive means to me it is perhaps a bittersweet acknowledgement that in choosing to accept my nature that it often times leaves me alone in a world that seems otherwise hectic.
Being submissive to me is simply living within the natural skeleton that supports the flesh, muscles, heart beat of what the outside world sees at the aesthetic "me."
But enough deep thought I think. I have just been thinking a lot lately about what being a submissive means to me. I consider the literal definition and it seems to apply but then I also consider the other meanings. The diversity of what it means to the plethora of women, and I suppose men too, that pepper our communities wide and large.
So in the end, I guess I just get right back to where I started. Living as a submissive to another is about finding those places, those times, those gestures that are shared between two people in order to move forward, together, to reach a common goal that is encouraged by the dominant of the pair.
Anyways, just my thoughts this afternoon and from the last several days.
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The whole commerce between master and slave is a perpetual exercise of the most boisterous passions, the most unremitting despotism on the one part, and degrading submissions on the other."
Thomas Jefferson |
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Just an observation.....
When a horse gets to water and time and time again it refuses to drink. Wouldn't you think that the horse may just NOT be thirsty??
Just sayin'
P.S. If it squawks like a duck it's definitely not a horse |
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So far Georgia is a lovely state. Well of course I already knew that because I'd been here but to actually see things that the locals enjoy has been really fun thus far.
Thankfully I have 2 really great friends that live within an hour of each other so I am not totally flying solo here.
Hope all are having a great start to their week! |
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Well it's official.....
I am now a resident of the lovely state of Georgia!!! |
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