MarieLaLeurie

Female Submissive, 37, boston, Massachusetts

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Gentlemen, At this time I am involved in a relationship. However, I am encouraged to continue to explore interactions with other people if I so choose, if I think I would learn something from it, if it would right some past wrong in my heart, if it just sounds like it might be alot of fun. You must keep in mind, however, that my loyalty lies with him. He has earned it.

Gentlemen, I appreciate your interest, and I feel I must further specify What I seek. I seek a man who will respect me as a woman. That's it. Not a submissive, not a slave, not a prop to your ego, but as a person and as a woman. I have worked very hard to shed like an old dirty skin ideas and attitudes that were not good for me. I have been relentless in my pursuit of self-honesty. Because of that, there are many typical behaviors of the BDSM world that I am simply uninterested in. I have progressed beyond a need for them, and they would not be good for me to engage in. I will not be a punching bag for a sadist. That requires a masochist. A masochist has some internalized self-hatred that leads them to desire being punished. I have no such desire. I also have no desire to be humiliated. I am not afraid of social rejection or that secretly I'm not really good enough for the group. Attempts to humiliate me will likely only irritate me and reveal your weaknesses to me. I know exactly who I am, and I will not be pigeon holed by an angry little boy who is all grown up now into a category that suits his insecurities and makes him feel powerful in the world. If your thought process contains the idea that you could "use" me for something, then I am not the one for you. Yes, I believe it is possible to be extremely submissive and yet not bear the brunt of anyone else's anger at their own sense of powerlessness. I believe that a D/s dynamic can be wholly positive, I have had some experiences that have proven that to me. I also know that I love to be submissive down in the core of my being. It has happened, I know how it feels, and I adore it. I want to do more of it, but only with someone who actually makes me feel that way. Telling me to bend over so you can hit me with various implements is guaranteed not to make me feel that way. You must be able to engage my mind and my sexuality and inspire me to want you. That's how it works. Otherwise, the submission is a lie and your victory a sham.

I am not the author of this piece. I got it as a chain mail. However since I liked this, I thought I'd pass this on to you. A man asked a woman he was pursuing the question: 'What kind of man are you looking for?' She sat quietly for a moment before looking at him in his eyes & asked, 'Do you really want to know?' Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes.' She began to explain, 'As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man "what can you do for me that I can't do for myself?" I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man... or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, "What can you bring to the table?"' The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought & stated, 'I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life.' He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain. She said, 'I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden. I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man. I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader, teacher, and provider to the lives entrusted to him. I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of himself. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy.' When she finished her speech, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, 'You are asking a lot.' She replied, 'I'm worth a lot.'

Gentlemen, I appreciate your interest, but just because I am interested in being submissive does not mean I am easy. Just because you have a cock does not mean I must submit to it. Please approach me with common courtesy, or do not approach me at all. If you believe that you do not need to earn my trust before you earn my body, then I have nothing to say to you. I do not want to place arbitrary restrictions regarding age or weight on people who contact me, but I am a woman with an established relationship with my pussy. I'm not going to do anything sexual with someone who does not turn me on. That is why I am here. If I wanted sex with an average idiot who didn't care whether or not I enjoyed myself, I could go down to the corner bar and spend less time typing and get some free drinks out of the deal. That is not what I want, so please don't approach me like I am a blow-up doll. If that's what you want, please pursue those interests elsewhere.

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