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Male Submissive, 45, Portland-Auburn, Maine
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Male Dominant, 26, Cannes
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Male Submissive, 45, troy, Michigan
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About marcsincharge
***Married to the lovely crystalmoon!***
Well, I've been lucky enough to find a soulmate on here whose wants and needs match mine.
Always pleased to chat to anyone, but no longer looking.
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If you want a Dom with perfect eyesight, why don't you just say so instead of disguising your profile with a dark-coloured background? They're jolly difficult to read! |
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I never realised until the other day that training a sub included giving instruction on how to mend a fuse. |
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Funny, isn't it, how words change their meanings over time. I've just spotted, on a well-known online auction site, the splendidly-titled "Toppng Book for Girls", published about 1930. I fear someone is in for a BIG disappointment. |
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A while ago I complained that I just don't get unsolicited messages. Well, the ice is beginning to thaw, thank goodness. Either it's becoming more acceptable for girl subs to contact Doms, or there are some broader-minded subs on here than before. One thing, though. There's only room in my life for one sub who calls me "sir", and that position's taken. Please call me Marc. |
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There seems to be a growing trend amongst subs registering on CM not to put anything in their profiles. Of five showing as new users today, four have put nothing at all.
What's the point? How's a Dom to know whether there's any point in contacting them?
Come on, girls, give us a clue about what you want! |
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There are a couple of very patient subs out there with time to explain things. I think there are probably a number of subs who are happy to chat to Doms - any advice they give might help a sister sub find what she's looking for. My main problem now is to know when I'm abusing their patience - it's all too easy to message "hey, subbie, this happened - what do I do?" but they have lives to lead, too. |
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I think I just frightened someone off. It's difficult to know where to draw the line. Do you come on gently, and just get the players, or more strongly and get the lifestylers? |
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It's been a fascinating couple of days. The feedback I get is that the girl subs get 20-40 messages a day (which is 20-40 unsolicited ones a day more than I get). Then I look at the number of male doms, compared with the number of female subs, and I get some sort of a clue.
Aren't there a lot? How many are for real, and how many just enjoying a little free, online fantasy fodder? Again, from feedback I've had, there are an awful lot of the latter. (Forget the death threats, guys, I get plenty of those at work!)
I have learnt an astonishing amount in just two days. How long does it take before you know it all? I hope I never clain to. If I ever make like I do, you'll be sure to tell me, won't you? |
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